No Noise During Sex

[Sinistar]

ive heard all about this one. why dont you make any noise? are you enjoying it? am i doing something wrong?

ladies, for fucks sake heres the reason: most of us figured out about our sexual natures in the bathroom. not exactly the place you can moan.

and since the time of sexual discovery and getting laid are usually years apart, its a habit. and its hard to break.

and please, dont harp on this till we start faking little noises during the magic moment. we havent had the practice you had in this area, and then youll really start wondering if we like it or not.

and why the hell is this a big deal? for an ego trip? damn ladies how many times have you jumped in the sack and have us not get off?

if you want something, give something first. tell us something we dont hear alot, like 'Ram that big fat cock in me to the balls' or something.

make an over exagerated but beleivable face when we put it in. and whatever you do, DO NOT LET THAT FACE LOOK LIKE A SMILE! we want a little pain with the dirtiest slutiest pleasure you can feel.

Whoa Shit also works.

and finally, we cant read your minds. if its in your ass, TELL US!

 

[whatevrmn]

LOL, that's so true. My gf always wants me to make noise, but it just doesn't seem sexy for a guy to grunt and moan.

 

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I'm a damn church mouse in bed. But I can go like a rabbit!

 

[jubei]

You don't have to scream, and I really hope you (men) don't because that would be kinda fruity, but you don't have to be a mute either. How would you like it if your gf suddenly turned the volume off? Hmm, I didn't think so. Remember women aren't visually stimulated to the extent that males are so you have to make up for it with the other senses.

 

[Puddles]

Remember women aren't visually stimulated to the extent that males are so you have to make up for it with the other senses.

True to a degree there! I know when I'm giving my husband head, most of the time my eyes are closed and judging by his physical responses, the changes in breathing, the swelling of his cock, the tightening of his balls, and the occasional sounds, I know he's being taken care of propperly. Sounds are nice once in a while. The occasional words of direction are cool too.

I can't keep my eyes open when I'm giving him head mainly because I get dizzy from the close-up/distant/close-up/distant visuals that happen with my head bobbing up and down. Hard to explain, but it happens. I will look up from time to time and see his expressions and tug on his nipple rings, but 90% of the time my eyes are closed and I'm just focussing on what's in my mouth and hands.

 

[Puddles]

LOL, DT!

I've got pleanty to work here with Stromba....two fists and the head still sticks out.

 

[TheDarkSideNinja]

Well.....

Never had the prob. of a girl not moaning or screaming when i was stickin her!!! When im fuckin a girl i never grunt real loud or anything sometimes i start to breathe harder or i say some things to the girl or whatever and other times we have ones that like to sit there and be boring so ya gotta hit that doggystyle and make sure u have the remote so u can turn on the tv while getting some pooty tang that way u kill 2 birds with 1 stone!!! ~JT~

 

[Bikini Mod]

OK, I gotta interject here. I have always been very verbal in bed. I can't help it. If I can't scream then I don't get off properly. Since the children however, I have learned other ways to "vent": ear-biting and MAJOR back scratching, but still it isn't the same as screaming at the top of my lungs.

Now, I have never had a guy be the same until I was about 34. And OH MY GOD did it do things to me to have a man make noises like he was about to die when I made him cum. I can't explain it. It was as if, because I was a screamer to have a man have the same reaction when he got off was like I KNEW that he was enjoying it as much as I was. I am not saying he was howling like a sissy. Quite the contrary. He would make this noise akin to a death rattle, like he couldn't control himself - just the way that I have always felt during an orgasm. And I have to say, it made me feel like "high-fiving" myself thinking, "I DID THAT!!" It turned me on more than I can say. It made me want to do ANYTHING to get him off again! He was by far, one of THE MOST unselfish lovers as I had ever had the pleasure to bed.

There was only one other man who was like this in bed. But he took it to another level. He LOVED to talk. And he wanted ME to talk to him... For him, sex was an overall sensory trip: touch, sight, sound, taste - you name it, we were experiencing it. He LOVED to have me talk to him... which was very hard for me. When I am focusing on how good it feels, I can only make what can be described as the most basic and animal of noises. But, because I knew it REALLY heightened his pleasure to hear me verbalize all the sensations that I felt - I DID!

It is so amazing how such seemingly little things can heighten pleasure. And as for talking dirty? This dude LOVED IT... So guess who was extremely satisfied to be a VERY NASTY GIRL? LOL

Honestly, if I ever slept with a quiet man again, I would feel as if I wasn't satisfying him.

 

[TheProject]

Am I the only guy on here who likes to talk and make some noise?

 

[TheProject]

I like to talk and make noise but I'd rather hear it from her. Listening to a woman moan and cuss like Bikinimom beats an orgasm of my own 8 days a week.

Agreed, I like to hear moaning, cussing, screaming...you name it.

But I'm just as vocal. I have a hell of a time being quiet if the situation demands it.