Split up with the lady, now a hot blond wants me to spend the night.... advice?

[Big Brother Val]

I hear you, man.

I've only seen 2 different ladies in the past 7 years. Not only am I out of the game... I don't even know how to play it anymore.

It's changed so much.

When I used to date different gals... they were more timid... shy... and seemed to be more caring about me... rather than looking good for anyone who will look.

What changed all that?

I don't wanna go through all this again. So do I have to date a really ugly fat gal, so she won't wanna show it off to everyone? So she can be happy that I make her feel beautiful, rather than encouraging all guys that look at her to envision her taking off her top, and getting on her knees for them?

Fuck that. No offense to any ladies... but when I'm with that gal... damnit she's mine. I'm greedy. I want her all for myself. Just like the money I make at work. Do I go out and hand out cash to every guy I come accross? Fuck no. So why would I want all guys out there to see how great my ladies body is? Where's the fucking justification in that?

Sorry... pretty pissed off right now. I'll cut off that rant in mid swing.

This stuff fuckin' sucks.

 

[hardbdygrl]

val,u dont have to go out and date a fat ugly chick,,,,,,,,,,,, u can come and date meeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hehehehehe

seriusly though,,,,,,,,,,,,so many girls who have been treated like shit from their men would die for a guy like u,,,,,,so there are good girls out there,,,dont give up hope

 

[RADAR]

Val i've been following this since the beginning.....i'm sorry its over maybe she will come to her senses later on..its a bitch esp after buying all those clothes But then again i'll never understand women they love ya then turn around and rip your heart out.good luck in your future quests!!! RADAR

 

[badazzwhitedude]

seriusly though,,,,,,,,,,,,so many girls who have been treated like shit from their men would die for a guy like u,,,,,,so there are good girls out there,,,dont give up hope

I have dated some of those. Nope. Not appreciative. Still the same ol' pile o' shit.

 

[Big Brother Val]

HBG... I don't think gals would wanna go out with me. I think I'm a bit too nice. And also, I'll pick you up at 7 on Friday... be ready... and dress CONSERVATIVELY. Oh yeah.... have something extraordinarily small for when we get back to my place. You can show it off all you want then.

Radar... thank you for the encouragement. And you're right... I'll never understand them either. I appreciate the comment.

Badazz... you hit it on the head. My lady was just like that. Had been literally beat by her x-husband who still has a severe alcohol problem. Comes to me, it was like love at first site. Planned on getting married... had even picked out the ring. Then... she decides that 50 guys a day wanting to hump her makes her feel better than me worshiping the ground she walks on.

Go figure.

Oh.... She got online yesterday. Just to chat with me. My work doesn't allow chatting... I could get fired for it. But she got on just to argue with me. I should have saved and posted the conversation, so you could see how a normal talk goes. Anyway... my stuff was not packed last night, by the way. I wrestled late... putting together a show that we do this Saturday. Didn't get home until midnight. Nothing was packed... she was just in bed. So I slept there again last night... but didn't say a word to her.

So is it over? Is she thinking? Does she care? All unanswered as of right now. Every day is like a painful suspense movie. I wonder what today will bring....

 

[HiFidelity]

I know how ya feel Val. It sucks bigtime, like you don't want to do anything at all, feeling depressed. Hang in there big man!

 

[Budman]

Advice: Buy a twelve pack of your favorite adult beverage and get some good porn

 

[dsnuts]

Looking at your posts, you are either scared of sex or part of the ambiguously gay duo from saturday night live. No, nevr sleep with hot blondes... Jesus, you are a disgrace. Hit it or pass it on.

 

[Big Brother Val]

Yeah... Dsnuts.. you're right. I'm a fag. Yep. That's it. That's why it breaks my heart when other guys wanna fuck my chick.

I'm not just into sex, champ. Sorry if you are. Doesn't say much for character as far as I'm concerned. If that's what you want... good for you.

I'd rather have no sex, and be loved, than have no love but get all the sex I want.

That does not mean I fear sex, or prefer guys.

If you think fuckin' a gal just because I have the chance is what makes someone a man... then I do feel sorry for you.

Budman... I like the laid back approach... but I'd have to make it a twelve-pack of cola... I don't drink.

HiFidelity... you're right. Don't wanna eat, sleep, play... nothin'. Just numb. But I do anyway. I sure as shit am not going to allow this to affect my arm size. Right now... that's all I have for myself to feel good about.

 

[badazzwhitedude]

Badazz... you hit it on the head. My lady was just like that. Had been literally beat by her x-husband who still has a severe alcohol problem. Comes to me, it was like love at first site. Planned on getting married... had even picked out the ring. Then... she decides that 50 guys a day wanting to hump her makes her feel better than me worshiping the ground she walks on.

That's right. The stunning blonde I was with was the same way. She was married, and had two small kids, then got divorced becuase her husband was abusive. Then she had a b/f before me, and he was abusive not only to her, but to her kids too!

Then I come along, and it is love at first sight just as it was with you and your g/f. We connected immediately, everything in common. I made her laugh her ass off, just joking around and shit. I even went way out of my way helping her with some problems such as fixing her car (I am a mechanic), taking her kids to the sitter while she is at work, etc. Every little detail was just perfect. We had a blast doing nothing at all, just being together. Then, almost overnight she is gone. Doesn't even want to talk about it. What in the hell kind of fucking shit is that? I guess all of that wasn't good enough.

I agree about the love and companionship over the sex. But I am in a state where I am so pissed off, I don't give a fuck about any bitch. Women have gotten a very bad reputation for being completely unreliable and not making any damn sense.

Men, more often than not, usually know what they want, and are more sensible, and things are based on fact. Women make rash decisions on the spur of the moment, based on feelings at the time without thinking of the consequences, and then many times they later regret it.