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Buddy_Christ
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It all started 2 years ago when I got back into college. Anyone that's been to college knows that there's hot chicks everywhere and decent looking chicks that are always willing to go to bed with someone, plus plenty of chicks to look at (eye candy is always nice).
I've never been the type of guy to intentionally go out and seek women, just not my style. I never bullshit them or act like I'm someone I'm not, I just act like myself and that attracts more women. Over the years I've had many women tell me that at first they thought I would just end up as a friend, but once they got to know me they wanted more. Plus I never make the first move, I always wait for them to. Seems to make them even more aggressive when they finally do.
2 weeks into my first semester I started talking to this one chick on a regular basis. I had 2 classes with her so I ended up seeing her every day. She had a boyfriend but he wasn't local and she knew I had a woman at home and 2 kids. We'd flirt a little and it seemed harmless, even though we were meeting before class earlier and earlier and parting ways later and later.
I started driving her back to her apartment every day and after a few days she asked if I wanted to come up and chill out for a while. I was cool with that, and she seemed so casual I didn't think much of it. One second we're walking into her apartment and she's showing me around, the next she's got me pinned to the wall and is all over me. I didn't even try to stop her, I just let it all happen.
It didn't stop after that day though, we were having sex 4-5 times a week almost all semester. Sometimes we'd both skip classes and have sex all day. It worked out good at home too, because at night me and my gf were both so busy that we never had time for sex, so we only had sex on the weekends. She never suspected a thing.
That chick didn't come back after that semester. I got an e-mail from her saying she had transferred schools to be closer to home. Ok, it's done and over, I've gotten away with cheating, I won't do it again.
That wasn't the case.
Spring semester started and I actually started looking around my classes more and approaching women a little more for no reason. That spring semester I had a lot of personal family shit going on too, so it was just a few random girls, nothing much.
Last summer was really bad though. I was down at my grandmother's clearing the place out every weekend and there was a chick I have chatted with online for a few years that lived about 1/2 hour away. She'd come over every night I was there and we'd go at it almost all damn night. I've seen her a few times in the past year when I've gone back down to the area. She knows it's just casual sex.
Last fall the shit almost really hit the fan and I almost got caught. This chick approached me at random one day and we started chatting. She was my age, divorced, 3 kids, and she was just cool as hell. She was also a total FREAK in bed. I almost got caught on that one too. I had to go to some stupid musical performance for a class I had, and this chick was in the class. I didn't think my gf was going to go with me, but she did and there was this chick I'm nailing on the side. That was.....interesting. After the musical performance we all went to have a few drinks together. My gf was IRATE on the way home, with the whole "she wants to sleep with you, I can tell!" I just kept my mouth shut.
We ended that because she said she was looking for more than just a fuck buddy and I didn't want to give up what I had already. I still talk to her but there's no more sex. We've hung out with her a few times too and every time my gf gets madder than shit once we head home.
Anyone that saw my penis piercing thread this past spring knows I was healing from that for a few months. I didn't even have sex at home, let alone go out looking for it elsewhere.
This summer began and I told myself I wasn't going to get started on the screwing around thing again, I had almost gotten caught the last time and it wasn't worth losing my relationship over. Well......
There's a chick that works at the gym on campus. I hadn't been in the gym for a while because of my shoulder injury last year, and during the time I was out I got contacts. She came up to me after a few days and mentioned the "no glasses" thing and said I looked good. We started talking and she invited me to a party that weekend. I accepted.
I told my gf I was invited to a party with some friends in one of my summer classes. I told her I'd probably be too drunk to drive home, so I'd be home in the morning. I met up with this chick and we went to a party for a while, then back to her place. My god does she have the most awesome body, 21, and full of energy. She wears ME out. Every weekend I was heading down there to "party" and I'd just go up to her apartment and have sex all night.
After a while, my gf said she wanted to meet my friends. I did have some friends from summer classes so I took her down there 2 or 3 times to hang out with them. My gf thought everything was cool and that I was just hanging out with friends on Friday and Saturday nights.
Well, the affair with this chick has been going on since June. She knows about my gf and the kids and wants me to leave them. I'm 7 years older than her and kind of skeptical, but she's everything I want in a woman, and her sex drive is just out of this world. I've even met her parents when they were up a few weeks ago to visit her and they're really nice people. She said they really liked me, even though there's an age difference between us.
I have no fucking clue what to do. I mean, here I am, been with the same woman for almost 6 years, we have 1 kid together and I've been raising her daughter like she's my own child for 5 years. On the other hand, I met this amazing chick and I connect with her in a way that me and my gf just can't.
I'm tempted to just break it off with this chick, tell her I can't keep going like this and I'd be giving up a lot to be with her.
What in the fuck should I do? Should I just drop it with this other chick and keep my mouth shut on this forever? Should I tell my gf what's been going on? I'm seriously leaning towards just ending this affair right now and never telling my gf what happened. I didn't get caught all the other times, and I should be able to just let this one pass without incident.
What do I do? Someone please give me some serious advice, keep the bullshit out of this thread.
Oh, my gf never surfs EF anymore, so I'm not worried about her seeing this. A part of me says that this is a secret best kept that way and I should keep my dick at home from now on.
I've never been the type of guy to intentionally go out and seek women, just not my style. I never bullshit them or act like I'm someone I'm not, I just act like myself and that attracts more women. Over the years I've had many women tell me that at first they thought I would just end up as a friend, but once they got to know me they wanted more. Plus I never make the first move, I always wait for them to. Seems to make them even more aggressive when they finally do.
2 weeks into my first semester I started talking to this one chick on a regular basis. I had 2 classes with her so I ended up seeing her every day. She had a boyfriend but he wasn't local and she knew I had a woman at home and 2 kids. We'd flirt a little and it seemed harmless, even though we were meeting before class earlier and earlier and parting ways later and later.
I started driving her back to her apartment every day and after a few days she asked if I wanted to come up and chill out for a while. I was cool with that, and she seemed so casual I didn't think much of it. One second we're walking into her apartment and she's showing me around, the next she's got me pinned to the wall and is all over me. I didn't even try to stop her, I just let it all happen.
It didn't stop after that day though, we were having sex 4-5 times a week almost all semester. Sometimes we'd both skip classes and have sex all day. It worked out good at home too, because at night me and my gf were both so busy that we never had time for sex, so we only had sex on the weekends. She never suspected a thing.
That chick didn't come back after that semester. I got an e-mail from her saying she had transferred schools to be closer to home. Ok, it's done and over, I've gotten away with cheating, I won't do it again.
That wasn't the case.
Spring semester started and I actually started looking around my classes more and approaching women a little more for no reason. That spring semester I had a lot of personal family shit going on too, so it was just a few random girls, nothing much.
Last summer was really bad though. I was down at my grandmother's clearing the place out every weekend and there was a chick I have chatted with online for a few years that lived about 1/2 hour away. She'd come over every night I was there and we'd go at it almost all damn night. I've seen her a few times in the past year when I've gone back down to the area. She knows it's just casual sex.
Last fall the shit almost really hit the fan and I almost got caught. This chick approached me at random one day and we started chatting. She was my age, divorced, 3 kids, and she was just cool as hell. She was also a total FREAK in bed. I almost got caught on that one too. I had to go to some stupid musical performance for a class I had, and this chick was in the class. I didn't think my gf was going to go with me, but she did and there was this chick I'm nailing on the side. That was.....interesting. After the musical performance we all went to have a few drinks together. My gf was IRATE on the way home, with the whole "she wants to sleep with you, I can tell!" I just kept my mouth shut.
We ended that because she said she was looking for more than just a fuck buddy and I didn't want to give up what I had already. I still talk to her but there's no more sex. We've hung out with her a few times too and every time my gf gets madder than shit once we head home.
Anyone that saw my penis piercing thread this past spring knows I was healing from that for a few months. I didn't even have sex at home, let alone go out looking for it elsewhere.
This summer began and I told myself I wasn't going to get started on the screwing around thing again, I had almost gotten caught the last time and it wasn't worth losing my relationship over. Well......
There's a chick that works at the gym on campus. I hadn't been in the gym for a while because of my shoulder injury last year, and during the time I was out I got contacts. She came up to me after a few days and mentioned the "no glasses" thing and said I looked good. We started talking and she invited me to a party that weekend. I accepted.
I told my gf I was invited to a party with some friends in one of my summer classes. I told her I'd probably be too drunk to drive home, so I'd be home in the morning. I met up with this chick and we went to a party for a while, then back to her place. My god does she have the most awesome body, 21, and full of energy. She wears ME out. Every weekend I was heading down there to "party" and I'd just go up to her apartment and have sex all night.
After a while, my gf said she wanted to meet my friends. I did have some friends from summer classes so I took her down there 2 or 3 times to hang out with them. My gf thought everything was cool and that I was just hanging out with friends on Friday and Saturday nights.
Well, the affair with this chick has been going on since June. She knows about my gf and the kids and wants me to leave them. I'm 7 years older than her and kind of skeptical, but she's everything I want in a woman, and her sex drive is just out of this world. I've even met her parents when they were up a few weeks ago to visit her and they're really nice people. She said they really liked me, even though there's an age difference between us.
I have no fucking clue what to do. I mean, here I am, been with the same woman for almost 6 years, we have 1 kid together and I've been raising her daughter like she's my own child for 5 years. On the other hand, I met this amazing chick and I connect with her in a way that me and my gf just can't.
I'm tempted to just break it off with this chick, tell her I can't keep going like this and I'd be giving up a lot to be with her.
What in the fuck should I do? Should I just drop it with this other chick and keep my mouth shut on this forever? Should I tell my gf what's been going on? I'm seriously leaning towards just ending this affair right now and never telling my gf what happened. I didn't get caught all the other times, and I should be able to just let this one pass without incident.
What do I do? Someone please give me some serious advice, keep the bullshit out of this thread.
Oh, my gf never surfs EF anymore, so I'm not worried about her seeing this. A part of me says that this is a secret best kept that way and I should keep my dick at home from now on.
