PSA: If we have a fight and you don't get laid for a week or more....

[habitualhealth]

Wow, HH, great post. Seems like you have your shite together.

You mentioned you don't work well with weakminded individuals, perhaps not everyone is like you. Some people believe it or not have a hard time expressing themselves, not cause they don't want too, maybe cause they simply were never in an environment where they COULD express themselves without backlash. (ie, your thoughts are not right, you only see the negatives, etc..) Thoughts?

Thanks. My opinion...OPINION...this line "not cause they don't want too, maybe cause they simply were never in an environment where they COULD express themselves without backlash." is a great excuse to ride out the victim crutch in life. I could get really personal and tell you I had a shitty childhood...not only was I not in an environment to express myself, I was beat when I did. I never had (in my mind) an accurate representation of what "loving communication" was. So, I would toss someone using that line in "weakminded" category.

Who we are today may very well be a replica of what our past was...but if our past was so horrible, why in the world would we want to mimick that behavior or time period?? Seems ludacris to me. We have control over today to create the past we see tomorrow. Wouldn't we focus on being the opposite and making something better of the present? Molested, raped, beaten, cheated on, a drug/alcoholic, no family, lack of affection, etc....all things are horrible acts to happen to anyone...but should they define who we are as a person? And even if you didn't experience anything as traumatic as those....perhaps there's something in your own life. I didn't have life handed to me on a silver platter....no clue as a kid what love/affection was....but I know today what my perception is and how I want to give and it be reciprocated. I can make myself or break myself based on my past. The things I could not control have made me stronger & the wrongdoings I've done I've been attentive to, corrected them, and changed who I am so that everyone who knows me, knows they will never resurface. I like to think this is what creates maturity and responsibility in life. Being accountable for my actions at all times. Understanding who I am and what my needs are so I'm able to understand those around me. (just my $.02)

 

[SoKlueles]

dang HH your old

 

[sigweed]

its probably not a good sign either that the sex is bad enough that you don't even care to go without it

 

[habitualhealth]

dang HH your old

wtf? bite me hooker.

 

[SoKlueles]

wtf? bite me hooker.

dang ur rude for an old lady

 

[slat1]

Someone say hookers?

 

[habitualhealth]

Someone say hookers?

yeah klu is out here somewhere

 

[spongebob]

... it's not that you are being punished. It is that we don't like to put out for assholes and pricks, which we think you have been.

It is also not that we are holding a grudge. We are females, we have gargantuan memories. We just simply haven't yet forgotten what a total asshat you were during our last arguement.

Quit whining that you think it sucks that we would punish you for disagreeing with us and realize that, much like you, we don't want to bang someone for whom the very act of breathing is no longer up to our standards.

Thank you.

PS: this is a spin-off from another thread, and not reflective of my current state of mind with regard to my man.

all fights should be settled by bedtime.......or


hey if you wont tell me yes ill find someone who will.

 

[SoreArms]

if you don't want to fuck me baby, baby fuck off!

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

just shut up and spread your legs anyways.....