Roe v. Wade for Men

[velvett]

Tough choices. We all were highly disappointed when my young niece got pregnant. She can't even hold a job. But that baby boy is the greatest thing in the world. I don't see it as a mistake now.

Who pays for the kid?

 

[nycgirl]

All contracts are breakable.


I don't understand why people can't just be responsible enough not to get pregnant and if there was a real accident like birthcontrol failure to just accept responsibility.

I don't understand it either. Shit happens. Whatever your decision will be, admit you messed up & take responsibility. And, for gods sake, learn from it and don't let it happen again.

 

[biteme]

Who pays for the kid?

If she decides to have the child and he doesn't want it, we do.

 

[velvett]

I don't understand it either. Shit happens. Whatever your decision will be, admit you messed up & take responsibility. And, for gods sake, learn from it and don't let it happen again.

Agreed.

I feel bad for the guys that get suckered - even married guys get surprised with the "I'm pregnant honey" the pill must have failed - when they hadn't been taking their pill.

Men also need to realize that if they don't want a child they need to bear the burden of making all attempts in not creating one.

If an accident still happens - well then be damned that life might just hold more value than your own.

 

[velvett]

If she decides to have the child and he doesn't want it, we do.

No your neice.

 

[biteme]

No your neice.

She's living with the guy now. I don't like him, but he's young. He may grow up yet.

 

[nycgirl]

Agreed.

I feel bad for the guys that get suckered - even married guys get surprised with the "I'm pregnant honey" the pill must have failed - when they hadn't been taking their pill.

Men also need to realize that if they don't want a child they need to bear the burden of making all attempts in not creating one.

If an accident still happens - well then be damned that life might just hold more value than your own.

Yes, sexual responsibility goes both ways.

What I don't understand, is how come couples (LTRs) don't discuss this? How come both of them are not involved in the "planned parent/unparenthood" situation?

Yes, when the accident happens, that's when you find out.

 

[foreigngirl]

I swear, the more I learn, the more I understand the attitudes toward women.

Yes, sexual responsibility goes both ways.

What I don't understand, is how come couples (LTRs) don't discuss this? How come both of them are not involved in the "planned parent/unparenthood" situation?

Yes, when the accident happens, that's when you find out.

well, if a guy doesnt want a girl getting pregnant, he should pull out no matter what kind of birth control they are using (condom, pill, IUD....). If an accident still happens - now that is a real accident.

 

[EnderJE]

Agreed.

I feel bad for the guys that get suckered - even married guys get surprised with the "I'm pregnant honey" the pill must have failed - when they hadn't been taking their pill.

Men also need to realize that if they don't want a child they need to bear the burden of making all attempts in not creating one.

If an accident still happens - well then be damned that life might just hold more value than your own.

Nahh. Just as expendable.

 

[big4life]

It's called being responsible. That's what is suppose to separate the adults from the children. I'm thinking that most adults know how babies are made, and if you're not ready for a living part of you walking around, and having the guts to help raise that child then maybe you need to stick to watching porn on the net, and jacking off, or invest in birth control.

People never stop amazing me. Nobody is responsible for anything.