It really sucks the way breakups can bring out the worst in you.

[gotmilk]

Dr Phil.

 

[jnevin]

Dr Phil.

That nukka's all about healing. Sexual healing.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Actually having your kid(s) taken from you is *a bit* worse.

The break-up of a marriage is never fun, always sad but often times a good thing.

 

[jnevin]

Actually having your kid(s) taken from you is *a bit* worse.

The break-up of a marriage is never fun, always sad but often times a good thing.

It's a blessing in disguise for sure. I just don't understand people using their kids against each other. They're innocent and have everything to lose from it.

 

[binö]

i'm so predicting a jh1/jnevin meat up that turns serious (no homo??????).
they will meat their end together thelma and louis style

 

[jnevin]

i'm so predicting a jh1/jnevin meat up that turns serious (no homo??????).
they will meat their end together thelma and louis style

More like Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid.

 

[billfred]

Makes you a totally different person. Don't like it.

diss, cuss, whatevah

This post would be better with that pussycat dolls song playing in the background.

....I hate this part right here, I hate this part right here!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

It's a blessing in disguise for sure. I just don't understand people using their kids against each other. They're innocent and have everything to lose from it.

Which is what I have said from day one.

Sadly, when there is a break-up the kids are THE FIRST used. It's sorta human nature. Everyone does it to some extent in the beginning even if you are only talking about being more short-tempered or depressed when your child is with you. It's still letting your grown-up feelings affect how you parent even though you aren't consciously trying to hurt the child. Most of us NORMAL PEOPLE snap out of that fairly quickly - usually takes about 6 months to a year. But then there are a few that just don't ever seem to be able to separate their feelings for their child's other parent from their feeligs for their child.

Always be cognizant of the separation of these two feelings and YOUR PARENTING SKILLS will remain unaffected, even if your ex IS NOT.

I truly hope you have a smooth *break-up*, though it will always be bumpy. Try to do the best you can, that's all that you can do. Also remember that regardless of how badly you messed up this moment (like losing your temper and saying the wrong thing or opting to avoid playing with your child because you are *too sad*, etc ... things WE HAVE ALL BEEN GUILTY OF) after a deep breath there is another moment that follows. Instead of beating yourself up for a mistake, use the following moments to try to get it right. <---- don't give up. THAT is what your children will remember, that you never gave up.

 

[pdaddyII]

It might make you feel better to post her nudes up

 

[pitbullrocco]

Nev....I once drove 900 miles overnight to catch an ex. Busted the doods face, ended up in Mecklenberg County jail for 48 hours, and then went back to poke some holes in some condoms I found in her cabinet....

The worst in you is getting it out of your system....and helps you move on to finding the best in you.

dude, 900 miles? there's got to be more to this story than what you are sharing.....? haha

Emotions are overrated

+1. omeger. never disappoints...