Perfect site for a legal question =/

[miplank]

it's a sign the rapture is coming

 

[Strongbow]

Never been a fucking wigger in my life, I just know some niggas from the hood.

 

[billfred]

Never been a fucking wigger in my life, I just know some niggas from the hood.

You have been an internet wigger ever since you showed up here. Well, until recently.

 

[WoodyO]

Never been a fucking wigger in my life, I just know some niggas from the hood.

Who dem titties in your avacor belong to?

 

[Strongbow]

Who dem titties in your avacor belong to?

Nice tits yes?

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[Strongbow]

You have been an internet wigger ever since you showed up here. Well, until recently.

Bor beans im alot of things but wigger aint one. Trust me i may have given you that impression but its definately for entertainment purposes

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[Strongbow]

Hey lets support Nev in this thread enough about me and my awesome boobs

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[billfred]

Hey lets support Nev in this thread enough about me and my awesome boobs

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Jnev - get to the place where you have the most opportunity in life and your daughter will as well. If that means getting some support from home, get there - take the plunge.

 

[shirlene29]

It sounds like hes already figured out what he wants to do and what he think will be best...seems like just trying to figure HOW to pull it off at this point.

 

[noodles1010]

I'm thinking of taking my daughter and moving back home to Philly. I lost everything I've ever had here aside from Q, and if I keep going on like I am she's just going to be fucked when she gets older. I have zero support out here, limited "help" from her mom, my family (pretty awesome) never gets to see her, and I just feel that there's no opportunity for me here anymore.

Anyhoo, I have sole custody of the little critter, joint legal and physical. I know her mom loves her, but she's not doing anything with her life and the older she gets, the worse it's going to be for her. Female personal trainers in their 40's without a HS diploma don't have a ton of options. Anyone in a similar situation done this, and how did it go? What kind of legal bs am I going to have to deal with?

ok nev... been down this road already...
you need sole legal and physical custody of her to pick up and go without the mothers or other parents consent.
legally she can hold u wherever you are unless you write up a new mutually agreeable divorce/ custody decree. A modified stipulation would work as well as far as her visitation if you didnt want to change a divorce decree but she would still have to sign off on her leaving with you. This means you would state " i am moving to philly and u can have unlimited parenting time when in the state of Philadelphia as long as the minor child is not being taken further than (we will say) 30 miles from the childs primary residence without prior written consent and fathers permission" or something like that. Structure is the key word when moving away from a parent. you have one shot really to lay the ground rules, boundaries, do's and dont's.
Something as simple as a "legal" letter signed and notarized would be legally enforceable enough for you to move without having to go through the courts, but would have to be signed and notarized by BOTH of you to be enforceable and of course be as descriptive as humanly possible including visitation and all that other stuff i said. leave no rock unturned or it can come to bite you in the ass later on.

im a little confused how you have sole custody but have joint legal and physical... sole custody is you have final say over all legal matters, sole physical is the child remains and lives in one place.
for instance me and my gf have sole legal/physical custody of our son. if anything with his biological happens it has to have our approval on it first or he gets nothing.