I've been cheating on my gf for 2 years - I need SERIOUS advice

[big4life]

Doesn't matter, she hasn't been on EF in months and can't remember her password anyway.

It's a good thing that she doesn't know her way back here, or you could be in trouble.


A word of advice, don't post about it here, or anywhere else, if you want to keep it secret.

 

[Austin316]

dude you need to get fucking help is what you need to do. You get with the new chick you will just start cheating on her too. Seriously you got like a sex addiction or somethign and its not cool bro, karma will eventually come down on you like the fist of God so think of that, and well frankly you will deserve it

 

[SoreArms]

you've already cheated, you'll do it again, time to move on otherwise you wouldn't have cheated. As difficult as it seems in your head, it really is that simple. I'm not saying leave her for that new chick because quite frankly that probably wont last. I'm saying leave her becasue you've already cheated, you've already decided that relationship is/should be over.

 

[jerkbox]

Doesn't matter, she hasn't been on EF in months and can't remember her password anyway.

well, either way i think you should shoot her in the back of the head and chop her up and freeze her, then slowly eat her body parts over the next year or so.

slowly boiling the head can make a nice stew.

 

[kills]

My advice dude is to ask you how much your girl and those kid's mean to you. I mean really come on now. This decission you are trying to make is going to affect those kid's forever. I thought about leaving my wife and we actually split up for about 2 month's and all i could think about was my little girl who was always asking me to stay the night at there new place. I used to think what would happen if my wife met some guy and he was some kind of weirdo who only wanted to be the wife to get to my kid "and that do's happen quite a bit" how would i feel knowing it happened just so i could satisfy myself. Dude those kid's didnt ask to be born they were created out of the love you have, or did have for there mother. Be a man and take responsibility for there live's. Enough said i think

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

dude, give your GF a dirty sanchez from the other chick.

 

[nycgirl]

Wow. Is the 6 year relationship your first serious relationship?? Did you get a chance to sow your oats (i.e., get this shit out of your system) prior to the 6 year relationship? What's behind falling for all of this attention?

I'm not a man, so I'm sure my response will be different. I would want to know now rather then find out later (she will find out). I doubt you will have much of a relationship after, but who knows maybe the two of you will work it out. You should be honest about it.

If you are not going to end your 6 relationship, then stop the affairs. Be careful ending the affair with that 21 y.o., I see nothing but raging estrogen psychotic drama with that one.

That said, how have you been able to look at yourself in the mirror every morning?

 

[Buddy_Christ]

well, either way i think you should shoot her in the back of the head and chop her up and freeze her, then slowly eat her body parts over the next year or so.

slowly boiling the head can make a nice stew.

Kinda off topic, but that reminded me of something....GWAR is giong to be at the Electric Factory on 10/23. Never seen them, and you bet your ass I'm planning on going.

 

[canadianhitman]

Because there are children involved, my advice to you would be to break off the affair...and for God's sake DO NOT TELL YOUR GIRLFRIEND!!! Talk to a counsellor, and see if there is a chance to salvage your current relationship with some work on your part (and hers, obviously, because you wouldn't be cheating all the time if you were entirely happy).

If not for the children involved, I'd advise you to walk, but it's just not that simple in this instance...you owe it to your children to at least try to fix the broken relationship. If you give it an honest effort, and you're still not happy, then by all means break up and move on.

 

[jerkbox]

Kinda off topic, but that reminded me of something....GWAR is giong to be at the Electric Factory on 10/23. Never seen them, and you bet your ass I'm planning on going.

HA no shit.....that could be entertaining.

i'm not really into their music or anything though....

great place to see a show...i can imagine the mayhem that will take place