Unattractive men do get the hotties

[manny78]

But wouldn't that suck to be the ugly guy and know that deep down inside, she really doesn't want to fuck you? I mean even if you eventually got the girl because her previous dbag BF cheated on her, I just don't think that would be satisfying as the guy. Can you truly love somebody romantically if you don't find them attractive?

But the ugly guy will shoot his load into a hot chick and at the end of the day that's probably the only thing he cares. When you know that something will obviously never happen (in this case have a nice romantic relationship with a hottie) you just settle for less.

 

[Strongbow]

most women probably wonder how strongbow escaped the circus when they see him hunched over, looking at them, with one eye.

If you only knew how sexy I am you'd STFU

 

[musclemom]

Y'know, something else quite a few of you aren't factoring into the equation: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

Just because YOU don't not personally find a person attractive, does not mean every other person on the planet feels that way I'll give you a couple of example: There are women who are attracted to bald men, there are men who only are attracted to heavy women, there are people who only date people who are of a different ethnic group from their own, there are plenty of people who find bodybuilders of either gender "gross," need I go on?

Physical beauty is tenuous and ephemeral. What if you fall madly in love with a 10, you have a perfect courtship, you realize you've found your soul mate, you eventually marry and after 15 years of blissful marriage your beloved is in a horrible car crash that leaves their face and body scarred beyond what plastic surgery can repair. Then what? You stay with them out of a sense of loyalty but are revolted to be in their presence 24/7? You never hug, hold, kiss or make love to them again?

Then I'm forced to ask, was it ever really love, or just infatuation and you'd do just as well having a relationship with one of those $6,000 Real Dolls.

 

[iggy]

ouch, musclemom makes some rough points.

reminds me of the movie "Blue" by Kieslowski

 

[just...v]

I think the biggest thing is to be able to be completely yourself with the person. If they accept you for all your good traits AND all your short comings at the same time that is invaluable.

 

[trex74]

OMG, it's, like, beauty is in, like, the eye of the beholder or something!

lmao
you just made my day

 

[Strongbow]

I think the biggest thing is to be able to be completely yourself with the person. If they accept you for all your good traits AND all your short comings at the same time that is invaluable.

Too bad for poor Iggy his short comings are like 2 inches shorter than what is acceptable to any women over a 4

 

[blueta2]

I think the biggest thing is to be able to be completely yourself with the person. If they accept you for all your good traits AND all your short comings at the same time that is invaluable.

This is a super point. My friend who's been a couples therapist for 20 yrs said to me "a happy marriage is all about how much two can tolerate from each other"

I failed in those attempts at accepting; it was my way or the highway. This is something I've worked on a lot, but I think this comes with trial and error.

Great point!

 

[-SD-]

This is a super point. My friend who's been a couples therapist for 20 yrs said to me "a happy marriage is all about how much two can tolerate from each other"

I failed in those attempts at accepting; it was my way or the highway. This is something I've worked on a lot, but I think this comes with trial and error.

Great point!

Hope you figure it out before hitting 50 and looks go to shit

 

[blueta2]

Hope you figure it out before hitting 50 and looks go to shit

hahha, well I am 6 yrs away from 50 and suspect I will look exactly as I do now!
I'm not worried! I've been in relationships since I was 16 and being single for a while is not so terrible.
Besides, I am not looking anyway