I'm sick of being broke

[goin on 4T]

Hope you wiped good.

 

[bigbassturd]

I outsource my ass wiping since I can't reach back there

 

[wootoom]

Well maybe if you ask him nicely he'll help out. Who knows, you might have to ask at several different times. Make sure you treat him with 100% respect at all interactions. He might not deserve it but I'm almost positive he will eventually come around.

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cool story you fucking waste

 

[WoodyO]

Untitled ? thickfatcock: Wow, just wow!

 

[redsamurai]

Well maybe if you ask him nicely he'll help out. Who knows, you might have to ask at several different times. Make sure you treat him with 100% respect at all interactions. He might not deserve it but I'm almost positive he will eventually come around.

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what the shit?

 

[Big Rick Rock]

I think I'm done with this constant state of moneylessness. This month I can't pay my rent because I had to pay my energy bill.

My son needs underwear and just came back from his dads and guess what? The dick told him to have me buy it. My ex is living in a nice new 5 bedroom house with his parents, working full time, no bills to pay and he won't buy our son some underwear.

You know what he says when I tell him he needs to step up and help out with his kids? That I chose to be independent. If I can't support the boys, then give them to him to raise because he can afford to take care of them.

I really really don't like that man.

Is he paying his proper and legal % of child support?
Did you guys did in deed separated because you wanted to be independent?

If you answered yes to those two, he is kinda right babe.

-BRR

 

[youpissmeoff]

Is he paying his proper and legal % of child support?
Did you guys did in deed separated because you wanted to be independent?

If you answered yes to those two, he is kinda right babe.

-BRR

Lol - you don't get around much anymore

 

[nydj66]

There are too many posts for me to answer individually. Here's the deal..


He is aggressive and can be abusive. It was mostly verbal but he did push me around a lot, strangled me a few times. I was with him since I was 16, the physical abuse didn't start until I had my second child. I stayed until he went after my oldest son, who was 12 at the time. He did not hit him, I got a baseball bat and pushed him out of the room. That's when I decided we were getting out.

It's been about a year and a half. I will not have that man raise my boys. He hasn't gotten aggressive with them at all since that one day. But he did attack his next door neighbors because they were "staring at him". He threatened th with a gun and the cops showed up with their guns drawn and put my now 14y/o on the ground cause he was standing outside. He fights, he lives with his parents and thinks he's entitled to being taken care of, he holds no value in education, he has a very poor work ethic, and he hangs out with known criminals. His brother, who also lives in the house is constantly in trouble with the cops. My boys come back home and dressing like thugs from his place. He raises them with an arrogance that will only hurt them as adults.

He agreed to pay me $600 a month but I haven't seen a dime. I'm going for full custody, I don't have a lawyer because I don't have the money. His response was to ask for full custody also. The custody hearing is in 3 weeks.


Uh I can't remember what else you guys asked. I hope that's everything.

You are absolutely entitled to child support, not sure about your state but in NY, they'd make him pay your legal fees as well.

Is there such a thing as legal aid in your state? You DEFINITELY need to talk with a lawyer.

 

[just...v]

Is he paying his proper and legal % of child support?
Did you guys did in deed separated because you wanted to be independent?

If you answered yes to those two, he is kinda right babe.

-BRR

He pays no child support. I'm not trying to take him for everything he's got, not trying to get rich off of him. I just want him to pay what's fair. I'm happy to work and pay my side of it.

If being independent means not having to ask permission to go to the bathroom and having to beg to close the door while I do my business. I would say yes, I left him to be "independent".

He was rediculously controlling and agressive. That is why I left. He calls not wanting to be watched every minute and having to ask permission to buy even groceries seeking independance.

 

[just...v]

You are absolutely entitled to child support, not sure about your state but in NY, they'd make him pay your legal fees as well.

Is there such a thing as legal aid in your state? You DEFINITELY need to talk with a lawyer.

I actually talked to them yesterday. They won't take my case because I filed the papers before I contacted them. They only want to take easy cases.


Getting the order isn't the problem. Getting him to pay is. He will go to jail before he pays.