To all men who love there girlfriends/wives but SEX LIFE SUCKS!!!

[Shoot Me Up]

Hay guys, first off I just wanted to say I love my girlfriend very much and we are so great together emotionally and physically compatible. We believe in the same morals, ethics, and we are totally in harmony with each other. However, the only thing thats been lacking for the last several months or even more is her SEX DRIVE and my sex life. She is only 21 and has no desire to have sex or if she does she is doing it because she wants to make me happy and she is not really getting in to it.. Of course that means lack of oral sex to. She said that yohimburn could of took part in destroying her sex drive and now she is on Zoloft which also i think could take part in it to.. She is not willing to take any drugs without the approval of any doctor because she is very health/safe cautious so there goes that option. I have brought this up to her so many times and all she says is she needs time for the drug to kick in and for her to settle with things...
Basically my question to you guys is what would you do in this situation or what have you done if this problem occured with you and your loved one. The paradox is though I truly love her so much and I would never ever cheat on her and the thought has not even or ever will cross my mind. there must be something SHE CAN DO!!!! please give me advice!!!!!

 

[02gixxersix]

damn bro my biggest fear is gettin really close to a girl and then her not wanting to have sex anymore. Try some new shit bro. Girls like sex differently than guys. Check out the in between the sheets section of elite. ask the question therer and you'll get some good responses from the elite women.

 

[Warmachine_01]

anti depressants are notorious for killing sex drive. is she on birth control? what kind? Several of them can mess up womans sex drive as well.

my girl got a non hormonal iud, and shes horny all the time and gushes like a river

 

[WanTtoBeDeisel]

Bro without a doubt it is the zoloft. I had the same situation. Before the Zoloft we were fucking like rabbits, she started taking that shit and had 0 sex drive. It was like she just wanted to lie there. it sucked big time. i felt like i was raping her. She has recently come off the shit and it is slowly returning. good luck man.

 

[bigdelt69]

Every relationship will have its ups and downs when it comes to sex. The loss of her libido is more than likely due to the zoloft. Tell her to talk to her doc about wellbutrin. That shit does wonders for libido.

 

[kbrkbr]

Nice to see a guy who can express his love for his girl so eloquently. Wish I could do that.

 

[Zyglamail]

If she is on zoloft there is a reason and she needs to address those problems before her whole life will come together.

 

[Citruscide]

Zyg hit that on the nail.... I've never seen an anti-depressant cure someone's problems. Sure, there are people with chemical imbalances.. but most people take these things because of events or problems in their own life... taking a drug is never a magic potion....

If her sex drive is lost due to a drug she is taking, I'm not sure there is much you can do for it...

In MY life, outside of drugs, I've learned that if sex sucks, it is on BOTH parties shoulders to do something to make it better... but I think in your case it is the Drug she is on...

Hope things work out for you my man.

C-ditty

 

[naturally anabolic]

hey spatts why wouldnt a doc prescribe 2.5mg of var instead?

 

[thebabydoc]

It's probably the Zoloft.

With that said, have her try a different SSRI- like Paxil, prozac, wellbutrin, celexa, or any of a half-dozen others. Side effects vary.

Anavar 2.5-5mg per day (oxandrolone) or Winstrol work wonders and I've prescribed it with good success.