She will not cum!

[pip88]

You can't do your job if you did you wouldnt have started the thread.

so just admit to yourself that you can't get her off and get the help she needs..

Shut the fuck up and do what I say.

Lol once again you dont know shit. SHE HAS NEVER HAD A ORGASM. I havent been with this girl her whole life she has had other partners. A dick just doesnt do it for her.

Now you can go ahead and leave because I know you dont have anything else to say. Stop being a problem

This is more about a job its me trying to have a meaning sexual experience with someone.

 

[pip88]

You shouldn't look at it like that. Think of it as a naughty "extra" that slightly alters the experience for both of you (you can feel the vibrations too). You know you can get her off, you know you don't NEED the toy, but it kinks things up a little bit.

Lol I just dont know if Im at that level of naughtyness yet. But, then again Im saying that now with no stimulate. If I was in bed and we were getting busy and it was laying there we probably would use it. Ill talk to her thanks for helping.

 

[pip88]

Please, please don't go thinking that you are more or less of a man based on how your lover orgasms, seriously. I've been with guys who got this mindset and it really, really made me feel like a fucking (literally) failure.

If this is something you want to achieve for funsies, go for it but don't turn it into an obsession.

I'm one of those girls that can't through straight intercourse, the ONLY thing that's ever worked for me (a grand total of three times in 26 years of sexual activity) is plain old me on top, but not sitting straight up, I had to be snuggled up, chest to chest with him (there's really only one way for you to move in that position and you get clitoral contact with penetration) and I really had to be uh, revved, if you know what I mean.

Well I will make a effort to change my mind set. As long as I stay involved then a toy idea wouldn't be that bad but if im on the sidelines because she just has to finish herself off then no sir. I guess I see it more as a distraction then anything but this girl is worth it so I will manage.

Lol yea she like to be on top and ride so she can rub her on me as well as having actual sex at the same time. Ill see if we can stay in that position longer because to be honest we go through alot of them, especially if Im really horny.

 

[pip88]

Let's be respectful please. EF is a place for people to come and ask anything they want without retribution. It isn't any different in the Between the Sheets Forum.

Pip88 - I think we all understand your concern and it is extremely common. I think that if you continue to work on it and communicate with her it will happen. Toys or no toys.

Hopefully so I really want to get this taken care of. But you have to know she wants to feel normal like other women and just want to have a orgasm from me alone. The toy idea is more of a last resort for her. That is something she will have to work her self out with but never the less she is happy im trying.

 

[ironwings]

Well I will make a effort to change my mind set. As long as I stay involved then a toy idea wouldn't be that bad but if im on the sidelines because she just has to finish herself off then no sir. I guess I see it more as a distraction then anything but this girl is worth it so I will manage.

Lol yea she like to be on top and ride so she can rub her on me as well as having actual sex at the same time. Ill see if we can stay in that position longer because to be honest we go through alot of them, especially if Im really horny.

Bingo....longer. Stay longer. Let her decide when to switch ;-)

 

[nefertiti]

Hopefully so I really want to get this taken care of. But you have to know she wants to feel normal like other women and just want to have a orgasm from me alone. The toy idea is more of a last resort for her. That is something she will have to work her self out with but never the less she is happy im trying.

Well that's just the thing...it's far more normal to be unable to come from penatration alone.

Here's how you need to look at things - How can I create the most intense mindblowing sensations for the both of us? The orgasm is the cherry on top, but the journey there should be just as fun! The more ways you can change up that journey, the more fun you'll have.

 

[pip88]

Well that's just the thing...it's far more normal to be unable to come from penatration alone.

Here's how you need to look at things - How can I create the most intense mindblowing sensations for the both of us? The orgasm is the cherry on top, but the journey there should be just as fun! The more ways you can change up that journey, the more fun you'll have.

So im assuming that this journey would be what your trying to tell me right now? Just in case im missing any other hints

 

[pip88]

Bingo....longer. Stay longer. Let her decide when to switch ;-)

Lol yea because usually when she is on top i flip her so im on top i mean her on top feels good but she is a rider on top i mean see is doing all the motion

 

[SpyWizard]

dude.. it is not your responsibility to fix her.. and it might be some physical, it may be mental.. it may be that her mom messed with her head soo much she may never experience that feeling..

maybe she's a he?? or maybe.. she's just not that into you..

maybe maybe maybe.. move on.. life is short..

good luck.. best i can offer to ya..

 

[nefertiti]

dude.. it is not your responsibility to fix her.. and it might be some physical, it may be mental.. it may be that her mom messed with her head soo much she may never experience that feeling..

maybe she's a he?? or maybe.. she's just not that into you..

maybe maybe maybe.. move on.. life is short..

good luck.. best i can offer to ya..

Who says she needs to be fixed?

pip....sorry I'm talking in metaphors. What i'm trying to tell you is that you're putting way too much focus on the big O. Using toys doesn't have to be about orgasming...but it can be about experiencing different and new sensations.