questions bout anal

[lavi]

ok well my gf mentioned that shes willing to try anal. we were wondering what are the possible negative effects and also how should i best approach this so that she wants some more

what i think i know about it:
it can bleed - all the time? first few times?
should use a condom so you dont get diseases from shit?
would probably want to go slow first few times?

your knowledge/advice would be appreciated.

Thanks
-lavi

 

[awittyusername]

ok well my gf mentioned that shes willing to try anal. we were wondering what are the possible negative effects and also how should i best approach this so that she wants some more

what i think i know about it:
it can bleed - all the time? first few times?
should use a condom so you dont get diseases from shit?
would probably want to go slow first few times?

your knowledge/advice would be appreciated.

Thanks
-lavi

First off. Congrats!!!

The first time she should have a couple of drinks to Loosen up.

Start out with 1 finger SLOWLY and of course use lubricant (I prefer "KY liquid")

Then, move to 2 fingers.

Now you are ready to go in w/the penis. (slowly)

If you both have been tested then don't wear a condom. (it is alot easier without)

Good luck!!

 

[ElvisP]

Dude,
Do it doggie style and lube your cock.
Also, I put lube on my finger and lube the inside of her asshole.
Do a lot of forplay and kiss her ass before lubing it. Bite her cheeks too. Get her hot and ready for it.
Go slow man. Just fuck her with the head of your dick for a bit as her hole will steretch to accommodate you. Whisper things to her like "you are so hot" Let her know you are so friggen thankful and horny for her sweet ass.
Get into a rythem of fucking and stay there. Slap that ass you're tagging.
I never put 100% of my dick in the ass. If you are hung you shouldn't either.
This is what works for me and soon after she will ride you with your cock up her ass. That is another awesome feeling.
Play with her clit as you fuck her. Finger fuck her pussy too. Having a woman cum while up her ass is AMAZING.
Never fuck her ass then her pussy without washing off your cock.
Oh yeah, you cant get diseases from shit. Just stds like fucking pussy.
Good luck with your anal fuck.
Jake

 

[the-short-one]

The above advice is OK - but taking it S-L-O-W is the key factor in your success. My advice is to make her want it really bad by prolonging actual entry for a couple of sex sessions. Use your fingers only for a couple of goes and tease her with your penis, but don't put it in the first time. Use LOTS of lube. Too much is not too much.

Ther should be NO bleeding. If you make her bleed, it's because you've ripped her, and that's very bad. This is why slow is so important.

Bacteria can be spread from the anus to the vagina if you keep switching up. Some people say that you shouldn't go back to the vagina once you have your penis in her ass because of this. Use your best judgement.

A woman can still get pregnant even with anal sex. After you cum in her ass, it can trickle out and down into the vagina.

And, of course - there's always the chance that you'll get fecal matter on your penis and all over her ass during anal sex if you're doing it in the dark or aren't paying attention. (I know - it sounds gross.) So if you're even slightly squeamish - make sure her bowels are clean.

If you do everything right - she'll have a huge, intense orgasm (Help this along by playing with her clit while you're fucking her). Like men - women also have a g-spot in their ass.

 

[*MissFit*]

Hmmm if u don't do it right she will have to wear a diaper for ever

 

[jbradley2093]

Hmmm if u don't do it right she will have to wear a diaper for ever

......if this statement doesn't scare her off, nothing will..

 

[*MissFit*]

......if this statement doesn't scare her off, nothing will..

The muscle can become loose.. its kinda gross.. but if you look up anal sex.. this will be one of the warnings..

 

[bluepeter]

Hmmm if u don't do it right she will have to wear a diaper for ever

No, no, no. Absolutely not true. It is an elastic muscle that expands and contracts. You cannot force it to become permanently 'loose' by having anal sex a thousand times.

 

[the-short-one]

The muscle can become loose.. its kinda gross.. but if you look up anal sex.. this will be one of the warnings..

Give me a break. Please know what you're talking about before you post. Your ass DOES NOT become loose after having anal sex. You coul have anal sex thousands of times and your sphincter muscle would keep it's strength.

Anal sex becomes easier after a while, because your sphincter muscle becomes conditioned to the fact that an object can go in to the anus - that it's not just a one-way road.

 

[RottenWillow]

As I am a fan of anal, I've researched this topic at length.



Yes, it is possible that the anal sphincter could become sufficiently stretched by very frequent and giant penetrations such that bowel control could become reduced. Key words here are "possible" and "reduced".

The complete loss of bowel control due to anal sex seems to be unfounded. I've never been able to even find one case of it documented. Like one of the "hitchhiker" stories, this idea gained acceptance because 1) it epoused a moral imperative, i.e. dont have butt sex or you'll end up wearing a diaper! and 2) it seemed to appeal to some sense of logic.

But like all myths this one is based on a kernal of truth. There have been cases of anal rape where the syphincter was sufficiently damaged such that bowel control was significantly reduced, sometimes for an extended period of time.

In reference to Short One's remark concerning anal bleeding, it is important to realize that very small amounts of rectal bleeding occur often. It's in this way that anal is THE most risk behavior for contracting HIV. If the guy is gentle and sufficent lubricant is used the bleeding may well be so slight that neither partner is aware of it at all.

Concering female pleasure during anal, even if the woman is amenable to it she may not orgasm....if fact she may not even get close. Penetrated at the correct angle, the head of the man's penis stimulates a set of nerves nestled at the thin wall seperating the vagina canal from the bowel. Some women DO fiind this pleasurable but other women do not enjoy it. Experiment with slight variations of entry to see if your partner appreciates the stimulation, she may or may not. If she does in fact respond to that stimulation then giving her "a reacharound" (clitoral contact) at the same time can enable the kind of huge orgasm Short One mentioned.

Happy butt fucking.