orgasm question....

[Temple]

Oicu - one other thing, have they checked your test levels since they put you on the cyp? Personally, I would not settle for just being brought into the normal range, I would tell my doc that I wanted to be at the top end of normal.

 

[starfish]

LOL. I don't know if any of that was directed at me but I don't need a man for the big "O", and just because that is how you got there the first time doesn't mean that either..

My first post gave her a website where she could buy toys galore LOL.....


My boyfriend just happenned to get me there and then I ventured off in other ways...It is very possible.

Pleaseeeeeeeeee

 

[Temple]

There are many generalized statments being made on this thread that I can promise are not being directed at anyone in particular.

 

[starfish]

HAHAHA! I don't need a man to solve my problems **cough**Monster **cough.

Just because he was there does not mean that either.. In fact the idea that he was there, shows how comfortable a girl can be with her body. LOL

 

[oicu812 - chargeback]

temple: i have not had them checked again.. i am still waiting for the insurance to send me my approval letter... but when that happens... i am thinking that it would be benefial to see what they are...

star: i went shopping the other night on the net... now i am just waiting.. impatiently...lol

 

[Temple]

This is or has been a very productive thread and I DO NOT want to see it locked. I went back and reread what Monster said and it seems to me that you are taking it out of context - he applied it to men as well. Why the hell is everyone getting in a big huff because Monster firmly believes that a woman should masturbate? Seems to me to be a pretty refreshing position coming from a man as most of them are offended at the mere thought that they can't or don't fulfill their woman's every need.

 

[starfish]

What Monster is saying is saying is a refreshing position, I just disagree with the way he is saying it. This is a discussion board and I can disagree, can't I..

Monster stands 100% by what he said but obviously, that didn't work for three other people here..

I like his views, just to bad he can't see others are JUST as good..
Or is it a popularity contest around here?? I honestly don't know sometimes..


Anywho,

OICU812, -I'm GLAD I could help you out..
Enjoy the toys Heehee!!!Hee Hee!!

Just relax and play around and it will happen when it's right for you and your body. Also, keep up with the medical part.

Good Luck

 

[Gladiola]

Why the hell is everyone getting in a big huff because Monster firmly believes that a woman should masturbate?

I wouldn't say I'm in a huff, but I do feel that ppl (Monster included) are saying Masturbation is the ONLY & IDEAL way to reach the big O for the first time in your life. I agree with him it's ideal, actually, but I disagree that it's impossible otherwise.

The primary reason I'm posting anything at all is b/c I WAS TOLD FOR YEARS masturbate, masturbate, masturbate..... When I still couldn't make it happen for myself I felt even worse than before - like something was wrong with me not only cuz I couldn't cum, but also cuz I couldn't make it happen for myself. I felt bad - like a loser.

I guess just saying over & over & over "Make it happen for yourself & ONLY YOU CAN MAKE IT HAPPEN" would put even MORE stress & guilt or shame on a person. Like if a woman can make it happen for herself & she isn't, then it's HER FAULT. Maybe? I think that's why I want to stress that masturbation isn't the only possible way.

Starfish, when you wrote, "I don't know if any of that was directed at me" were you referring to my post? I'm confused.

 

[Temple]

Gladiola - I think what is happening here (and it happens often on this board_ is that when a subject is being debated folks have a tendency to take the things the opposing view says personally. I have said it before and will say it again - I think we benefit the most when there are two sides to a debate and each side argues theri position to the dying end as long as nothing that is said even if sarcastically is taken personally. I could just as easily be on the opposite side of this from Monster - I have been there before and we have both been pretty blunt in what we said to each other but we are still friends, we simply disagree.

The principals that apply to bodybuilding apply here - If it ain't working for you then for godsakes change it and if it is working for you then keep doing it until it stops.

 

[starfish]

Gladiola,

To answer your question, I was not referring to you. I COMPLETELY agree with you.. I don't know what people do to get another post to copy in my post. Sorry if I confused you.