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The receptionist at the clinic where I apprentice looks just like Megan Fox, no wait, HOTTER than her. She has D boobs and is stunning.
When I met her, I imagined she had a super hot husband.
I come out of the office the other day and there is this geeky short, overweight guy with a HUGE nose flirting with her, and I was like "yeah dude, keep dreaming"
She says to me "Blue, I want you to meet my husband"

Gulp, no way!

The doctor I work with is also a hot blonde with huge boobs and her boyfriend is short, hairy, has bad teeth, and is chubby.
But these women are happy as can be. That'll teach me to be superficial!

These men send them flowers and are super romantic.
Do unattractive men just try harder?
 
Of course they try harder. The romantic part is making up for the lack of appearence.
Just like how a blind guys smell/hearing is stronger.
 
Going for good looking partners will end up being in an unhappy relationship. Good looking people just dont try or care about other people's feelings because they know they can always get another partner. They just dont treasure what they have.
 
Could also be that the hot women get satisfaction out of being with a clearly genetically inferior person. Makes them feel better about themselves.
 
I don't care how hard a guy tries or whatever, he doesn't need to be perfect looking, but there does need to be some level of physical attraction there. I like to go for 7 or 8's...because in that range you can usually find a man with the personality of a 4 and without the arrogance of a 10. Haha. Just sayin.





It's true.
 
AFeedz said:
I don't care how hard a guy tries or whatever, he doesn't need to be perfect looking, but there does need to be some level of physical attraction there. I like to go for 7 or 8's...because in that range you can usually find a man with the personality of a 4 and without the arrogance of a 10. Haha. Just sayin.





It's true.
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lolololol @ a wimminz using the rating scale.

not poking fun, just pretty funny.
 
Meh, women aren't nearly as visual-based as men are. Biologically speaking, they don't have to be. Men have to be aroused to procreate, women don't.
 
AFeedz said:
I don't care how hard a guy tries or whatever, he doesn't need to be perfect looking, but there does need to be some level of physical attraction there. I like to go for 7 or 8's...because in that range you can usually find a man with the personality of a 4 and without the arrogance of a 10. Haha. Just sayin.





It's true.
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so ur saying im a least a 7? Successzors!
 
He doesn't have money, he is a security guard. She's a rich girl! I'm visual, but if a good looking dude is an ahole, I'm totally turned off.
Jizo, of course good looking people care about others feelings.
 
I know a girl who is a 9 or maybe a 10. She has a heart of gold, great girl. I mean, I'd probably actually marry this girl if she asked me to. Anyway, she's been with this pretty ugly dude for years now. I guess there's just some people that truly do not care about looks, or maybe they just have a weird perception of attractiveness.
 
I just always figured, pretty women were just sick of the aholes and decided to give the "average" guy a try and the average guy is romantic and tries harder and wins her over?! Am I wrong or is all about the schlong!
 
Women don't even know what they want themselves, so they experiment with different things in the search for "happiness." Eventually, they'll find it, or get so depressed they'll kill themselves.
 
uamaverick said:
Women don't even know what they want themselves, so they experiment with different things in the search for "happiness." Eventually, they'll find it, or get so depressed they'll kill themselves.
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Say "some women" not all, cause I don't!
I know what I want, just not sure how to get it
 
blueta2 said:
I just always figured, pretty women were just sick of the aholes and decided to give the "average" guy a try and the average guy is romantic and tries harder and wins her over?! Am I wrong or is all about the schlong!
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To be fair,

Arguing with abstract terms like ahole, average, romantic, etc. will only yield responses relative to the individual. You are seeking a dispositive response when none exists.

HTH



:cow:
 
cuthroat said:
who would want to keep one though? I am a firm believer in catch and release. You'll get tired of EVERY girl no matter how hot and freaky in time...for every dime out there, there is also some dude thats tired of hitting that.
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Not all of us are whores, dawg.



:cow:
 
I agree with AF. the connection is the most important thing in a relationship. that's why relationships based solely on sex won't end up working out in the end.

But, I also think that it's crucial that there is some type of physical attraction. Inner beauty's more important for me though.

Maybe those girls are on to something if they're happy blueta. That's all that matters in the end really.... being happy....
 
blueta2 said:
The receptionist at the clinic where I apprentice looks just like Megan Fox, no wait, HOTTER than her. She has D boobs and is stunning.
When I met her, I imagined she had a super hot husband.
I come out of the office the other day and there is this geeky short, overweight guy with a HUGE nose flirting with her, and I was like "yeah dude, keep dreaming"
She says to me "Blue, I want you to meet my husband"

Gulp, no way!

The doctor I work with is also a hot blonde with huge boobs and her boyfriend is short, hairy, has bad teeth, and is chubby.
But these women are happy as can be. That'll teach me to be superficial!

These men send them flowers and are super romantic.
Do unattractive men just try harder?
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That's Canada though. That shit doesn't fly here in the U.S.Eh.
 
Fun story....talked to a beautiful girl at the bar many years ago...Her husband went to see a man about a horse. My impertinent friend Rick asked what she was doing with such an ugly guy (he was more diplomatic). She responded, "He treats me well and I know he won't cheat on me."

Over the years, I wish I had a dollar for every chick that had a cheatin story where her man cheated on her hawtiness with a bridge troll. :)
 
uamaverick said:
Women don't even know what they want themselves, so they experiment with different things in the search for "happiness." Eventually, they'll find it, or get so depressed they'll kill themselves.
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I dont think we as guys know what we want either. We want the 9/10 smoking hot women but typically there are things attached to wimmenz good looks (not always). We dont like the "baggage" that comes along with them. Hence the term hit it and quit it, catch and release, etc. We are not dogs/whores we just know what battles to fight. Certainly not that one.

These dimes deal with things most of us will never understand, im sure some of you ladies can chime in here. Things such as a constanting getting hit on, nonstop stares, uglier chicks/dudes with preconceived notions about who and what they are about. They are stereotyped and must live a life that follows the standards of being gorgeous. Hence the very discussion about who and what they choose in a signifcant other. If they deviate from the "norm" everyone questions them as if they are some creature without feelings. All of these pressures seem to add a element of insecurity, frustrations, maybe even confusion on what they actually want in general.
 
Like java said it boils down to them getting cheated on by an attractive guy at some point. So they settle for less looks but secure relationship with little chance of infedelity by the guy. Plus the smeagol will be eating out of their palm as long as they wish.
 
But wouldn't that suck to be the ugly guy and know that deep down inside, she really doesn't want to fuck you? I mean even if you eventually got the girl because her previous dbag BF cheated on her, I just don't think that would be satisfying as the guy. Can you truly love somebody romantically if you don't find them attractive?
 
uamaverick said:
But wouldn't that suck to be the ugly guy and know that deep down inside, she really doesn't want to fuck you? I mean even if you eventually got the girl because her previous dbag BF cheated on her, I just don't think that would be satisfying as the guy. Can you truly love somebody romantically if you don't find them attractive?
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That's one reason why hawt chicks get cheated on....Nobody wants to be the uggo....and they get cheated on when their man finds a woman that kisses his ass like he kisses hers.

Look at Elizabeth Hurley and Hugh Grant....people miss the point.
 
Maybe in some cases the generalities may be true about compensating and such... there could be cases for and against. Not sure.
Each relationship is different, unique, but I think that it's possible dudes bring about a vibrance, spark, a balance that gives them life, either that
or dudes are blingin'... maybe both.
 
DannoMight said:
Like java said it boils down to them getting cheated on by an attractive guy at some point. So they settle for less looks but secure relationship with little chance of infedelity by the guy. Plus the smeagol will be eating out of their palm as long as they wish.
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lol
Got it all wrong, smeagol had charm.
Suprise dude didn't have his own spinoff after that flick.
 
javaguru said:
That's one reason why hawt chicks get cheated on....Nobody wants to be the uggo....and they get cheated on when their man finds a woman that kisses his ass like he kisses hers.

Look at Elizabeth Hurley and Hugh Grant....people miss the point.
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Yep!
 
DannoMight said:
Like java said it boils down to them getting cheated on by an attractive guy at some point. So they settle for less looks but secure relationship with little chance of infedelity by the guy. Plus the smeagol will be eating out of their palm as long as they wish.
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Cheating is not about looks. I've witness some really horrid looking fatties cheat!

I would settle for a less attractive guy if I knew that relationship would be more secure, but I wonder if that's really the case?!
 
iggy said:
I agree with AF. the connection is the most important thing in a relationship. that's why relationships based solely on sex won't end up working out in the end.

But, I also think that it's crucial that there is some type of physical attraction. Inner beauty's more important for me though.

Maybe those girls are on to something if they're happy blueta. That's all that matters in the end really.... being happy....
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I totally agree........happiness is all that matters. You're a wise man :-)
 
uamaverick said:
But wouldn't that suck to be the ugly guy and know that deep down inside, she really doesn't want to fuck you? I mean even if you eventually got the girl because her previous dbag BF cheated on her, I just don't think that would be satisfying as the guy. Can you truly love somebody romantically if you don't find them attractive?
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No, I think you can grow to develop feelings for someone you were initially not attracted to.
 
a hot woman you take to dinner, a movie, buy her a flower and she wants to see where the relationship goes..

an average woman makes you breakfast and slips $40 in your pocket for gas money

ugly short hairy women... well, I'm going to stop right there..
 
blueta2 said:
No, I think you can grow to develop feelings for someone you were initially not attracted to.
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Sure, of course, but that's not the same as being attracted to somebody from the get-go. The difference is as big as "Oh, he's a REAL great guy, he's REAL sweet and I love him," to, "I want him all up on, around, and in my mouth, pussy, and ass RIGHT NOW."
 
The thing with going for the hot, "I want him all up on, around, and in my mouth, pussy, and ass RIGHT NOW" guy, as uamav put it...is that that feeling usually fades pretty quickly as opposed to the type of attraction you build up slowly.
 
Yeah, but what if it doesn't fade quickly? What if that feeling lasts, and you love the person as well? I guess the point is, why would a hot woman WANT to go for an ugly guy in search of the deeper love, when she could just as likely find it in a guy she finds to be hot? It's not like all hot people on this planet are instinctively assholes that don't care about their mates and just use people.

I'm not a 10, but I'm not a 5, either. I have standards. Could I find a girl who is just average and maybe develop feelings for her over time? Sure, but why would I want to do that when it's just as likely I could find a 7 or an 8 that I could find that with as well? There's 6.8 billion people on this planet, surely there are enough beautiful people out there that would make for fine partners.
 
Yeah, but it's fun. I watched a show on Discovery called "The Science of Sex Appeal" and thought it was fascinating. They did several experiments related to this sort of discussion.
 
uamaverick said:
Yeah, but it's fun. I watched a show on Discovery called "The Science of Sex Appeal" and thought it was fascinating. They did several experiments related to this sort of discussion.
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Most women in the 9 to 10 range are prolly overwhelmed by your freakish mass bro, no women in her right mind would not be intimidated by a 183 lbs ngr in a size small TapOut shirt.
 
Indeed
 
most women probably wonder how strongbow escaped the circus when they see him hunched over, looking at them, with one eye.
 
You guys ever see the movie "Who Framed Roger Rabbit?" Remember Roger's wife, Jessica, the super hot redhead. The detective asked her "what do you see in that guy?" She responded, "He makes me laugh." Fictional movie, yes, but there's truth in that simple little statement.

In a successful long term relationship, appearances will not be the sustaining element.

You have to spend time around a couple that seems to be mismatched physically to see where the connections are, but spend enough time and I'll wager you'll start to see they complete each others sentences, they laugh at each others jokes, IOW, psychologically they compliment each other.

Granted, I'm talking about people who are 30 and over. Generally speaking, the under 30 crowd (especially early 20s crowd) is still very superficial. You'll get girls who get all sappy over the unemployed "bad boy" and men who couldn't give a shit that a girl can't string a dozen words together coherently because she looks like a model that was on the cover of Sports Illustrated.

And never forget, I'm making generalizations, there are always exceptions to every rule.
 
musclemom said:
You guys ever see the movie "Who Framed Roger Rabbit?" Remember Roger's wife, Jessica, the super hot redhead. The detective asked her "what do you see in that guy?" She responded, "He makes me laugh." Fictional movie, yes, but there's truth in that simple little statement.

In a successful long term relationship, appearances will not be the sustaining element.

You have to spend time around a couple that seems to be mismatched physically to see where the connections are, but spend enough time and I'll wager you'll start to see they complete each others sentences, they laugh at each others jokes, IOW, psychologically they compliment each other.

Granted, I'm talking about people who are 30 and over. Generally speaking, the under 30 crowd (especially early 20s crowd) is still very superficial. You'll get girls who get all sappy over the unemployed "bad boy" and men who couldn't give a shit that a girl can't string a dozen words together coherently because she looks like a model that was on the cover of Sports Illustrated.

And never forget, I'm making generalizations, there are always exceptions to every rule.
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nah, i couldn't agree more
 
uamaverick said:
But wouldn't that suck to be the ugly guy and know that deep down inside, she really doesn't want to fuck you? I mean even if you eventually got the girl because her previous dbag BF cheated on her, I just don't think that would be satisfying as the guy. Can you truly love somebody romantically if you don't find them attractive?
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But the ugly guy will shoot his load into a hot chick and at the end of the day that's probably the only thing he cares. When you know that something will obviously never happen (in this case have a nice romantic relationship with a hottie) you just settle for less.
 
iggy said:
most women probably wonder how strongbow escaped the circus when they see him hunched over, looking at them, with one eye.
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If you only knew how sexy I am you'd STFU
 
Y'know, something else quite a few of you aren't factoring into the equation: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

Just because YOU don't not personally find a person attractive, does not mean every other person on the planet feels that way :whatever: I'll give you a couple of example: There are women who are attracted to bald men, there are men who only are attracted to heavy women, there are people who only date people who are of a different ethnic group from their own, there are plenty of people who find bodybuilders of either gender "gross," need I go on?

Physical beauty is tenuous and ephemeral. What if you fall madly in love with a 10, you have a perfect courtship, you realize you've found your soul mate, you eventually marry and after 15 years of blissful marriage your beloved is in a horrible car crash that leaves their face and body scarred beyond what plastic surgery can repair. Then what? You stay with them out of a sense of loyalty but are revolted to be in their presence 24/7? You never hug, hold, kiss or make love to them again?

Then I'm forced to ask, was it ever really love, or just infatuation and you'd do just as well having a relationship with one of those $6,000 Real Dolls.
 
just...v said:
I think the biggest thing is to be able to be completely yourself with the person. If they accept you for all your good traits AND all your short comings at the same time that is invaluable.
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Too bad for poor Iggy his short comings are like 2 inches shorter than what is acceptable to any women over a 4
 
just...v said:
I think the biggest thing is to be able to be completely yourself with the person. If they accept you for all your good traits AND all your short comings at the same time that is invaluable.
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This is a super point. My friend who's been a couples therapist for 20 yrs said to me "a happy marriage is all about how much two can tolerate from each other"

I failed in those attempts at accepting; it was my way or the highway. This is something I've worked on a lot, but I think this comes with trial and error.

Great point!
 
blueta2 said:
This is a super point. My friend who's been a couples therapist for 20 yrs said to me "a happy marriage is all about how much two can tolerate from each other"

I failed in those attempts at accepting; it was my way or the highway. This is something I've worked on a lot, but I think this comes with trial and error.

Great point!
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Hope you figure it out before hitting 50 and looks go to shit
 
superdave said:
Hope you figure it out before hitting 50 and looks go to shit
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hahha, well I am 6 yrs away from 50 and suspect I will look exactly as I do now!
I'm not worried! I've been in relationships since I was 16 and being single for a while is not so terrible.
Besides, I am not looking anyway
 
musclemom said:
Y'know, something else quite a few of you aren't factoring into the equation: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

Just because YOU don't not personally find a person attractive, does not mean every other person on the planet feels that way :whatever: I'll give you a couple of example: There are women who are attracted to bald men, there are men who only are attracted to heavy women, there are people who only date people who are of a different ethnic group from their own, there are plenty of people who find bodybuilders of either gender "gross," need I go on?

Physical beauty is tenuous and ephemeral. What if you fall madly in love with a 10, you have a perfect courtship, you realize you've found your soul mate, you eventually marry and after 15 years of blissful marriage your beloved is in a horrible car crash that leaves their face and body scarred beyond what plastic surgery can repair. Then what? You stay with them out of a sense of loyalty but are revolted to be in their presence 24/7? You never hug, hold, kiss or make love to them again?

Then I'm forced to ask, was it ever really love, or just infatuation and you'd do just as well having a relationship with one of those $6,000 Real Dolls.
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True, it's all about perspective.
I would always say if the person I loved got fat, horrid looking or was ill or hurt in anyway, I would still love them.

Now, do they make this "real doll" in a male version?
 
blueta2 said:
"a happy marriage is all about how much two can tolerate from each other"
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Isn't that the truth. Never been in a relationship where the other person was perfect, hell I'm not either. I always tell hot women I've dated, I don't care how hot you are, if we can't get along, will be done. I hate being annoyed.
 
You get annoyed with partners no matter what, it's all about how bad or how much you can tolerate as was said before.
At the end of the day, all peoples shit stinks
 
I would get some female judges and ask strongbow to have a dick size competition. But he'd probably just google "big cock" on the internet and get another fake picture, just like his the leg one he had.... lololol
 
i'd like some proof that the two females mentioned in the first post are actually attractive.


hot to a chick is generally average at best to a guy.
 
I've come to the conclusion most women don't have a clue what they want until they hit their 30's. At this point the majority of women start going down hill physically.

If I'm lucky I'll end up meeting a beautiful chick that has transitioned past her dumbass phase and still keeps herself in good order one of these days.

By dumbass phase I mean women that fall for cheesy ass fuckers that come off all mega macho or uber confident when I know I could shove my foot up this guys ass. Women that equate a nice/modest guy to wimp or loser. Women that fall for assholes and think bad boys are "interesting". Ya, if you consider someone taking the equivalent of a crap on you all the time as a sexual turn on(oh so many women). Guy A is a bitch nigga and treats you like crap and acts like he's billy badass and over here I stand modest if not abit shy yet that guy likely couldn't hold my jockstrap. I see this every day.

I've gotten to the point that I don't even pursue women in my age group(30) + or - 5 years.

It's almost comical in a sad way too because I have been told by a few very gorgeous women how handsome I am and have been with a few knockouts in my high school days.

With a guy like me I know what I can and can't do. I probably come across as a rather modest/shy guy which seems to turn off the majority of women even though I am bigger, stronger, smarter, and probably alot tougher than countless men I see walking around with attractive girlfriends. I don't have to act like a tough guy or a badass because I already know I am to a certain extent.

I have standards, but they have dropped massively since I was in highschool because I can see past physical perfection now. I still have to be physically attracted to a girl, but now it might be the sound of her voice or the look of her hands as something I find very desirable besides being a decent looking girl. This is just from initial impressions.

I also am grounded in reality and know that I am not perfect by a longshot as well.

I just can't act like I'm not interested in a woman I find attractive. I can't treat a woman like shit even if I know it means I'll get her in bed. The few, very few times I have treated an attractive girl like shit because I was having a bad day or something are the few times I have had girls aggressively pursue me which blows me the fuck away. It's completely ass backwards.

I always end up remembering and old line between a novice mountain man and an old grizzled mountain man in bear skins(the movie Jeremiah Johnson). The young guy asks the old guy about whether he misses having a woman around. The old guy replies he never had much luck with them and can't seem to see eye to eye with them so why bother.

Eh, whatever.
 
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