some advice...K

[megamania500]

how about tounging the CHINESE alphabet???
thats striclty a master move if u ask me.


in all honesty i think the reason guys dont do that to girls is that they are afraid they cant live up to what they implant in the womans mind.
i mean honestly, Id feel like a complete asshole if I built a girl up ove the course of a month or so to think I had written a new upgrades edition of the Kama Sutra then when it got time to rock I slobbered on her snatch, stuck my tounge up her ass for a few minutes after a half assed massage cause I couldnt wait long enough to slide my tube steak in her for a good 3 minutes of piston action before erupting, getting a protein shake, calling her a cab and falling asleep.
u know?

I think the reason is that they don't know how to. Many guys are too afraid of showing this side of them because they think that a woman would be uncomfortable or repulsed if they show any signs of their own sexuality. They act too "gentlemanly" and come of as too nice, or boring. On the other hand, some guys know that women don't mind, and even like, when a guy has the confidence to show this side of him. And I don't mean when a guy throws some cheesy line about sex at her like some bad moment on the TV show "Blind Date". If a guy thinks that saying, "Is that a keg in your pants? Because I'd like to tap that ass!" is going to get any normal woman into bed, he has no idea what he's doing.
But if he does what she expects him to do at the right time, a connection will be made. More specifically, if a woman is interested in a man, and they start to interact, she expects certain indicators from him to show her that he is interested in her, too. I'm not talking about "come-ons" or grabbing her ass like an octopus the first chance you get. I'm talking more about body language and other indications that he's interested. A woman can read body language WAY better than a man can. And if a man doesn't do what a woman expects him to do, (this is where a "nice guy" blows it because he's too intimidated to show this side of himself), he blows his chances with her. But if the guy gives indications of interest in her, she will throw some back, and these will go back and forth, getting stronger and more intense. Pretty soon a kiss happens, or whatever. And then it goes from there.

And its not about getting the woman to think that you are a Kama Sutra expert. That's not what its all about. A woman can think that you are a Kama Sutra expert, but if she's not attracted to YOU, it doesn't matter how much technique you have in bed because she won't be giving you any. What Bee says is right on. You can get a girl to get so crazy about wanting to be with you that when it does happen, you can be lousy in bed and she will still love it, because she wanted YOU and finally got you. Its not about your bedroom techniques, its about how she feels about YOU that turns her on.

Of course, knowing enough in the bedroom to not make silly mistakes will help once you get to the bed.

 

[Wulfgar]

I puked on a chicks stomach once
does that classify as a silly mistake?

 

[BigRupe]

well i have a girl comin up to school to see me tomorrow for a few days. so its obvious a good amount of sex is going to be involved. weve fucked before, but im asking u all for advice (probably ladies more than guys) on what sexual position generates the best orgasm for women, or your opinions on what do. i know going down on her can get her off and i always take pride in doing that to my best ability, but if shes gonna drive 3 hours to see me, i wanna give her a really good experience. any tips? K for replies.

It all depends on the woman. Try them all and see which she prefers or do as I do...Come right out and ask them in a sexy masculine way. Women love that.

Ask her what she wants encourage her to talk to you before during and after sex. It will make it great for the both of you

 

[megamania500]

I puked on a chicks stomach once
does that classify as a silly mistake?

Not if it made her cum!

 

[markshark]

well it all happened. i cant really say how it went. we had sex a lot, we cuddled, we did foreplay for a long time but im not sure i left her off liking me more or anything. i like her a lot but i dont know what might happen in the future. she said thing like "you always do everything perfect and say every thing perfect" like right after making her cum and left me a letter when she left saying how much she liked bein with me and she cant wait to see me again, but i do think shes bullshitting. i dont think i opened up enough, like before coming up she was talking about doing it in the shower, but each time one of us would go to take a shower the other would never ask to join (which i should have stepped up and done). all in all, shes experienced, more than me, and i dont think i showed her or gave her a reason to believe that she would want to spend time with me again really. but everythings a learning experience. anyways thank u all for the posts. truly appreciated.