Split up with the lady, now a hot blond wants me to spend the night.... advice?

[RealDeal]

By the way...

You can send those two other chicks who need "training" my way...I'll take 'em off your hands!!!

 

[Big Brother Val]

Good idea. Maybe you could take pics of your training... and post 'em. I'm sure they both have an impressive leg spread.

I mean... uh... LAT spread.


Sorry.

 

[Big Brother Val]

For anyone who still may actually open this up... last night was pretty much it.

It's the same old thing. She was totally upset at me... said I treated her like shit. Like a child. That I talk to her like she's stupid.

And so, I told her I loved her, and asked if she'd pack my stuff while I'm at work. That way, with every little thing she boxed up, she would have to know what is really happening. In a way, I'm hoping I go home, and nothing is packed. But in another way... I'm just tired of it.

So chances are tonight after wrestling, I will be moving in with a friend of mine... trying my ass off not to go over and try to talk to her.

This looks like the end.

And my damn Fina runs out today... I'll take my last shot. Not a fun time to come off a cycle.

Oh well.

 

[FreakMonster]

Man I knew it!! What a bitch!! Time to bang the hot blonde!!!

Get her to send ya a pic!!

 

[Big Brother Val]

If she'll still send one. I haven't talked to her since I turned the offer down of her and her friend on Saturday.

As soon as I have one... I will sure as hell post one.

 

[Longhorn85]

When you mentioned that your ex-wife slept with more guys than you could imagine, I thought: how could that happen? How could someone get into a situation like that without realizing it? But the fact that you even considered marrying this chick who you said changes into revealing clothing on the way to work without telling you and then has the nerve to get pissed at you when you visit her, I now understand.

This woman certainly would have treated you the same way and taken advantage of you I'm sure. She seems to behave like a woman who is attractive and is only interested in man for his money.

You are better off without her.

 

[Big Brother Val]

Ttlpkg... my x wife was a very unique situation. It's a very long story. But essentailly, what I did was trust her, when I knew I shouldn't. She had a problem with drugs and alcohol... which as most people on this board know I hate severely. I got her off alcohol, and pot, and cigarettes, and meth, and acid.... and in the meantime, was so hurt by what she had done, I wasn't paying attention, really.

So in a nutshell.... I got the shit beat out of me for 5 solid years.

My current lady was such a change of pace... no alcohol in any way.... no smoking of any kind... she was totally clean, and into health. She wouldn't even eat ice cream more than once a week.

I fell for her like a blind roofer. Then... as her body improved even more... she became more distant.

I wish she would grow up, learn to take responsibility, and learn to communicate. But none of that will matter if I'm not important to her anyway. It's a hard circle to run.

Thanks for the reply.

 

[badazzwhitedude]

If she'll still send one. I haven't talked to her since I turned the offer down of her and her friend on Saturday.

As soon as I have one... I will sure as hell post one.

I would tell the other girl that you and your g/f were resolving some probs, and that's why you couldn't do anything with her. And now you are officially moving out, so you can maybe do something this upcoming weekend. That is what I would do. You just bought her all those fucking clothes too, didn't you? God, I HATE bitches.

Every one of them plays fucking games dude. I have kind of started leading some on and shit. You know, returning the favor to these sluts. And believe me, I can PLAY some fucking games alright. I am not saying it is always the girls fault. I have seen a few cases where the guy was the asshole. But I can honestly say, from what I have seen and personally experienced, it has been the girls fault a good 80% of the time. They aren't the same as they used to be just a few years ago, from what I understand talking with people just a little older than me that have experienced all of this shit.

I am sorry bro'. Like I said before, the same thing happened to me with this absolutely stunning blonde just a couple months ago. If you can honestly find a good female out there, that's great. But good luck. You will REALLY, REALLY need it.

 

[Big Brother Val]

I hear you, bigman. Yeah... I bought the clothes. $280. But hell... if she'll wear 'em and be conservative... fine. Maybe it will help her not to be viewed as a piece of ass all the time.

I agree... girls didn't used to be like this. They complain about guys wanting nothing but sex... but walk around showing off every single possible curve they can... then get "mad" when a guy just want to bone her. That's fucked up.

It's like stabbing yourself in the leg, then getting all bent out of shape because you're bleeding on the carpet. Good fuck, man... THEN DON'T STAB YOURSELF IN THE LEG!!!

It's like being a sex object is "cool" or something now days. Men sleep with a shitload of chicks, he's held high by his friends. A girl sleeps with a shitload of guys... she's called a whore. Strange turnaround.

But ladies don't wanna hump all the guys, from what I can tell. They just want the guys to envision it... then have this feeling of power that they can control any guy they want. If they wanna give it up... they can... if not... tough shit.

Sad that they think like that.... but unfortunately it seems to be true.

 

[badazzwhitedude]

You are exactly right. All you have to do is play the same game, just be better at it. I don't care so much that I am not getting laid right now. I am getting the satisfaction from winning at the game. I am just kind of lead them on a little bit, then I just forget all about them. It drives them nuts dude.