Roe v. Wade for Men

[nycgirl]

It's called being responsible. That's what is suppose to separate the adults from the children. I'm thinking that most adults know how babies are made, and if you're not ready for a living part of you walking around, and having the guts to help raise that child then maybe you need to stick to watching porn on the net, and jacking off, or invest in birth control.

People never stop amazing me. Nobody is responsible for anything.

Lack of tact. That AMAZES me.

 

[big4life]

Lack of tact. That AMAZES me.

Nope, just tired of people looking for the easy way out. It's called being an adult. People need to realize that there are consequences to their actions. That goes for the man and the woman.

 

[BrothaBill]

This guy is an asshole, now the kid grows up knowing about this case. He made a kid, he pays period. Its not the child's fault that there wasnt a meeting of the minds with the parents of why they chose to engage in sexual activity that lead to the child's creation.

It does not matter if he wants it or not, he has a child now, he pays

 

[EnderJE]

So basically, you're saying that the kid is always more important then the parent (ie the parent pays)?

1) You're assuming that the child support always ACTUALLY goes to the child.
2) I disagree. I think that both are equally expendable.

 

[BUBBLES]

This guy is an asshole, now the kid grows up knowing about this case. He made a kid, he pays period. Its not the child's fault that there wasnt a meeting of the minds with the parents of why they chose to engage in sexual activity that lead to the child's creation.

It does not matter if he wants it or not, he has a child now, he pays

Absolutely agree with you on this one. He had sex knowing that he woman may fall pregnant therefore he took a risk now he has to pay. I feel sorry for the child having a father like that.

 

[big4life]

So basically, you're saying that the kid is always more important then the parent (ie the parent pays)?

1) You're assuming that the child support always ACTUALLY goes to the child.
2) I disagree. I think that both are equally expendable.

Yes, the child is ALWAYS more important. The child is the only innocent one in a situation like this.

As for where the child support goes, that is once again an adult problem, and falls under being responsible, being an adult.

 

[EnderJE]

Yes, the child is ALWAYS more important. The child is the only innocent one in a situation like this.

As for where the child support goes, that is once again an adult problem, and falls under being responsible, being an adult.

Sorry you feel that way. I disagree.

I believe that if a person always makes the child more important (and neglects themselves), they'll grow to hate the child eventually and the whole thing will backlash.

 

[velvett]

1) You're assuming that the child support always ACTUALLY goes to the child.

Well most laws are based on theory of proper practice not actual practice.

I think it's safe to say we all know at least one person that spends their child's monetary support on themselves or better yet their boyfriend, girlfriend or drug habit.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Wow, do I love safe sex even 1000 times more after reading this.

 

[big4life]

Sorry you feel that way. I disagree.

I believe that if a person always makes the child more important (and neglects themselves), they'll grow to hate the child eventually and the whole thing will backlash.

When it comes to making sure that the child you create is taken care of, absolutely the child comes first. I never said anything about neglecting yourself. Everyone should do everything possible to make themselves happy, but when you create a child your priorities should change.

This is about a man who fathered a child and now wants to avoid any responsibility for his actions. People don't have to worry about him resenting this child, he wants to pretend the child doesn't exist, and that's insane.