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Natymike said:money is controlling her, but now I found out that he has an abusive nature.
Well, I hate to say this but there are hoards of women that are being controlled as such, as there are women who only want a man for his money. His cultural background will just add to the fire that she is merely a trinket for him to solely own - she will be punished for straying for giving the appearance of doing so.
She has two choices - stay where she is or become strong enough to make her own money and buy her own toys - she can have money and have men worship her. Perhaps you could show her that and help her find a way out of the relationship she is in. Focus on her growth not his loser qualities and you may, just may be able to help her.