I tend to bottom out with most girls I'm with. I have guys that arrange for me to be with their gf or wife. I've found that once you get the g spot she's very satisfied and the rest just goes to the bottom end. Girth is important or you just have to move it a lot more. I'm not bragging but this is true life talk from experience with quite a few encounters. Hope it helps as its all about your confidence and willingness to please her.