should I or should'nt I ?????

[bigmatt25]

There is this friend of mine and we seem to have alot of chemistry between us. We have been spending alot of time together, here is the problem, we are both married but not very happy with the spouses. It is a little bit more complicated than that. She decided that we should end it, but I can tell that she really don't want to. And neither do I we have planned to spend the weekend together but now I wonder would that make things harder or should we find out what is really between us...???? what to do that is the question???? maybe I've confused you.. o.k. it feels like we are falling in love and we both know that things will be difficult so if we get sexually involved will things get harder.

 

[Bramil]

just my 2cents..

you are gonna do what your gonna do.

but to me cheating is cheating..

if your both unhappy with your current relationships. end em.
then proceed.

 

[Sapphire]

aaahhh very tough indeed

I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, but unfortunately sometimes people find their "true love" while in another relationship. If the sex is awesome...look out!

Sapphire~

 

[Sassy69]

Get ur shit straight w/ the soon to be ex before u complicate it w/ the other person. Have enough respect for your own spouse & the other person's spouse to not turn to someone else to deal w/ your problems. That just can make things worse. If things are going sour w/ your own relationship, deal w/ it first and make a clean break so you dont' get the "Fatal Attraction" thing going w/ your potential ex.

I know its awfully tempting, esp when you are finding someone you can open up to with your problems, but its a sort of violation of the relationship you committed to that can produce some really nasty feelings w/ the ex in an already deteriorating situation.

 

[TheGame2001]

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Thats called adultery.
Get a divorce first. You would not want to be cheated on would you?
Have some respect for yourself and your spouse.