orgasm question....

[Gladiola]

The reason that I asked if a woman could describe what going on in her body PHYSICALLY during an orgasm

That's not what you asked though. You asked if a woman UNDER 25 could describe it. That seems to me to be AGE DISCRIMINATION & that bothers me a bit. If I'm an idiot - let me prove I'm an idiot of my own accord, don't prejudge me to be one because I'm 24 years old.
Reminds me of the saying, "Don't judge people by the color of their skin. If you just give them a chance, they will provide you plenty more legitimate reasons to judge them as an idiot."
Racism is not the same as age discrimination, but they have in common the concept of unfairly prejudging something like someone's intelligence.

If one truly had had one, they would have ZERO difficulty explaning it

I disagree - there are lots of ppl who are simply just not eloquent. Honestly, I did think you meant what happens to CAUSE the involuntary contractions - what is physiologically occuring in the body - & that I have NO IDEA. I didn't understand either what you were driving at. Although I did understand that you were trying to make the point that ppl think they know what they're talking about & in reality they don't have a clue. You also chose to make the blantent point that those cluless people must also be the younger people.

You all need to get your freaking Powerpuff Girls underoos out of the bind that they are in

Um, OK, I think my age discrimination point is made.....

I know I'll probably be : for this post - so go ahead. Age discrimation (prejudging someone in anyway based on age ALONE) bothers me. I don't think I'm wrong for it bothering me. I also don't see the need to keep my mouth shut & not point this out for what it is. So blast away.

BMom, I also wish you know ill will - I don't think you meant to hurt anyone - so please don't think I'm all pissed at ya or something. I didn't send the bad karma - I'm not that lame.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Gladiola you are cool with me and I thank you for your honesty. I would NEVER engage in a flame war with someone for expressing their honest opinion.

As for the age discrimination thing, I know it seems that way, but is was not. There are MANY women who go through life NEVER experiencing an orgasm, but generally the absence of an orgasm has more to do with what is going through our minds and very little to do with what is goin on with our bodies. How many of us were made to feel dirty or guilty for even THINKING about touching our own bodies for all of our childhood into our adult lives? But as we get older we adopt more of a sense of "FUCK YOU and your uptight notions!" I speak with MANY people and I have my own life experience to draw on.

I am not saying that EVERYONE goes through these things at the same rate.... however, it is pretty much the norm.

There are few things that we see and experience the same way through 40 year old eyes that we did through 30 year old eyes, 20 year old eyes, etc and so on.

I am glad that you came out and stated your feelings. It always helps when there is a civilized and honest exchange of ideas. Believe it or not I have A LOT to learn about younger women. Yes, I was once your age too... but times do tend to change and I want so badly to help my daughters through all facets of thier life. My experience is ONLY ONE EXPERIENCE. My children can only benefit if I sit up and listen to MANY, MANY other individuals of ALL AGES!

 

[Gladiola]

Gladiola you are cool with me and I thank you for your honesty. I would NEVER engage in a flame war with someone for expressing their honest opinion.

Oops! I didn't mean to imply that I thought YOU would flame me! I actually meant other ppl. I didn't mean it to sound like I thought you would be nasty, b/c I certainly did not think that.

I know what you mean about letting yourself relax & JUST ENJOY IT! My boyfriend (first one ever to make me cum, at age 22, he was 28) used to say that to me all the time, "JUST ENJOY IT" that's like his mantra for sex (Not that he sleeps around) - but when we go to that point, he is laid back & doesn't have any hang-ups. He taught me a lot. He's still around

JLO - I can't believe you Dr. even mentioned that! Is that surgery really practiced?? How awful. Um, when someone is CUT, don't they get SCAR TISSUE & isn't that tough & lacking nerve endings?

Um, if the skin is in the way, do you, uh, pull it back? Don't want to be graphic, I'm just confused how it can still be in the way...

 

[JLo]

Um, if the skin is in the way, do you, uh, pull it back? Don't want to be graphic, I'm just confused how it can still be in the way...

Well, in order to expose the clit, there is that small piece of skin right there...*pointing*...LOL - and the doc said that maybe if the skin were removed (making it look like a little poked up nub) that it would be more sensitive to the touch...

I have had men go down on me and pull it back with their fingers while they were just right on the clit, and that was awesome...but still.... I am still my best lover! LOL - na, I'm kidding...although, I have made myself cum IN FRONT of men.... they just participated by talking dirty to me....

Don't get me wrong. I love sex and I love men.... maybe it's good thing I can't cum.....then I'd be a nympho for sure.

 

[Temple]

Where'd ya say you got that at????

 

[Ceebs]

Pardon my ignorance, but you can use labia clamps to pull back the clitoral hood? I thought the loose skin was too small to get a very good hold on...

Never underestimate the value of a cock ring with a clit bumper.

 

[Hannibal]

Geez, haven't you people ever heard of a labia clamp? Get that shiat out of the way!

Excuuuuse me ma'am....mind if I check under the hood?

waiting for this to be moved...

 

[BigEasy]

I'll be DEAD MEAT (okay-okay, dead fat then) when MS. BE sees this one!

Originally Posted By BMom: I am almost afraid to resurrect this thread as it seems that so many people got their underoos in a bind over conflicting points of view...

Actually, if they get their knickers in a twist juuust the right way, it might HELP their disposition some! LOL

Regarding the Masters and Johnson studies; although it was avant-garde research for it’s time, much of the study and findings have been discounted due to the methods and subjects used. I wonder how many people would still feel inadequate if they knew the study subjects they were comparing themselves to were NOT average Jane/Joe Blokes next door. M&J used some rather unsavoury characters in their various studies…

As far as the clitoral hood getting in the way, try more lube. Water based lube is the safest, as long as it doesn’t have much glycerin sugar. Some cheaper and drug store varieties to try are: AstroGlide(thin and VERY slippery), KY(Gel is thick, liquid is medium light), or ForePlay(medium). Water based lube does dry out and may become gooey or sticky, so experiment. If you are a connosuer of lubes, try Body Silk(medium &, slooooooow to dry) and Maximus (heavy for some "serious anti-friction action" i.e. anal). Blowfish.com has some of the best prices, even with shipping for those in less-than-large cities.

If the extra lube doesn't work, and you are into jewelry, consider a clit piercing! Yes, I am serious. You may find with the correct ‘accessorisation,’ you can increase stimulation and orgasm much easier. I don't recommend that you start with a bar or ring actually through the clit, but instead a nice ring or bar through the hood. Make absolutely sure the person doing the piercing has done more than a few and isn't 'learning' on you. Also, make sure they use sterile instruments and jewelry. Better pierces use disposable sterile needles or have an autoclave.

The clitoral hood will actually help keep the clitoris sensitive by protecting it from becoming immune to the routine direct stimulation cased by fabric and movement. This works the same way as the foreskin for an uncircumcised man. The glans (penis head) of a man that can retract his foreskin is far more sensitive than that of a circumcised man. (Been there, did that, and don't recommend it. But, only because it was medically necessary.) Other than for medical or religious reasons, DON"T CUT ANY OFF OF YOUR LITTLE BOYS!!! [Ask me and I’ll tell you what I really think.]

That’s enough to keep me in the doghouse for the next month…..


BE

 

[Temple]

This from our ever so prim and proper Big Easy????
Sounds to me like there be some fun going on at their house!!!

Bwahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

 

[Hannibal]

That depends on how much pleasure you find in pain.

Hmmmm...does it hurt when I do...THIS ??!