Should a man have a say in whether his wife or girlfriend has an abortion?

[caligirl]

Regardless. Men know when they have sex that children can result. Then the men whine and snivel about a few bucks. The real people that should get someone's sympathy are the children. That is who suffers when men are deadbeats.

omg you said something smart... this time it was directed towards you. good post.

 

[heatherrae]

I'm still trying to figure that one out HR.

Remember what you were doing 40 weeks before your child was born? ;-)

 

[heatherrae]

Welcome to my post from earlier today.

Yeah, you are one of the admirable men out there.

 

[sardonicone]

Remember what you were doing 40 weeks before your child was born? ;-)

Reaching for the Condom?

*Rimshot, and true story, all in one*

 

[Wulfgar]

Regardless. Men know when they have sex that children can result. Then the men whine and snivel about a few bucks. The real people that should get someone's sympathy are the children. That is who suffers when men are deadbeats.

first off, women also know chilcren can result
nonetheless, most casual sex pregnancies are accidents. the people do not have any chemistry beyond a physical attraction. forcing the men into a parody of fatherhood is cruel to him, yourself and the child.
as far as a few bucks, that is a completely un-educated and untrue statement. I expect more from you HR, you are more intelligent than this. Ask any sucessful man who is paying child support how much " a few bucks" is. A dear frind of mine has joint custody of his daughter and he still pays OVER HALF his monthly income to his ex in child support alone. It forces him to have to hide money, be cold and cruel to his ex, he cannot buy a home because of stated income, etc..

anyways, i understand your stance since you are feeling hate and vindictiveness toward the father of your baby and you are upset about how he is trying to play this out. I dont know any details and I wont assume anything. But I would venture to guess you would categorize this guy as a "deadbeat"

 

[heatherrae]

first off, women also know chilcren can result
nonetheless, most casual sex pregnancies are accidents. the people do not have any chemistry beyond a physical attraction. forcing the men into a parody of fatherhood is cruel to him, yourself and the child.
as far as a few bucks, that is a completely un-educated and untrue statement. I expect more from you HR, you are more intelligent than this. Ask any sucessful man who is paying child support how much " a few bucks" is. A dear frind of mine has joint custody of his daughter and he still pays OVER HALF his monthly income to his ex in child support alone. It forces him to have to hide money, be cold and cruel to his ex, he cannot buy a home because of stated income, etc..

anyways, i understand your stance since you are feeling hate and vindictiveness toward the father of your baby and you are upset about how he is trying to play this out. I dont know any details and I wont assume anything. But I would venture to guess you would categorize this guy as a "deadbeat"

Oh boo, fucking hoo. The highest rate of child support in the United States is 20%. Most states award FAR LESS. Then you hear some deadbeat making an excuse about how he can't buy a house and a "parody" of fatherhood.

Here is a good suggestion. Men, keep your dick in your pants if you can't handle a "parody of fatherhood" because you make a parody of manhood.

We are supposed to cry for guys. Yeah, boo hoo. Let me get my tissues while children have to hold their mom's hands and go through the grocery store hoping none of their friends see mommy using food stamps because daddy didn't want a "parody of fatherhood."

That makes me fucking sick, personally.

 

[nimbus]

I need to stay the fuck out of these threads, seriously.

As I said:



And ALSO:



A woman should NEVER be forced to undergo a pregnancy she doesn't want, even if the man wants the baby. She's still the one whose body is getting screwed up, and she's the one who risks her life.

A man should never be forced to pay for a child he doesn't want. I know there's cunts out there who rope men in with pregnancy and they see kids as 18 years of steady income. Fucking bitches should be shot.

I'm so outta here and someone remind me to stay the hell out of these threads in the future

this is exactly how i feel

 

[Oceano]

People have gotten pregnant on the pill, elstwise they would say that the pill is 100% effective, you dolt.

There's two pills.

The birth control pill which can be taken in advance and the morning after pill.

2 chances. Chances of both not working are slim to none.

 

[Oceano]

Oh boo, fucking hoo. The highest rate of child support in the United States is 20%. Most states award FAR LESS. Then you hear some deadbeat making an excuse about how he can't buy a house and a "parody" of fatherhood.

Here is a good suggestion. Men, keep your dick in your pants if you can't handle a "parody of fatherhood" because you make a parody of manhood.

We are supposed to cry for guys. Yeah, boo hoo. Let me get my tissues while children have to hold their mom's hands and go through the grocery store hoping none of their friends see mommy using food stamps because daddy didn't want a "parody of fatherhood."

That makes me fucking sick, personally.

I don't know how you can say this when women have all the chances in the world of stopping it when men just have one.

 

[nimbus]

There's two pills.

The birth control pill which can be taken in advance and the morning after pill.

2 chances. Chances of both not working are slim to none.

who the hell takes the morning after pill when they are on the pill?

Also, most morning after pills are just jacked up doses of a birth control pill..so whatever reason the regular pill might have for failing could be applicable to the morning after