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heavy_duty
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oh yah stop wasting your money.
get a hooker to fuck or forget the whole thing.
get a hooker to fuck or forget the whole thing.
MichaelScott
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tell her, you cant be completely happy anyhow in your situation if you are doing that anyhow
Bikini Mod
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OK... I am not a man so I don't understand the whole "keeping it fresh" thing as some men seem to think is acceptable. Well if that is the case, then shouldn't his wife also be allowed to "keep it fresh"? Like have some stripper dude or pizza delivery guy or maybe the cable guy service her with a vibrator? I mean, it's the same thing right?
To justify this type of behavior because "your friends are doing worse" is COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE. What does the behavior of your friends have to do with YOUR MARRIAGE?
I was with my ex for 13 years. We had four kids and he treated me like total shit yet even in my dreams I was faithfull. Why? Because I don't lie, cheat, or steal. If I ever felt the need to go outside the confines of my marriage for sexual gratification that would be a HYUGE RED FLAG that maybe I oughtta get a divorce... either that, or perhaps I should give my partner the respect of addressing the issue with them FIRST before I strayed.
DO NOT EVER EVER EVER tell her. That will serve no usefull purpose... unless of course, you feel the need to hasten the end of your marriage.
I am thinkin you seriously need to get some counseling with your wife for you *otherwise* perfect marriage. If that were the case, the only person's hand that would have been on your johnson would have belonged to you or your wife.
Not trying to be a bitch here... just giving it to you straight.
To justify this type of behavior because "your friends are doing worse" is COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE. What does the behavior of your friends have to do with YOUR MARRIAGE?
I was with my ex for 13 years. We had four kids and he treated me like total shit yet even in my dreams I was faithfull. Why? Because I don't lie, cheat, or steal. If I ever felt the need to go outside the confines of my marriage for sexual gratification that would be a HYUGE RED FLAG that maybe I oughtta get a divorce... either that, or perhaps I should give my partner the respect of addressing the issue with them FIRST before I strayed.
DO NOT EVER EVER EVER tell her. That will serve no usefull purpose... unless of course, you feel the need to hasten the end of your marriage.
I am thinkin you seriously need to get some counseling with your wife for you *otherwise* perfect marriage. If that were the case, the only person's hand that would have been on your johnson would have belonged to you or your wife.
Not trying to be a bitch here... just giving it to you straight.
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RachelEFC
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I totally agree with everybody. If you lose your trust your relationship will be greatly damaged. Make a commitment to yourself to keep things straight and try and sex it up at home.
partagus
New member
A lot of great advice on here.
DO NOT TELL YOUR WIFE
Talk to your wife about adding some spice to your marriage. Everyone goes through times in their marriage when the sex gets boring. That's when you and your wife have to have the trust between you all to TALK OPENLY about what turns you both on.
Be open and honest (Well, to a degree, don't mention the hand-jobs) and you might get surprised. Back in Vegas, my wife and I went to a peep show and she jerked me off. It was great fun!!!If my wife and I didn't have open communication, it never would have happend.
DO NOT TELL YOUR WIFE
Talk to your wife about adding some spice to your marriage. Everyone goes through times in their marriage when the sex gets boring. That's when you and your wife have to have the trust between you all to TALK OPENLY about what turns you both on.
Be open and honest (Well, to a degree, don't mention the hand-jobs) and you might get surprised. Back in Vegas, my wife and I went to a peep show and she jerked me off. It was great fun!!!If my wife and I didn't have open communication, it never would have happend.
trubluesue
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Once again Bikini Mom tells it like it is. Are you NUTS, dude?? Do not tell your wife. Put some playtime back into the sex with your wife, but jeez, if *ALL* you did was get a {hand}, then wtf? To me, not that big of a deal...but I am not your wife....so don't f*&k things up and do something stupid - don't tell, and if you're feeling SO bad about it, then don't friggin' DO it!!
