I've been cheating on my gf for 2 years - I need SERIOUS advice

[Judo Tom]

ill chime in since i kinda have a different opinion...

first i would say that you have to think of the kids and the long life they have ahead of them. IMO it doesnt seem like you will be there to raise them throughout there life. if you cant fully 100% commit to that you should leave them and let them adjust and move on from here. staying around and messing things up then leaving and coming back and stuff like that is not good. its better to have a stable environment for them. my nephew went through that.. his dad was not around for a while then around for a few years and then would disappear for a few and then come back. and it was awful for him in the long run it wouldve been better if he was never in the picture. dont be that guy. if you screwed up and want to do the right thing do it. but dont lie to yourself or those kids and commit to then and then keep screwing up.
but good luck w/ whatever you decide its gonnna be tough.

if it was meand i was in your shoes and mindset i would tell the current girlfriend and leave. i would also not try to start a real relationship w/ the girl youve been banging i would leave her too or just be F buddies.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

You obviously don't respect your girlfriend one bit. Do her a favor and allow her to be blessed with a man that will respect her and treat her right.

Sad situation, one that could have been avoided. Now both your kids and her life will be branded for years.

 

[RottenWillow]

I'm only posting because I havent seen anyone else write what I've been thinking.

Two possibilities as I see it:

1)You gf is not meeting some need(s) you have and you would be happier and wouldnt want to cheat if you were involved with the right girl.

2) You are not ready to be in a monogamous relationship with anyone and it wouldnt matter if your gf had superpussy and was perfect in every way; you'd still cheat.

My feeling is you definitely need to break up with your gf, but you also need to figure out which of these two possibilities is the case with you before you get involved with another girl.

 

[SoKlueles]

Oh crak
You have a good woman, yes she may nag and bitch and gripe
but the saying "the grass isnt always greener on the other side" isnt just a saying, its the truth
and ill bet half of these skanks knew you had a family before they started banging you
once they find out you leave, they will lose interest.
Work it out, go to counseling

 

[Deterass]

I went thru the same thing about five years ago. My only advice would be is that your kids need a Daddy..........and not a every other weekend kind of Daddy .

 

[Delinquent]

Never pegged ya for this type of person

 

[milo hobgoblin]

you need to move on.. or figure out some wy to talk your girlfriend into a non monogomaus relationship.. if there were no kids involved that would be different.. but they are the ones who will suffer the most.

TRUST ME.. this will end BADLY if you dont get a handle on it now.

 

[gotmilk]

cliff notes please

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All that banging is loud and caused someone to wake up. The police are coming...and it's going to be a shoot out with only one survivor.

EAST SIDE!~

 

[rnch]

no advce, but a question on a shared item:

what do the gals think of YOUR pierced penis? what coments do you get?

 

[Miss24k]

You got some serious issues, and you need to seek professional help. Just saying "you aren't going to cheat anymore" doesn't work, cause you've said that and continued to do it.

I don't understand why people who want to play the field even bother with getting into relationships. If you want to screw around with a bunch of different girls, go ahead, but don't commit to 1, and continue to mess with other girls. This isn't fair to your girl.

Think about if the roles were reversed, how would you feel? She deserves alot better than what you are doing to her. And believe me if she's a smart woman, she has an idea what you are doing, even if you think she doesn't.

Karma is a b*tch and it will come back and bite you in the ass.

And with all this said, I hope your woman is fucking somebody else.