M, you know I'm not one to judge. And as far as Im concerned, on MOST topics, it's to each his own. But you're talking about screwing with CHILDREN'S LIVES here. I have to say im more than a little disappointed in you. I never would have pegged you for the asshole type. Never.
I find all of this very hard to believe. If you want my .02, Id say you need to take a stab at saving your home life first.