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Virginity -religion aside
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healother said:
It is off to a better start than 90% of my married friends (ei I see their fighting and arguments sometimes), and regardless of what you may think, there sure seem to be swingers we've meet at meet and greets and who are on our web sites who have been married 20-30 years and still seem to be happy together.
The swinging thing extends from the fact that we both have a different view on sex than the averge person due to factors in our childhoods (ei we don't really see sex as emotionally bonding or anything more than entertainment, but rather quality time,cuddling and talking about our feelings seem to bring us closer together), my wife is very much bisexual and has been since her early teens, and we both have extremely high sex drives. Also, we both enjoy knowing that the other is enjoying something pleasurable. As long as we both had a good time, there is no animosity or jelousy involved.
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jackangel said:
lol, not bad.
I don't have any but she looked a LOT like this lady but without the oversized fake rack........
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healother said:
LoL healother, until you have a few of each you are not qualified to even make that statement.
some kids i know are some really cool kids and youd never guess they were virgins cause they dont "act like it"healother said:I havent turned down hot ass yet, just a couple average girls with ugly personalities. (yes a chick has tried coming onto me before)
its tough to say whether i'd crack under temptation or not with a hottie, because i am fairly shy person so i dont really get to know hot women well that often, and i've never had a g/f yet.
but i'd like to believe im doing this by choice.
yeah, it sucks hanging around on a board where every is obsessed with pussy and im trying to stay a virgin. i feel like it creates a rift between me and the board members (and my friends in real life who think im crazy to stay virgin, etc) but staying true to myself is more important. i just wish people on boards like these werent just constantly telling me to give it up, etc.
hold the phone here, isnt it possible to be in a relationship with a woman without having sex? Isnt it possible to gain relationship experience without having sex?
for real
and yeah, i spank the monkey.
thats the one thing, i know all the young tight asses are walking away, and the longer i wait the less the chance i will get of tapping it, so you better believe that pisses me off.
oh, and if i ever have sex before marriage, believe me im going to wrap it, get her tested, take precautions, etc. there is no f***in way im going to end up with a childsupport check or an STD.
i hear you, thanks for the shared words.
i dont understand what is so cool about virginity either. thats why i made this thread. the reason i dont have sex is primarily due to religion, but i just figured id throw other ideas out there, like the idea of being pure and stuff like that.
i have no problem trying to be the dominant one, but i hate being corrected. like this one time where i didnt know how to swing dance, but i ran out on the floor anyone and picked a random chick and threw her around a little. she got pissed and then taught me some moves off to the side afterwards, LOL. It was weird.
If I do have sex before marriage, I think it would do it more than to just find who might be a good wife. I'd probably do it if I thought the opportunity was worth it, yes if there was a really hot chick, i might do it, IF I knew she was clean and that it'd be safe. I wouldnt restrict it to just women i was in a long term relationship with. but as of now i dont believe that decision is mine to make.
virgins learning it together seems like the best option (if i were to remain a virgin til marriage)
in what way is it BS?
dont worry, im not going to start having sex with school children, lol
theres gotta be some other christian girls like me out there. but yeah, it does suck saving it when no one else does.
yeah, i never understood the whole unsafe sex thing. if i were to fool around, id at least do it safely.
and asking for advice on boards is stupid im sure. i have no idea why i keep on doing it.
you resonded seriously to one of my threads! yay!
about the only sharing it with a few people, im just saying that sex could probably be fun if it was shared with more than just 2-3 people. If I was not abiding by the bible, i wouldnt limit sex to just women i loved. pleasure is important too!
there are some other virgins out there or people who believe in sex being sacred, i could 'belong' with that group of people if i remained a virgin. The point i was trying to make about virgins, is that there is definately some desire for them, since they are rare. some women want a virgin.
religion aside, i dont think being a virgin makes someone a higher character. but when you throw that whole religion thing in, yeah, virgins are considered more 'righteous'
well in Christian circles, they believe its a God made thing. But this thread wasnt about religion, so i think the rest of the stuff you said makes sense from a secular standpoint!
Do you even believe in hell?
I have heard of secondary virginity, what about it?
ok... ive also heard its possible that people may think about what sex is like with someone else, BECAUSE theyve had sex with others. and that then they know what they are missing out on while just having sex with their wife.
so cant that logic go both ways?
and if i want to 'get it all out of my system now', whats to say im not going to want to 'get it all out of my system' again later? of course i wouldnt be able to, cuz id be married, and that may make it even more suckier!
ok, is it possible to determine physical compatibility with someone without having sex with them? Some say it is, via communication and other physical contact. But of course some say it isnt. I'm curious what other EFers have to say about this as well.
so what do you mean by people of success? Those who are happy?
And what is wrong with living it up? Provided precautions are taken of course. I guess I know that many people are happy when their years were well spent. And I know there are many things that I wish I would have done differently in the past (things not related to sex).
I'm just hoping that sex doesnt become one of those things, that I wish I had more of. It is true that women only stay young for so long...
you dont need to have it create a rift, at least over here nobody gives a shit about eachothers personal discisions, its not a big deal and it will only create a rift if u let it, just be urself and quit worrying bro
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