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The_Monster
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I think I had a Polo visor on...
Unfortunatly my post-coital music choices are a little odd. I have a habit of hearing a song on TV or something and it sticks in my mind all day. It will be just one line but I'll stand there singing the same line over and over. Have you seen the commercial where the guy is selling the video that teaches you to dance like Nsync and Britney Spears? Well he is breaking down a dance and where it appears in a song and he does the move and says "Aint no lie, baby bye, bye, bye", with no music and no rythm, just to illustrate the move. So there I stand repeating "aint no lie. Bye, bye bye" over and over and over... till I hear a stereo scream from the bedroom of "STOP IT!"
Oh, that and We Sail The Ocean Blue from the operatta H.M.S. Pinafore (dont ask me why... I dont know.)
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oicu812 - chargeback
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i just want to thank everyone for all the replies!!!! 
Ceebs
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Temple01 said:
It depends on the strength of the orgasm, and how many I've had. I could doze off after the first one, but after the second or the third, I'm RAVENOUS and can't get to sleep until I've had something to eat. (Well, something more filling than my partner...)
By the way, I'm a bit late to the party, but I second the recommendation about shower massagers. I don't know how one COULDN'T have an orgasm with one of those things - it might take 5 minutes, or it might take 45, but you are having one. Temperature and pressure control are your friends.
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Well G - looky here. I got bad karma (unsigned of course 
) about my post.
The reason that I asked if a woman could describe what going on in her body PHYSICALLY during an orgasm is to illustrate that there are many who profess to having had one, but in reality THEY HAVE NOT. It is all about education!
Hell, I openly admitted to my first embarrassing sexual experience where NEITHER I OR THE GUY KNEW WHAT AN ORGASM WAS! Hello?! Who on earth am I trying to embarrass here?
If one truly had had one, they would have ZERO difficulty explaning it.... involuntary muscular contractions - PERIOD. Hell, I also openly admitted then when I first climaxed I didn't know what the hell it was, only that I wanted to do it AGAIN!
You all need to get your freaking Powerpuff Girls underoos out of the bind that they are in and take a deep freaking breath!
If nothing else I learned that it WAS possible for a man to orgasm WITHOUT ejaculating! I always thought that in order for a man to climax, he MUST ejaculate.... explains a lot when it comes to the prowess of a particular man that I know of. tee-hee
) about my post.The reason that I asked if a woman could describe what going on in her body PHYSICALLY during an orgasm is to illustrate that there are many who profess to having had one, but in reality THEY HAVE NOT. It is all about education!
Hell, I openly admitted to my first embarrassing sexual experience where NEITHER I OR THE GUY KNEW WHAT AN ORGASM WAS! Hello?! Who on earth am I trying to embarrass here?
If one truly had had one, they would have ZERO difficulty explaning it.... involuntary muscular contractions - PERIOD. Hell, I also openly admitted then when I first climaxed I didn't know what the hell it was, only that I wanted to do it AGAIN!
You all need to get your freaking Powerpuff Girls underoos out of the bind that they are in and take a deep freaking breath!
If nothing else I learned that it WAS possible for a man to orgasm WITHOUT ejaculating! I always thought that in order for a man to climax, he MUST ejaculate.... explains a lot when it comes to the prowess of a particular man that I know of. tee-hee
I agree Bmom and I understand the point you were trying to make. Many girls/women think they are having an orgasm and are shocked when it actually happens. Just because it feels extremely good does not = the big O. When you initially asked the question the first thought that came to mind was "vaginal muscle contractions".
oicu812 said:
Well, I am 26 and every single orgasm I have had I've given MYSELF! I have been with enough men in my life to know that it's not them. I have had badass sex and STILL no "O". I love sex and men have gone down on me for extended periods of time and still nothing. Only I know what feels good, and there will be times that it will take ME a good 15 minutes to do it myself.
I asked my GYN what I could do. He said I obviously have the "parts" if I can get one myself, but that there is a procedure where they cut back the skin covering the clit, so that it is more exposed and more sensitive.
I opted NOT to go that route! I'll just have these boys keep trying to be "THE ONE TO MAKE JLO CUM!"
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Jlo I truly believe that your the reason may be more psychological. I will be the first to admit that there are times when I have diffculty achieving orgasm (even though I am on the verge the whole DAMNED TIME) because of the thoughts that go through my mind during sex. Before I had children I used to think about how someday I would concieve a child through sex... all I ever wanted out of life was a happy family, so this visualization coupled with the fact that I was making love to a man that I did love very much got me off in like SECONDS... then when the babies came I was a mother! Not allowed to be sexual, heaven forbid have SEXUAL THOUGHTS! Fucked me up for a bit.... then when my ex and I decided, no more kids I was at a loss. What to fantasize about now? It was then that I began enjoying sex for the sake of sex and my apetite increased! Now again, I am nearly divorced.... spent a good time of the past year engaging in all types of "forbidden" activities, sampling life... learned what I DID like and what I DID NOT.
Now I'm back to desiring a committed relationship w/a man who would be my soulmate.... but still - no more kids.
I know it all sounds flaky, but it is difficult for me to separate physical pleasure and intense love-making from procreation... I am getting there in that I have finally accepted that I will never have another baby with a man regardless of how truly amazing he is... sad, on the one hand, but the upshot is that I look at it like this: FOUR CHILDREN couldn't keep me tied to my ex. How amazing would it be to have a man want me - JUST FOR ME and not because of a baby?!
I am sure that my feelings are MY OWN and have nothing to do with you or any other board member. I am only sharing them with you in the hopes that you will see that regardless of how "flaky" you might think you are in this respect, chances are there will always be AT LEAST ONE person out there that is FLAKIER STILL!! hehehehehhee
Re examine your feelings.... it may help.
Now I'm back to desiring a committed relationship w/a man who would be my soulmate.... but still - no more kids.
I know it all sounds flaky, but it is difficult for me to separate physical pleasure and intense love-making from procreation... I am getting there in that I have finally accepted that I will never have another baby with a man regardless of how truly amazing he is... sad, on the one hand, but the upshot is that I look at it like this: FOUR CHILDREN couldn't keep me tied to my ex. How amazing would it be to have a man want me - JUST FOR ME and not because of a baby?!
I am sure that my feelings are MY OWN and have nothing to do with you or any other board member. I am only sharing them with you in the hopes that you will see that regardless of how "flaky" you might think you are in this respect, chances are there will always be AT LEAST ONE person out there that is FLAKIER STILL!! hehehehehhee
Re examine your feelings.... it may help.
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