Perfect site for a legal question =/

[smurf2]

What kind of documentation? If you don't want to get into it here, PM or phone is culo.

I had to do research on the educational (one of the too school districts in the country) and recreational/athletic (park district) activities that would be available to him in the new place. The judge also wanted to know if i had a job lined up (i didnt at that point, but i was close) and what my support system would be in the new place (childcare, family nearby, etc)

 

[smurf2]

Oh and of course we had to offer a reasonable visitation plan which included several weeks in the summer, spring and winter break, etc
That was hard. He was 7 or 8 when he started flying alone (terrifying for the parent btw)

 

[jnevin]

I had to do research on the educational (one of the too school districts in the country) and recreational/athletic (park district) activities that would be available to him in the new place. The judge also wanted to know if i had a job lined up (i didnt at that point, but i was close) and what my support system would be in the new place (childcare, family nearby, etc)

*two

This should all be easy to cover. Plus, the ex signed court docs acknowledging the fact that she drugged my Q with benadryl, and a preschool teacher was just charged with doing that in NJ recently.

 

[miplank]

I dunno dick about this, but good luck bro!

 

[jnevin]

I dunno dick about this, but good luck bro!

Thanks dude. Maybe in a few years I can get my pdaddy on.

 

[smurf2]

*two

This should all be easy to cover. Plus, the ex signed court docs acknowledging the fact that she drugged my Q with benadryl, and a preschool teacher was just charged with doing that in NJ recently.

Actually, the proper correction would have been *top

 

[smurf2]

Dude, your ex doesnt have a HS diploma???

 

[75th]

Per the usual I cant offer anything even relating to value...just wanted to let you know I very much hope this all works out in your favor. Best of luck.

 

[Strongbow]

Yeah, that's what I'm thinking too. It just sucks when she asks where her mom is and she's only a couple of miles away. When she starts kindergarten she'll almost never see her.

I just have nothing out here.

It will sux even worse when she's ten and she understands that mommy could see her at any time and chooses not to. This will probably sound stupid to you, but by moving now she will be better off in so many ways that you are probably not even seeing. Ironically you will probably be salvaging some kind of relationship for her and her mother in the future by putting the distance between them and therefore saving some face for her mother, assuming she eventually wakes up and relizes what a complete bitch she has been. You're buying her mother time and giving her an excuse, but remember it's in Q's best intrest and that's all that really matters. The last thing any child needs is to grow up and feel unwanted by either parent. Trust me on this I've seen it's affects on children and they are everlasting. Moving and letting her have your family to support you and her is the best thing bro beans. She will adjust and having the distance between her and her mother will become the norm, she will understand it as she gets older, but mommy not being there will be because mommy lives far off, not because mommy don;t love me. I know that may seem like you are giving mommy an out and you will be, but it will be the easiest thing for Q.

 

[75th]

Jebus....since when has StrongMo been so insightful?

Good call, broheim.