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LOL I wonder how the man's penis would shrivel if he found out his wife was already *keeping it fresh* with the pizza delivery boy or the cable guy?!
Blane
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dont tell her...Rub and tugs are not cheating. Put your estrogen in check. We are guys, its our function to shoot as often and with as many diff woman as possible...That is how we are programed. do we hv the abilty to control ourselvs? yes...but why....you arent at risk of impregnating these hand job specialists. The only reason females get upset is they dont want our resourses divided. if we have more kids with diff woman..then our money/time gets divided...
Dont fall for the emotion crap..its all about the money/resources.....
Dont fall for the emotion crap..its all about the money/resources.....
jd_uk
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Well personally i'd tell her. I can't keep things like that from my gf but then we're very open and she wouldn't think it was that bad if i went to peep shows/got jacked off by some random girl. We tell each other everything but we only became like that through open communication as someone else mentioned. I'd prefer not to be like everyone else who keeps secrets some things from their partner and i'd encourage you to do the same.
Yeah you fucked up by keeping things from her but if you're generally sorry then it is possible to make her eventually understand why you did it...it could break your relationship or it could make it MUCH stronger.
Yeah you fucked up by keeping things from her but if you're generally sorry then it is possible to make her eventually understand why you did it...it could break your relationship or it could make it MUCH stronger.
empirebuilder
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I wouldn't tell her if it was me bro.
Dude, you are in pickle. By your own actions and decisions, you have put yourself in this situation, which has probably done long term, if not, permanent damage to your marriage. I'm sure your wife values honesty and integrity. What you have already done could be a marriage breaker for sure, however, if you choose to hide this from her, you are surely putting the nail in the coffin, if she were to ever find out. Tell her the truth. Yes, she will be deeply hurt. Yes, your marriage may end. However, if you tell her the truth, at least you will be able to look her in the face and look yourself in the face and be able to say you took responsibility for your actions. Initially, she will probably be very justifiably angry and hurt, wouldn't you if the shoe was on the other foot? It is never appropriate to conceal something like this from someone you promised to spend the rest of your life with. It is even worse to convince yourself that the best course of action would be to conceal this from her to "protect" her feelings and the marriage. By concealing what you have done, you are not protecting her, you are protecting yourself. You made the decision to marry this woman and you knew what the rules were. I am sure you understand what her expectations are. If you have a sexual compulsion problem, your wife has a right to know, before anyone else. If you can't abide by the rules of the marriage, she deserves to know this too. Do the right thing, take responsibility for what you have done. Let the chips fall where they may.
