I need to talk to my husband more about it. I mean, he wouldn't blink if I said I wanted to go into hairdressing, and there would probably be less physical contact doing this.
Like you, I would have no problem causing pain, just knowing WHAT to do with them, or have them do, that's where I'd drop the ball.
I actually did find a site that offers Dom 101 classes, for free no less. I need to stew on it. I could turn my basement into a wicked dungeon no problem ...
But shit, with all those uptight, overwound type AAA lawyers in Philadelphia, damn.
You know, I have thought about going into couples counseling and I do find sexual deviation fasicinating.
It's true, there are classes, but I really have no idea if they're helpful, MM. It really needs to be something you can just do, you know? I mean the particular stuff you do is easy to figure out, but if you cant sell it, it won't work at all. It's the selling it part that makes the domination. You could tell him to make you a cup of coffee and if you know how to work it, he'll get stoked.
Make me a cup of coffee you fucking worm. Don't look at me. You think I'm joking? Get your fucking ass in there and make my coffee cause I'm going to pour it on your balls.
Can you sell that?