My teenage son

[mstiles87]

let her dad put the fear of god in him, first girl i ever dated her dad showed up at the door with his shotgun and a shovel, either that if you really want to break them up, create a fake facebook and start posting flirty things on his facebook page and she will dump him and then boom no sex

 

[WoodyO]

I agree with the virgin

Lolololol

 

[SpyWizard]

Why are you under the impression that every teen will respond to discipline by learning how to lie and sneak around more stealthily or turn to some other form of wayward behavior?

because i've raised 3 children to adulthood, 2 of my own and 1 that was adopted..

and i've had the opportunity to read many books on child development and behavioral modification..

positive motivation in children and in business is always preferred and more effective than negative reinforcement.

but that's just me... oh and my own behavior as a teen and rebellious young adult..

your experience must be different..

 

[just...v]

or you'll take his phone again right?? looks like he's already learned that lesson..

good luck, the girls father may freak out on her and threaten your son with statutory rape.. depending on your states laws..

just sayin

What the fuck are you talking about???

Fucking statutory rape? They are the same fucking age.

Look, you wanna make some solid suggestions on how to handle this, I'm game. But I have read anything useful in one post you've made.

You act like I should have just let him have the phone and continue an explicit conversation. I get positive reinforcement but he is gonna have negative consequences when he does something he shouldn't.

And I seemed to do fine with with the other boy I raised with similar methods.

 

[burnthiscorpse]

What the fuck are you talking about???

Fucking statutory rape? They are the same fucking age.

Look, you wanna make some solid suggestions on how to handle this, I'm game. But I have read anything useful in one post you've made.

You act like I should have just let him have the phone and continue an explicit conversation. I get positive reinforcement but he is gonna have negative consequences when he does something he shouldn't.

And I seemed to do fine with with the other boy I raised with similar methods.

I do agree though that its entirely possible that the girls parents might take the total cocksucker approach. Meaning your son is the asshole and instigator no matter what. Same age or not some parents like to talk out their ass and make empty threats too. Just be prepared for that too.

 

[just...v]

I had the same conversation 5 years ago, and they ended up doing it anyways. I still remember the text I saw on his phone:

"You're lucky your so darn cute that I just have to fall into whatever you want me to do."

This is the mind of a lovestruck horny boy.

I called him on it, and asked him specifically if he would have sex with her if she wanted. Of course he said no, but they did anyways months later, and did it often.

I hope that your son was sincere, and since I don't know him nor did I hear his tone in response, I will say that you need to be the one to determine whether or not he was sincere. Ignore any impulse that tells you to deny your son would lie to you in an important conversation, and be objective. If he really was sincere, then you have made progress.

The next step is to talk with her parents. Sooner rather than later.

Also, tonight, kiss your son while he's in bed and tell him you love him.

I told him I loved him. And I will. I told him that when he was little I wanted to give him everything, but it didn't work out that way. So all I can do is try to raise him to be the best man he can be. I asked him to consider the consequences carefully. He will most likely condem himself and her to a life of struggle and poverty if she were to have a baby. I told him he has a chance to make a much better life for himself and not to lose sight of his goals.

I really do think he meant what he said. In the beginning of the conversation he admitted he would sleep with her if she gave him the chance. After we talked he was changing his tune. I'm not sure if he can show the restraint in the heat of the moment.

 

[just...v]

I do agree though that its entirely possible that the girls parents might take the total cocksucker approach. Meaning your son is the asshole and instigator no matter what. Same age or not some parents like to talk out their ass and make empty threats too. Just be prepared for that too.

This is my fear. That's why I was hoping someone who was the father of a girl could help me out with my approach. I'd be more protective of a girl.

 

[burnthiscorpse]

This is my fear. That's why I was hoping someone who was the father of a girl could help me out with my approach. I'd be more protective of a girl.

But a father is a dude....and if he's like normal dudes he's a scum bag deep down and doesn't want another scum bag fucking with his daughter. There's that angle too. I know people say girls are easier but I'm glad I have a boy. I couldn't handle the thought sooner or later of some dude stuffing his schlong in my little girl.

 

[dabuffguy]

But a father is a dude....and if he's like normal dudes he's a scum bag deep down and doesn't want another scum bag fucking with his daughter. There's that angle too. I know people say girls are easier but I'm glad I have a boy. I couldn't handle the thought sooner or later of some dude stuffing his schlong in my little girl.

Girls are easier?

Lol. Everyone I have ever heard say anything about that said boys are much easier.

I pray I have all boys. I don't want a daughter.

 

[zwhit]

I agree with the virgin

hahahahaha