agree on lestat's white guilt. i do see a difference in one term versus another because of the history. in fact, i'm often one of the first to make that distinction. but it only goes so far. and the reason why i would focus on lestat's feeling guilty, and not seeing his stance as merely compassionate as he says, is because of this:
"Personally when a black person calls me a racial slur, it doesn't bother me in the least, especially when I think its a small price to pay for what my ancestors (from North Carolina, South Carolina, and Georgia where my father's side of the family is from) did to theirs."
how do you think people reading that will interpret your attitude, lestat? is that only compassion for other human beings that you're showing up there?
most of us will agree that everyone stereotypes, and that black culture also promotes or allows for a lot of white stereotypes which are less than flattering. the best example we can come up with is probably stand-up comedy. in fact, it's old by now...it's always the same old characterization of a nerdy/stuffy/lame/proper white guy with a pinched, nasal voice.
granted, none of this is likely to be especially offensive. it's just stupid and tired by now. but, hypothetically speaking, if a black dude started bad-mouthing whites in this fashion (maybe throwing in a 'cracker' here and there) and then got pissed off when a white guy responded with racial epithets, stating that he had the right to say what he wants because of the suffering of his ancestors, or the because of his victimization by the still-racist system...how would you feel about that?
is that reasonable? or if not, is it unreasonable and improper for both parties to engage in any of this behaviour? where does the fault lie, exactly? is the white dude the worse offender because he's insensitive to history and racial inequality? as a good or righteous person, is he obligated to maintain and therefore promote that mentality?