Virginity -religion aside

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how can you not know how to get someone off?

cattle prod + bondage gear + extreme acts of degradation + love

 

[hotzie]

just go get some snatch or shut up about it seriously.

 

[Lestat]

just go get some snatch or shut up about it seriously.

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[Bikini Mod]

really? so most people who cheat in relationships are doing it because they desire another 'partner'? and by partner i mean someone they enjoy in all aspects, not just someone they want to fuck.

hmm, i guess regardless of reasons, if someone cheats, they are not a decent person. i just dont understand why people can at least be honest and break it off first!

You dont understand why decent people could let themselves get sucked in because you havent had a girlfriend let alone been through much of life. It gets complicated and it is very easy to take each other for granted, years of resentment and disappointment build - the boss is an ass but you cant leave that job right now because your wife is pregnant and wont be able to pick up the slack financially, your mother is creating stress between you and your wife's family because SHE wants you to bring the baby over to HER house on Christmas because it is HER first grandchild, your wife is tired and stressed because you screwed up and let a promotion you should have gotten slip by and now she has to work overtime when she wanted to be able to be home and spend more time with the baby, the roof sprung a leak and the car just up and died, the baby wont stop crying and your wife doesnt want to make love because she is self-concious about how she still looks a year after giving birth and no amount of reassurance will change the way she feels about herself..... etc, etc, etc...


Then there is this pretty girl at work who laughs at all of your jokes and makes you feel ten feet tall, not like the "loser" that your wife makes you feel (this is YOUR PERCEPTION MIND YOU and NOT AN "EVIL WIFE" SCENARIO), the next thing you know you question your manhood. You are away on a business trip and who would know.... right?

Happens more often and more quickly than anyone cares to admit.

I have never promised a man that I wouldnt cheat. What I do promise is that IF I feel emotionally disconnected from my husband to the point that I feel myself drifting away I WILL LET HIM KNOW. What he chooses to do with that information is up to him.

We are mortals thereby making us fallible. To err is to be human but to forgive is divine.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I have never promised a man that I wouldnt cheat. What I do promise is that IF I feel emotionally disconnected from my husband to the point that I feel myself drifting away I WILL LET HIM KNOW. What he chooses to do with that information is up to him.

We are mortals thereby making us fallible. To err is to be human but to forgive is divine.

in an ideal world people would, but then you are concerned with losing the way of life youv grown accustomed to, losing your secruity and stability, and you fuck around on the side and have your spouse to fall back on...

thats the way it is with most women, they wont leave or let their spouse know they are fucking around on them untill someone more secure comes around and then they leave for that one

 

[velvett]

how can you not know how to get someone off?

cattle prod + bondage gear + extreme acts of degradation + love

I enjoy your sarcasm and/or demented sense of things

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Yes.

You have to figure out what makes you feel good, what makes her feel good and how to get there. You - no one, just knows this - you have to try to figure out what you're doing and what you like.

Add to that not being selfish - you'll be a great lover - and contrary to what some may lead you to believe, it matters.

You don't want to get married to a "technical virgin" that's stuppin' the gardener 3 years into your marriage because you don't know how to get her off and she's bored to tears.

(Sorry for the bluntness - I'm cooking dinner so I'm running back and forth)

Something I've been wanting to say this entire thread. Lack of sexual satisfaction is the number one cause of cheating which in turn leads to many divorces. People say you can't base a relation just on sex,and while this is true, if one or both partners are not sexually satisfied it will put strain on a marriage/relationship.

 

[gotmilk]

just go get some snatch or shut up about it seriously.

oh god....it will take him another 22 years to learn how to gently suck on the clit like you're giving a hickey..gently pulling and releasing...while sliding his fore-finger in and out of her ass..faster faster...more pressure...slight tongue...more pressure...

I can see his future wife wondering how much longer will it take him to dismount her.

 

[healother]

Yes.

You have to figure out what makes you feel good, what makes her feel good and how to get there. You - no one, just knows this - you have to try to figure out what you're doing and what you like.

Add to that not being selfish - you'll be a great lover - and contrary to what some may lead you to believe, it matters.

You don't want to get married to a "technical virgin" that's stuppin' the gardener 3 years into your marriage because you don't know how to get her off and she's bored to tears.

(Sorry for the bluntness - I'm cooking dinner so I'm running back and forth)

cant 2 people learn how to please each other together? if they are both virgins, then why would it matter?

just go get some snatch or shut up about it seriously.

i cant help it, gotta finish responding to peeps in this thread.

in an ideal world people would, but then you are concerned with losing the way of life youv grown accustomed to, losing your secruity and stability, and you fuck around on the side and have your spouse to fall back on...

thats the way it is with most women, they wont leave or let their spouse know they are fucking around on them untill someone more secure comes around and then they leave for that one

yup, people think they can live in both worlds at once, no matter how much they are screwing someone else over.

 

[gotmilk]

cant 2 people learn how to please each other together?

This isn't Afghanistan. The chance of you finding a virgin here is about as good as you winning the Powerball.