Should a man have a say in whether his wife or girlfriend has an abortion?

[Scentsofhumor]

I couldnt really support a man (husband or boyfriend) being able to make a woman have an abortion.
But it doesnt seem quite fair that a woman can have an abortion without any input from the father. It is his baby too.

well now you are making a bit of sense, but, in practicality, it's like Marxism, it looks good on paper.
Wont ever work

 

[all the whey]

The man should have 100% control of the decision to have an abortion or not.

 

[Scentsofhumor]

The man should have 100% control of the decision to have an abortion or not.

How would you figure out who the father is?

 

[Dial_tone]

if he could carry it for 9 months.. then no problem, he can decide all he wants.

yeah but he'll be paying for the next 18 years...sounds like a bad trade to me.

 

[caligirl]

cry me a river. boo hoo

lol... it sucks being plugged up for 10 months... ever try it???

I'd gladly trade.

 

[H_T_]

so, women and their erratic emotions win out again?

 

[caligirl]

yeah but he'll be paying for the next 18 years...sounds like a bad trade to me.

IF and thats a big IF HE, (the father) accepts his responsibility. Remember now, there are men out there who actually do WANT to be fathers.

what about the baby? all everyone is talking about here is MONEY, paying child support. babies are kinda cool, they turn into kids which are fun and.. they even love you unconditionally! I'd be lost without my boys. I'm glad I don't believe in abortion-FOR MYSELF.

 

[cboogsrun]

I'd like to see where this thread goes by tomorrow. lol! My mother always told me if I wasn't willing to be a father, then don't have sex. Makes sense.

 

[H_T_]

i just pull out. and threaten to move to Canada a lot....

 

[all the whey]

I'd like to see where this thread goes by tomorrow. lol! My mother always told me if I wasn't willing to be a father, then don't have sex. Makes sense.

Thats not what she told me.