The women I meet only want to have sex...

[MrMuscle]

funny, i dont have this problem.

 

[ungbygger]

funny, i dont have this problem.

Me neither.. Looks like we just have to move from .NO

 

[Kali]

Maybe your problem is that you are still looking for "girls." People are going to act the way that you address them and make them feel. I don't know any women that act like this, but many girls that do. Maybe your standards are too high. You are basically saying that you are looking for a beautiful, intelligent, well brought up girl, that is pretty much perfect, and wants to have a long relationship with you. A large percentage of the girls I know that would meet this criteria, have been either really responsible their whole life and now want to party, or have been handed things and don't recognize or appreciate a good thing when they see one. You seem like a wonderful guy, but maybe you should broaden your horizons or where you meet these people. Maybe you are just one of these great guys that is completely irresistible. Either way, most women just don’t jump you without any signs. Try playing the friend game for a while and learn what these women want before asking them out. Or maybe just try to date women that have a good heart instead of a good resume. Just a thought, I am sure you guys will burn me for this one, but what do I know, I am just a women.

 

[Robert Jan]

O shut up SS.

 

[Jimsbbc]

 

[rudedawg]

This has been going on about a decade, now. Peace

Me too........ Sometimes being married has its drawbacks.

 

[Bullit]

The thing is... when you sit down and really think about it, I mean REALLY think...you come to the unavoidable conclusion that you are, indeed, gay.

 

[Kali]

i am trying to make a check list for girls here to see which ones i want to have a meaninful relationship. i just have an additional question for you if you dont mind. do you enjoy anal?

Giving it? Hell yeah, come over! Which color vibrator do you prefer, I am thinking you are more of a glow in the dark guy, multi-speed?

 

[HansNZ]

You aren't my aunt. And my attitude toward women is fine. THe girls he is speaking of are dirty sluts and they are ripe with STDs. I dont know any women like that, the girs i assosiate with are not sluts, they are classy. I dont like sluts, i like nice girls.

I rest my case.

 

[HansNZ]

I think one of the number one problems so many straight guys have in their relationship to the opposite sex is their preoccupation with women as sex objects.

If you want to be a casanova then don't approach women from the first second you meet them as a potential mates. Treat them as people.

I am a gay man. 60% of my friends are straight men, another 35% are straight or lesbian women, and maybe 5% at most are gay. The reason for this is that I am a person to the first 95% of those people. For the gay guys, 90% of them can't seem to get beyond my pecs and arse, so it creates friction in our interactions.

So many of my straight male friends are as jealous as hell about my ability to get on with women. I'll be in a nightclub with a group of straight guys. They'll be in a group together and i'll be off with a group of maybe 5 or more of the sexiest women in the place crowded around me chatting away.

The straight guys tell me that i'd be a legend if I was straight. But they are wrong. The reason the women are crowded around me is because I treat them as people. They don't feel they have to be on guard with me all the time. Most of the time they don't even know I am gay. These women just feel a sense of comfort with me because I don't view them as sex objects, which otherwise would affect my whole demeanour towards them.

It is no coincidence that so many women complain that the best guys are either married or gay. Why don't you strike up an acquaintance with a gay guy (assuming you are secure enough in your own sexuality to do this). Observe the way he behaves towards women. If you learn from this then you may discover a positive transformation in your own relationships.

Just my 2 cents.