My teenage son

[just...v]

no you wont

now post a pic troll

No bitch.


And your right.....sigh.


I'm going to ask as politely as I can if she would consider some kind of birth control because I fear my kid is too stupid to use condoms on a consistent basis. I will try to see if she will tell me her views on abortion/adoption hopefully without asking directly.

 

[redshirt27se]

Educate them on the morning after pill. It's hardly BC, but teens are dumb. They might just "wait" till a missed blood spot to worry. If it slips, rips, or you have doubts.. take a "vitamin."

 

[Stank for 3]

Jim is actually a bottle of cheap bourbon whiskey, but you amuse me keep talking, it's funny.

Dude u named ureself turd.... Stop talking

 

[just...v]

That's....


A thought.

Honestly I think I got into my son's head. He started the I'm not trying to have a baby convo with her. They have talked a little about BC and she said she wants to wait, she's scared. He said he didn't want her to be scared.

 

[YoungNatural]

Plan b (morning after pill) was like 55$ when I had to get one... And you can't exactly ask your parents for the money. Just saying some kids will take their chances rather than come clean to their parents.

 

[redshirt27se]

Plan b (morning after pill) was like 55$ when I had to get one... And you can't exactly ask your parents for the money. Just saying some kids will take their chances rather than come clean to their parents.

I know nothing about that so I'm bad for advice. Just throwing out stuff. It is probably better to be aware of it rather than not though. 55 is pretty cheap in the long run if you don't want it.

 

[just...v]

Plan b (morning after pill) was like 55$ when I had to get one... And you can't exactly ask your parents for the money. Just saying some kids will take their chances rather than come clean to their parents.

I think my son would come to me. We have a good relationship.

 

[Stank for 3]

Seriously V?

 

[burnthiscorpse]

I think my son would come to me. We have a good relationship.

Thats the thing. You need top beat into his head that he can come to you no matter what IF something bad happened so you can help him deal with it sooner rather than later.

 

[dabuffguy]

I could give a fuck about being nice when it's my son's life we are talking about here.



Damn this would be easier if I could just keep them apart

Exactly. Being nice or PC over this is not a concern. If they get mad or offended, well screw them, you shouldn't care. This is your child were talking about.

This summer, my younger cousin was going to Vegas with his friend and their family. I told the dad to keep him off the strip at night and to take good care of him or I'd kick his ass. It was a joke, but I was also serious and he knew I wasn't playing. I know them well, so it was friendly. I am not shy about speaking my mind when it comes to my kid's well being.



Also, what's keeping you from keeping them apart?

Again, my older cousin, when he was going through this, I told my Aunt to just not let him see her anymore and she said that's not the right thing to do. I disagreed with her then but she agrees with me now. (Our church has an age 16 dating guideline anyway) I told my cousin that I absolutely did not want him to see her and he was pissed with me for months. They banged a bunch because his mom let him be with her and it has had a really negative affect on his life because of it.

I called this cousin today and talked to him about this and asked him some questions because of you. Specifically, I asked him that, looking back, would him being forbidden from seeing her been the best choice and he said that without question it would have been the best thing despite him probably being pissed off for months.

Now, I know at a certain point you have to let your son be his own man and make his own choices, but obviously having already gotten a BJ, he's in no position to prove he has proper judgement to handle the situation appropriately and that's when you've got to be the parent and make the decision for your child so he doesn't screw his life up.

I hope for the best, V. As a parental type figure, I know how much stress this is and I hope the best for your son for his sake. I really do feel for you dealing with this. I've been there and the worry can be agonizing.