We need to create a sticky entitled, "When Your Wife Isn't Horny."
Short answer:
1. If it's not your relationship (i.e., you're attentive, you're communicating with each other, she's not pissed at you for being a jerk);
2. and it's not stress (her job is beating her up, the kids are driving her fucking nuts);
3. and she's not having an affair (can't help you on that one, but let's assume you guys have a good relationship. The best way to rule this one out is if she, herself, has said something to the effect, "Honey, I love you, but I don't know what's wrong with me I'm just not horny");
4. and she physically feels fine (no pain anywhere);
Then take her to an endocrinologist with an interest/subspeciality in reproductive issues (NOT a gynecologist, not your primary care physician/family doctor) and get her hormones tested. While all those other doctors CAN test the hormones, they don't know how to interepret the results, and they have NO idea how best to go about hormonal manipulation to get her straightened out.
Hormones orchestrate a helluva lot more in women than men, you can't just give her this, that or the other thing and she'll turn into a nympho. A woman's hormonal balance is responsible for everything from mood, to health, to menstruation to sex drive.
Short answer:
1. If it's not your relationship (i.e., you're attentive, you're communicating with each other, she's not pissed at you for being a jerk);
2. and it's not stress (her job is beating her up, the kids are driving her fucking nuts);
3. and she's not having an affair (can't help you on that one, but let's assume you guys have a good relationship. The best way to rule this one out is if she, herself, has said something to the effect, "Honey, I love you, but I don't know what's wrong with me I'm just not horny");
4. and she physically feels fine (no pain anywhere);
Then take her to an endocrinologist with an interest/subspeciality in reproductive issues (NOT a gynecologist, not your primary care physician/family doctor) and get her hormones tested. While all those other doctors CAN test the hormones, they don't know how to interepret the results, and they have NO idea how best to go about hormonal manipulation to get her straightened out.
Hormones orchestrate a helluva lot more in women than men, you can't just give her this, that or the other thing and she'll turn into a nympho. A woman's hormonal balance is responsible for everything from mood, to health, to menstruation to sex drive.