hey all, I dont really post on here because dont have much knowledge but lurk everyday to read up and learn.. Kinda looking for some advice in the relationship department and to get some of your feedback. Im 23 and broke up with my previous g.f of 5 year back in march of last year.
Talked to a few girls but never really hit it off with any of them. I recieved a message on facebook from a girl that use to be a family friend when we were real young. We decided on drinks 2 wks ago and had a good time. Last week met up again at another sports bar type spot nd things got busy after a few drinks. No sex jus "hooking up". We both have busy scedules so didnt hangout until last night but kept in touch during the week. Went to a nice resturant for dinner and then to the local bar after. Once again had a few and basicly went to the truck but never left for about an hour. Again no sex but it was pretty damn close.
Basicly after my ex screwed me all up i made a promise to myself that any girl that makes a move before atleast the third date is way to easy (srry to offend any girls on here). Well it was only the second date nd she was all hot nd heavy. Like i said the ex did a number and i just have it in the back of my mind that if there willing to give it up that quick, when ur not around theres gonna easily be someone there to jump in ur place. Alot of people are telling me to give it a shot nd im thinking about previous shit to much.
In my case my ex was willing asap and i thought it was the best thing in the world being a senior in high school, and im not really complaining about the way things are going here, but its almost like going down the same road. 85% of my friends are players nd do not want to be tied down, but im not that way and am looking more for a relationship. After a few weeks if the girl they were doing just woke up nd said f*ck it, they didnt care on to the next if they didnt allready have one lined up.
So i figured id come on here and give it a shot and hopefully get a bigger response and some responses from people older who know the game. Am i stressing this to much? Is that a tall tale sign that the girls a player? Have u ever had a girl that was like that nd is jus horny as sh*t but has been married to u forever? Im not looking to marry the girl after 3 dates but i sure as sh*t dont wanna waste my time and money. Thx in advance
Talked to a few girls but never really hit it off with any of them. I recieved a message on facebook from a girl that use to be a family friend when we were real young. We decided on drinks 2 wks ago and had a good time. Last week met up again at another sports bar type spot nd things got busy after a few drinks. No sex jus "hooking up". We both have busy scedules so didnt hangout until last night but kept in touch during the week. Went to a nice resturant for dinner and then to the local bar after. Once again had a few and basicly went to the truck but never left for about an hour. Again no sex but it was pretty damn close.
Basicly after my ex screwed me all up i made a promise to myself that any girl that makes a move before atleast the third date is way to easy (srry to offend any girls on here). Well it was only the second date nd she was all hot nd heavy. Like i said the ex did a number and i just have it in the back of my mind that if there willing to give it up that quick, when ur not around theres gonna easily be someone there to jump in ur place. Alot of people are telling me to give it a shot nd im thinking about previous shit to much.
In my case my ex was willing asap and i thought it was the best thing in the world being a senior in high school, and im not really complaining about the way things are going here, but its almost like going down the same road. 85% of my friends are players nd do not want to be tied down, but im not that way and am looking more for a relationship. After a few weeks if the girl they were doing just woke up nd said f*ck it, they didnt care on to the next if they didnt allready have one lined up.
So i figured id come on here and give it a shot and hopefully get a bigger response and some responses from people older who know the game. Am i stressing this to much? Is that a tall tale sign that the girls a player? Have u ever had a girl that was like that nd is jus horny as sh*t but has been married to u forever? Im not looking to marry the girl after 3 dates but i sure as sh*t dont wanna waste my time and money. Thx in advance