PSA: If we have a fight and you don't get laid for a week or more....

[aandd]

... it's not that you are being punished. It is that we don't like to put out for assholes and pricks, which we think you have been.

It is also not that we are holding a grudge. We are females, we have gargantuan memories. We just simply haven't yet forgotten what a total asshat you were during our last arguement.

Quit whining that you think it sucks that we would punish you for disagreeing with us and realize that, much like you, we don't want to bang someone for whom the very act of breathing is no longer up to our standards.

Thank you.

PS: this is a spin-off from another thread, and not reflective of my current state of mind with regard to my man.

 

[Raina]

I agree and disagree. I have no real interest in sleeping with someone who I'm mad at but at the same time, he tends to turn into an even more pissy and miserable creature if he's not getting any.

 

[-SD-]

Ditto for when a guy would rather be at a strip bar with his buddies after a fight with you. We arent punishing you, we just dont want to be in the presence of an annoying bitch.

 

[-SD-]

I agree and disagree. I have no real interest in sleeping with someone who I'm mad at but at the same time, he tends to turn into an even more pissy and miserable creature if he's not getting any.

Dont think aandd is married, if she were she would understand this critical point regarding men.

 

[nycgirl]

I don't understand the whole punishing thing (and yes, I'm not married). What is the point? Seems a bit childish to me. I don't believe in going to bed angry and upset (you are not promised tomorrow - which is why I would always kiss the person I'm with goodnight).

 

[aandd]

Dont think aandd is married, if she were she would understand this critical point regarding men.

LOL. Yes I am. Have been for 4 years.

 

[Raina]

....I'd be mad if he just left and went to a strip club, or the grocery store, or anywhere for that matter. Grown ups deal with problems. They don't storm out in a tantrum and act like they're 13. I have no tolerance for that crap.

99% of the time is well as long as the one in the wrong appologizes. We're both push overs for just bucking up and admitting when we're wrong. But sometimes people are just crabby and don't do well around others. That's why he's finishing the basement because he goes and hides down there when we need space. lol

 

[aandd]

Ditto for when a guy would rather be at a strip bar with his buddies after a fight with you. We arent punishing you, we just dont want to be in the presence of an annoying bitch.

Exactly my point. LOL.

 

[-SD-]

LOL. Yes I am. Have been for 4 years.

My condolences go out to your husband in that case.

 

[foreigngirl]

I agree and disagree. I have no real interest in sleeping with someone who I'm mad at but at the same time, he tends to turn into an even more pissy and miserable creature if he's not getting any.

very true