So everytime I go to a strip club....

[RottenWillow]

i beg to differ. "playing" and "method" sounds manipulative and premeditated

this is just the natural course of events that have taken place ...and an observation of the patterns that have formed.

i don't like people BSing or manipulating me...and i have a very good intuition when people are doing so. i'm basically just brutally honest

Fair enough.

I don't think spotting a stripper play requires very good intuition at all though, or much effort to defuse. They're extremely transparent, and in terms of their ego, very childlike oftentimes.

 

[calveless wonder]

Fair enough.

I don't think spotting a stripper play requires very good intuition at all though, or much effort to defuse. They're extremely transparent, and in terms of their ego, very childlike oftentimes.

yes, they're absolutely transparent. that was a poor explanation of what i was trying to convey.

but you'd be surprised
some are very good at hiding it for long periods of time(seem like they're being real, but they're not) and when you're not expecting it try to go for the kill. i had 1 shady bitch that played her cards well and then tried to trick me into spending a bunch of money on her....but i let my guard down prematurely looking back.

south american and russian ones are the sneakiest.

 

[AztecWarrior]

It's not that hard to bang a stripper like everyone thinks. I talk to them like they have to prove themselves to me. Fuck kissing ass. Most of the time, I just sit there and tell them, I came along with my friends, and if you want to talk or rest here to talk, go ahead. About 20 minutes later, they tell me personal shit, then after smell pot on me, they want to hook up later that night. All you have to do smoke them out and you can run a train. Sometimes you don't even need to do that, on rare occassions they will they will let you know they want to fuck. I got some stories. Lets just say my cock was pulled out over my pants with out taking them off. Goodtimes.

 

[calveless wonder]

It's not that hard to bang a stripper like everyone thinks. I talk to them like they have to prove themselves to me. Fuck kissing ass. Most of the time, I just sit there and tell them, I came along with my friends, and if you want to talk or rest here to talk, go ahead. About 20 minutes later, they tell me personal shit, then after smell pot on me, they want to hook up later that night. All you have to do smoke them out and you can run a train. Sometimes you don't even need to do that, on rare occassions they will they will let you know they want to fuck. I got some stories. Lets just say my cock was pulled out over my pants with out taking them off. Goodtimes.

those strawberry pickers le gusta fumar

 

[AztecWarrior]

those strawberry pickers le gusta fumar

LOL! Are you high, kid? Where did that come from banana floater? Although, there is bound to be a few hot mama's out in the fields, not looking for dudes like you.

 

[jackangel]

not at all. it's really just how i started acting after the first time or two i went to a strip club and kinda got the whole vibe and how sheisty strippers can be. i act that way because i find most of them annoying,especially in that context.

I had this one girl that wouldn't shut the fuck up tonight(fuck, last night)....black chick. the more i got annoyed with her the more she kept talking. didn't even ask me for a dance or a drink, just wanted to talk and thought i was cute apparently. only reason i was able to get rid of her was because she had to dance on stage.

it was never meant to be a "tactic", but apparently it works.

really. so, when you first interact with a stripper (for the 1000th time), you're not aware of any intention on your part to act a certain way in order to get them to loosen up or drop the stripper act? nothing you thought about before getting to the club?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Fair enough.

I don't think spotting a stripper play requires very good intuition at all though, or much effort to defuse. They're extremely transparent, and in terms of their ego, very childlike oftentimes.

How much more transparent can the whole thing be? Any man who thinks he is walking into a strip club to *meet the girl of his dreams* or any stripper who thinks she will *meet the man of his dreams* at work is well, silly.

It's adult entertainment. She is paid to sell a fantasy. period. Sadly, it doesn't always end there and the lines of fantasy/reality are often times blurred. No victims - on willing participants.

I am still trying to understand why so many men (not a personal slight to ANYONE) thinks that the fact that they had sex with a stripper is some sort of feather in their cap. OK so she may be beautiful and very sexy but so? The men themselves admit they wouldn't consider her dating material so what is the big deal about it?

I appreciate the admission that everyone is an adult and everyone knows the deal upfront.

Just a suggestion for the men: why not be equally upfront with NONstrippers that you find attractive but who you really DONT WANT to bother investing time/money/effort into getting to know them. Why not just right from the start treat them the way you would a stripper - "Look I am not looking for a long-term thing or even a relationship. I think you're hot so how bout we get together and when we're done. It's done."

I think ya'll would be surprized how much more free nani you will get this way.

Women want sex too.

 

[calveless wonder]

How much more transparent can the whole thing be? Any man who thinks he is walking into a strip club to *meet the girl of his dreams* or any stripper who thinks she will *meet the man of his dreams* at work is well, silly.

It's adult entertainment. She is paid to sell a fantasy. period. Sadly, it doesn't always end there and the lines of fantasy/reality are often times blurred. No victims - on willing participants.

I am still trying to understand why so many men (not a personal slight to ANYONE) thinks that the fact that they had sex with a stripper is some sort of feather in their cap. OK so she may be beautiful and very sexy but so? The men themselves admit they wouldn't consider her dating material so what is the big deal about it?

I appreciate the admission that everyone is an adult and everyone knows the deal upfront.

Just a suggestion for the men: why not be equally upfront with NONstrippers that you find attractive but who you really DONT WANT to bother investing time/money/effort into getting to know them. Why not just right from the start treat them the way you would a stripper - "Look I am not looking for a long-term thing or even a relationship. I think you're hot so how bout we get together and when we're done. It's done."

I think ya'll would be surprized how much more free nani you will get this way.

Women want sex too.

uh..really? you just answered your own question.

stripper or no stripper, having sex with an attractive girl is "a feather in the cap" for most guys...if it's done without paying for it.

 

[AztecWarrior]

How much more transparent can the whole thing be? Any man who thinks he is walking into a strip club to *meet the girl of his dreams* or any stripper who thinks she will *meet the man of his dreams* at work is well, silly.

It's adult entertainment. She is paid to sell a fantasy. period. Sadly, it doesn't always end there and the lines of fantasy/reality are often times blurred. No victims - on willing participants.

I am still trying to understand why so many men (not a personal slight to ANYONE) thinks that the fact that they had sex with a stripper is some sort of feather in their cap. OK so she may be beautiful and very sexy but so? The men themselves admit they wouldn't consider her dating material so what is the big deal about it?

I appreciate the admission that everyone is an adult and everyone knows the deal upfront.

Just a suggestion for the men: why not be equally upfront with NONstrippers that you find attractive but who you really DONT WANT to bother investing time/money/effort into getting to know them. Why not just right from the start treat them the way you would a stripper - "Look I am not looking for a long-term thing or even a relationship. I think you're hot so how bout we get together and when we're done. It's done."

I think ya'll would be surprized how much more free nani you will get this way.

Women want sex too.

There's no big deal, it's just we got what we wanted without having to do really nothing. Most guys can't pull it off. This is the glory of it.

 

[Bikini Mod]

There's no big deal, it's just we got what we wanted without having to do really nothing. Most guys can't pull it off. This is the glory of it.

See, that is what confuses me. If it's not that big of a deal then why do guys high five themselves for doing it?

I mean, isn't that sorta like being proud of the fact that can stand your own stink after not bathing for 3 days. (I dunno A LOT of guys who can do this either, but I do know a few LOL).