I'm feeling down right now folks, due to the girl

[H_T_]

The sad part is he'd prolly fall in love with a whore if she told him he was good enough.
If he had a higher opinion of himself he wouldn't be steal dealing with this mess.

he'll marry his first piece of ass. he'll be totally Munson'ed from that point on.

 

[healother]

What makes u think u would like the women they know? What makes u think another man can find the right girl/girls for u?

Step away from the computer. Jump in the shower. Scrub off that failure-face u keep painting on yourself.
Get in ur closet and find something wrinkle free to wear.
Go somewhere. Do something. Pick ur own girl/girls. If u pick from what other men find for u.... ur selection will be less than the best. Seriously. Think about it.
Ur friends won't introduce u to the good ones because they will want them. They will only pass on the less than best girls.
Go find something you want. No one can pick what you want for yourself better than you.

true. by finding them by myself i have way more control. i was just responding to heavy duty who thought i didnt have any social life.
im debating what works better nowadays, meeting women on the internet or meeting them in person. i've had horrible luck with both.

I know I need to get off of the computer and get out more. Honestly i want to destory my computer. stomp on it, hit it with a hammer, etc. but i know i should probably sell it instead.

i dont know how to pick up girls. and i want to get one so badly that its hard not to come accross as desperate. as you can imagine this has negatively impacted my perception of life. basically ever since ive had hormones, ive never gotten the girls that im into.

 

[myway]

he'll marry his first piece of ass. he'll be totally Munson'ed from that point on.

Yep. Ur prolly right....AGAIN. Poor fella. Plus, he prolly thinks we're being mean by saying this stuff. It won't matter what we say. He'll need to figure it out on his own.

 

[healother]

If he had a higher opinion of himself he wouldn't be steal dealing with this mess.

you're right. but fixing that would take years probably, and i want pussy now

he'll marry his first piece of ass. he'll be totally Munson'ed from that point on.

nothing wrong with marrying the first piece of ass, as long as she's perfect for you and you genuinely love her.
munson'ed? whats that mean?

Yep. Ur prolly right....AGAIN. Poor fella. Plus, he prolly thinks we're being mean by saying this stuff. It won't matter what we say. He'll need to figure it out on his own.

ill be so old all the women around me will be wrinkly by the time i figure this out

 

[javaguru]

Live and learn bor.....

 

[musclemom]

The answer is 3) I overanalyze shit. i've been doing it for years!

Yeah, I just hope not to make mistakes that are too painful. What can be learned from this last experience that I had with this girl? That is what I'm trying to figure out.

BTW, Back when I used to workout really hard, I used to think too much all the time. Sure it usually was before or after the workout, and sometimes in between sets, but I still lifted heavy.

Stop trying to figure it out and start listening to the other dudes on this thread. Your obsession with this female has to do with the fact that you're regretting YOU weren't aggressive enough to fondle her outrageously at a party. Let it go. Big boobs aren't exactly uncommon.

Heal, while women like sensitive men, then generally only want that shit WHEN they're actually IN a relationship.

Get sensitive when you've got a relationship, until then suck it up, get over it and move on.

You have to learn to deal with rejection if you're going to be a guy who dates real human females. It's tough for men, but it is what it is. She rejected you becuase of WHATEVER. She's a fucking chick, who fucking KNOWS what she wants? Shit, girls reject guys because the smell is wrong (I kid you not), so stop trying to figure out why SHE rejected you, and go find the one that CHASES you.

 

[healother]

Stop trying to figure it out and start listening to the other dudes on this thread. Your obsession with this female has to do with the fact that you're regretting YOU weren't aggressive enough to fondle her outrageously at a party. Let it go. Big boobs aren't exactly uncommon.

Heal, while women like sensitive men, then generally only want that shit WHEN they're actually IN a relationship.

Get sensitive when you've got a relationship, until then suck it up, get over it and move on.

You have to learn to deal with rejection if you're going to be a guy who dates real human females. It's tough for men, but it is what it is. She rejected you becuase of WHATEVER. She's a fucking chick, who fucking KNOWS what she wants? Shit, girls reject guys because the smell is wrong (I kid you not), so stop trying to figure out why SHE rejected you, and go find the one that CHASES you.

yeah, im ready to move on. I've done some moving on already, by trying online dating, but i get rejected on there a lot (women just dont respond). So I think im going to try meeting women in real life instead.

 

[musclemom]

yeah, im ready to move on. I've done some moving on already, by trying online dating, but i get rejected on there a lot (women just dont respond). So I think im going to try meeting women in real life instead.

Real women, much better Online dating = bad, not appropriate for young people, smacks of despiration and unnatural interests.

 

[heavy_duty]

Your boys won't hook you up?

fuck
that is very very very BAD....that's a sign bro!!!

oh shit mang!!!!

false.

i just watched the superbowl with a couple friends tonight. The problem is they are both guys and they never introduce me to women

 

[silver_shadow]

what should I have done? told her to shut up when she started talking about some other dude? lol. I asked if she wanted to hang out again and she said she didnt know cuz she liked another guy. then what was i supposed to say?

actually, that is pretty much what you should have done. it's been my experience that 9 out of 10 times a chick mentions another guy to make you feel jealous. if you don't react, she'll think your cool about her seeing other guys so you're not possessive about her... something most women want to feel - that a guy is willing to kill other men for her!

the easiest way to get chicks is to become more confident. with confidence you'll find even women you don't know at all, total strangers, hitting on you in all sorts of places... in malls, restaurants, buses, trains, while walking down the road, at work, in the gym (you do workout right?)... different ages - older, younger, same age, different ethnic groups. sometimes, it'll be more subtle and sometimes it will be blatantly obvious like a girl stopping to say "hi" to you (i'm not making this up - it actually happens). you won't have to say stuff like "i don't get to meet girls"

do whatever it takes for you to be more confident... most here on EF improved their self confidence by becoming bigger, stronger and more jacked... the chicks don't necessarily dig just the better body but the confidence that comes with it. hell i've seen ugly guys with average joe bodies get chicks to run behind them because they have confidence along with charisma.

PS: don't confuse confidence for cockiness and/or arrogance/narcissism though.