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I'm feeling down right now folks, due to the girl
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ksharp01 said:
yep, I realize this, I'm working on it.
Right now though, I havent been feeling down necessarily because I think I suck or anything, I just think things turned out bad so I'm feeling down about that. Thats okay, isn't it? (I mean of course you should forget about it and move on, but you get the idea)
if ur thinking ur gunna be with her or hang out with her or fuck her, ur chance blew by, you learn you move on, quick even considdering it at a possibility, take her # out of ur phone, block her aim, this thread shoulda been done weeks ago, im surprised ur still thinking about this girl
SublimeZM said:
I stopped considering it a possibility a couple nights ago, after she told me over the phone it wasnt happening again.
I also deleted her from aim, her facebook, and her number yesterday.
The reason this thread is still going is because I am responding to people in here.
solidspine
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Actually the first time is much faster than a blink.
DAMN THAT STUPID WHORE!
I made a mistake by talking to her again on aol, and she tells me she is typing from her bed and a guy is in there with her and they were making out earlier, and she has to sign off because he wants to do more, and she isnt the type to turn that down.
WHAT A FUCKING WHORE SKANK, I HATE THAT BITCH. I NEVER WANT TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS KIND OF SHIT AGAIN!
My gosh I'm so frickin pissed off right now, and the sad thing is this is nothing. I dont know how the hell I'm supposed to be able to handle a relationship.
edit: What's worse is that this is the first woman i've ever gotten physically involved with. This kind of shit could scar my mind for life.
I made a mistake by talking to her again on aol, and she tells me she is typing from her bed and a guy is in there with her and they were making out earlier, and she has to sign off because he wants to do more, and she isnt the type to turn that down.
WHAT A FUCKING WHORE SKANK, I HATE THAT BITCH. I NEVER WANT TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS KIND OF SHIT AGAIN!
My gosh I'm so frickin pissed off right now, and the sad thing is this is nothing. I dont know how the hell I'm supposed to be able to handle a relationship.
edit: What's worse is that this is the first woman i've ever gotten physically involved with. This kind of shit could scar my mind for life.
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chewyxrage
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healother said:
Calm down, the majority of women aren't psycho. Think about how you met this one. She talked to you online, what, saw your pic, then invited you over to fuck or whatever, get to 2nd base in your case. Right from the onset the signs were psycho. Her comments were just to make you jealous, which she obviously succeeded. What a dumb whore is right. So write her off.
chewyxrage said:
ill be fine once morning rolls around. but i cant believe this woman (who seemed like she was smart and had a good head on her shoulders) could turn out to be such an inconsiderate whore.
Whats worse is that this is the first woman i ever got involved with physically. This could scar me for awhile. and it doesnt help that i havent met any girls since her, which was over a month ago
chewyxrage
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healother said:
Welcome to life. It'll make you think a bit differently next time. And every relationship after this will change you a little.
I became much more guarded after the first couple, but it also allows to filter out the bullshit people and realize the people who are genuine.
jd_uk
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lol. I'm sorry but that's just funny. It's like she's punishing you for being a pussy with her. So you know what you've gotta do....toughen up once and for all. Either that or wait for a nice girl cos not all girls are like her. Personally i think you would have felt better if you'd fucked her well and then refused to speak to her again.
heavy_duty
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You just said it man. You CANT handle a relationship.
Sex and marriage is not for everybody.
I dont think you'll ever have a lady or get married.
I know at least 2 guys JUST like you but they are older. One is 40 and the other is 45 they both make great money have a few cars but have never had a girlfriend. They are not gay (also they dont know each other LOL)
It's just that pussy is not for them...they dont know how to approach women, they have never dated and dont date and it has been going on so long that I belive they are going to be alone for ever.
You're going to wake up in 10 years and feel like even more of a fuck up than you feel like now.
Sex and marriage is not for everybody.
I dont think you'll ever have a lady or get married.
I know at least 2 guys JUST like you but they are older. One is 40 and the other is 45 they both make great money have a few cars but have never had a girlfriend. They are not gay (also they dont know each other LOL)
It's just that pussy is not for them...they dont know how to approach women, they have never dated and dont date and it has been going on so long that I belive they are going to be alone for ever.
You're going to wake up in 10 years and feel like even more of a fuck up than you feel like now.
healother said:DAMN THAT STUPID WHORE!
I made a mistake by talking to her again on aol, and she tells me she is typing from her bed and a guy is in there with her and they were making out earlier, and she has to sign off because he wants to do more, and she isnt the type to turn that down.
WHAT A FUCKING WHORE SKANK, I HATE THAT BITCH. I NEVER WANT TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS KIND OF SHIT AGAIN!
My gosh I'm so frickin pissed off right now, and the sad thing is this is nothing. I dont know how the hell I'm supposed to be able to handle a relationship.
edit: What's worse is that this is the first woman i've ever gotten physically involved with. This kind of shit could scar my mind for life.
KillahBee
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A few notes, before I stab my eyeballs out:healother said:DAMN THAT STUPID WHORE!
I made a mistake by talking to her again on aol, and she tells me she is typing from her bed and a guy is in there with her and they were making out earlier, and she has to sign off because he wants to do more, and she isnt the type to turn that down.
WHAT A FUCKING WHORE SKANK, I HATE THAT BITCH. I NEVER WANT TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS KIND OF SHIT AGAIN!
My gosh I'm so frickin pissed off right now, and the sad thing is this is nothing. I dont know how the hell I'm supposed to be able to handle a relationship.
edit: What's worse is that this is the first woman i've ever gotten physically involved with. This kind of shit could scar my mind for life.
1) DO NOT blame "women" for this or let this mold your view of them. The girl you are describing IS NOT a skank, whore, or anything else. She is just playing the game. It's not her fault.
2) STOP DUCKING RESPONSIBILITY. Everything that happens to you is a byproduct of YOU - your actions, your mindset, your views, your whole person. It's nobody's fault but your own.
3) Seriously, you should take another hiatus from EF. It's not good for you.
Wow. This is still going on?
Heal, just go fuck 3 or 4 random experienced chicks. Don't worry about feelings. Just do them. You'll get them off that pedestal you have them on & feel more confident in yourself.
BTW if I was that girl, I'd have moved on too. she was clearly ready for something & you weren't.
I've been there, drunk & moaning ow everyone else at the party was getting laid but me. The only way you get strong enough to handle rejection is by putting yourself out there all the time and getting rejected. Soon you'll be able to brush it off, & when it no longer bothers you, you won't come across so feebly.
Heal, just go fuck 3 or 4 random experienced chicks. Don't worry about feelings. Just do them. You'll get them off that pedestal you have them on & feel more confident in yourself.
BTW if I was that girl, I'd have moved on too. she was clearly ready for something & you weren't.
I've been there, drunk & moaning ow everyone else at the party was getting laid but me. The only way you get strong enough to handle rejection is by putting yourself out there all the time and getting rejected. Soon you'll be able to brush it off, & when it no longer bothers you, you won't come across so feebly.
heavy_duty
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you wanna bet on that?
jd_uk said:
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Gambino
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healother said:DAMN THAT STUPID WHORE!
I made a mistake by talking to her again on aol, and she tells me she is typing from her bed and a guy is in there with her and they were making out earlier, and she has to sign off because he wants to do more, and she isnt the type to turn that down.
WHAT A FUCKING WHORE SKANK, I HATE THAT BITCH. I NEVER WANT TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS KIND OF SHIT AGAIN!
My gosh I'm so frickin pissed off right now, and the sad thing is this is nothing. I dont know how the hell I'm supposed to be able to handle a relationship.
edit: What's worse is that this is the first woman i've ever gotten physically involved with. This kind of shit could scar my mind for life.
you got nobody to blame except yourself
you didn't seal the deal, acted like a pussy
what did you expect her to do?
heavy_duty
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There was a girl I knew that ALL my friends got with and she had a hot body.
I was the only one who couldnt fuck her and some of the others were ugly guys.
long story short, I was too nice to her I even cuddled with her on the sofa.
fuck I cant believe I'm even typing this shit because that means I have to relive the fact that I coulnd get with this chick that ALL my homies got with and she did EVERYTHING.
nice guys get no pussy this has been a fact of life since Jesus Mary and Joseph were alive.
I was the only one who couldnt fuck her and some of the others were ugly guys.
long story short, I was too nice to her I even cuddled with her on the sofa.
fuck I cant believe I'm even typing this shit because that means I have to relive the fact that I coulnd get with this chick that ALL my homies got with and she did EVERYTHING.
nice guys get no pussy this has been a fact of life since Jesus Mary and Joseph were alive.
biteme said:
im glad you found her man. it sounded like you were looking hard, and you finally got someone good.
ive been told that online dating is more for older people and that younger people dont need it and shouldnt use it.
ive also been told that for girls who are my age who are online are usually desperate or have some kind of issues.
all i know is that im going to spend more time getting to know a woman before i give her my attention, because some women are such whores and scum that they dont deserve much. and i gave too much away.
jd_uk said:
its not funny at all. how the hell is it funny? i felt like crap when she told me what she was doing. i didnt deserve that.
tougher skin would help, but i should really avoid these kinds of girls. i dont know about the fuck her part, but if I hadnt spoken to her aftewards, i bet i would have felt better.
heavy_duty said:
Maybe you're right. Maybe me being single forever is my destiny. I'm not happy about that, but then again, how can I change it? I've tried changing it in the past and my efforts have been useless. And I'm getting old enough now where its harder and harder to start learning.
KillahBee said:
1) I'm blaming this woman primarily, and any other ones who act like her. Why would she purposely try to make me feel bad or be ignorant enough to not realize that she is doing so, and why is that a game?
2) So it's my fault that this chick said that and then I felt bad afterwards?
Maybe I should have been more selective about who I got involved with, I'll admit that, but I basically learned that lesson the hard way.
3) I'm hardly ever on here.
jackangel said:
I'm calling her a whore from now on. If I call her a woman, its by accident.
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HiDnGoD said:
If I fuck 3-4 random girls, whats to say that I wouldnt feel worse? Maybe I'd become attached to all of them who knows. Obviously I want to get my mind off of the whore though. I'm just trying to debate whether the whole rebound thing is a good idea or not.
I dont mind that she moved on, but its rude when she turns down my proposals to hangout, and then tells me about how she's fooling around with some guy as she's typing to me.
Gambino said:
again, turning me down is only a small part of the problem. The bigger issue is that she's telling me stories about her and other men. That's just rude. She wont give me any, but is going to tell me about how she gives other guys whatever they want?
heavy_duty said:
I feel bad for you man, I'm sorry to hear. I hope it wasn't too hard on you. Nothing wrong with being nice to people, but giving them more than they deserve and letting them walk on you is the problem that many nice guys make.
I believe you can be a nice guy and still get pussy, but you can't behave like a tool.
jd_uk
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healother said:
Well fucking do it then!
It's funny because it's so predictable. She's showing you what a little bitch you were/are by taunting you. "I don't deserve that" - When you stop shifting responsibility then you might get some pussy. You deserve to feel crap for completely ignoring all the advice given to you and doing it the same way as you have been for 6 years.
Your last two posts are disgustingly pathetic (like most of your posts are). The only good post i've seen was when you told me that you had changed and you were going to prove it soon. ...but you've reverted back to being a pathetic pussy who talks about how maybe he's destined never to get any girls and how maybe he should just be more selective with the girls he spends time with.
You're what i call a whinger. A whinger with no self esteem. I love how you talk about how 'she won't give me any'. If i get with a girl then i'm giving myself to her. You moan and whinge about how difficult everything is and the other guys here are probably right...you'll probably never change. Good luck having girls walk all over you.
It's like a vaccine. You get enough meaningless contact, it'll acclimatize you to being in their presence, warts & all. You'll see their pimples, smell their farts & kiss their horrid cum/tequila/Doritos morning mouth. Then you'll realize, as mysterious and intimidating as they are, they're no better than you.healother said:
Examine yourself Padawan. You are afraid of these creatures. Until you conquer your phobia, they will pwn you senseless. And how do you conquer a phobia. Immersion therapy.
CrazyRussian
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jd_uk said:
Good point. At one point, you have to stop being such a bitch and go for it. When I read one of your posts where you said "I want pussy now", i almost spit my Sprite Zero all over my roomie's laptop monitor. Are you kidding me?
Girls don't want to be with wierd ass 22 year olds who go on and on about how they are special and how they are your first kiss and all that shit. Be exciting, make people want to be around you. I guarantee you the moment you start spouting off about how your life sucks, or how you're inexperienced, or about how beautiful she is, she'll lose interest. Grow some balls, mate. I know it feels good to feel sorry for youreslf and wallow. While you're sitting there thinking that other people feel sorry for you, they're actually laughing at how big of a D-bag you are.
heavy_duty
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too true
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heavy_duty
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would any of us let him near our daughters or sisters?
jd_uk said:
I'll prove you wrong.
HiDnGoD said:
I dont want sex to become less special though. Couldnt that happen as a side effect of trying to 'immerse myself' ?
CrazyRussian said:
It feels bad actually. Fuck wallowing I'm done with that shit.
jon79 said:
I need some ass so i can forget about this whore.
solidspine
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My girl friend dumped me today for another guy, feel like getting drunk or putting 45 to my head.
samoth said:Will you let this fucking thread die already? You gotta be well over the feeling down stage by now.
i was getting over it until she messaged me on aol while she was about to fuck some dude at her house.
i know you're the type that said i should save sex until i find a special women, but right now im seriously contemplating going out and getting some, just to get this dumb girl off my mind.
GoldenDelicious
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and isnt that the reality of it all...while youre at home being super moral christian guy, the girl you constantly put on a pedestal and think is made of sugar and spice, and everything nice...is getting fucked by someone else. someone who might not be so moral. or decent. or well intentioned. or viable.healother said:
this is going to be the pattern of your life unless you rapidly get a clue, steve.
i repeat: this is how life will be for you. forever. until youre dead. unless you get a clue. you will continue to be sexually and socially outclassed by other men, have women choose others over you, and live a life of torment where you ask yourself why oh why oh why isnt it happening for me, since im such a decent moral christian guy, why oh why oh why, poor little me, life is bullshit, life is bullshit
i have lost count of the number of guys i know who have had a crush on a girl, worked their asses off in the gym/at work to get a car/body/house to impress her (all indirect means of attracting her) or being super nice, and all the while, the girl is being sexed by someone else. then they sometimes get the girl, not knowing that she has had sex with 4/5/6 guys in the period the guy has been crushing on her, and celibate.
decide what you want (sex? marriage? whatever) and take the logical steps to round out your emotional/social intelligence to make yourself attractive to the person you want to do that with, and let me be frank:
being forever brainwashed by your parents/priest IS NOT ATTRACTIVE
questioning every move you make in life IS NOT ATTRACTIVE
feeling guilty for liking sex IS NOT ATTRACTIVE
having zero sexual experience, ever IS NOT ATTRACTIVE
having zero dating experience, ever IS NOT ATTRACTIVE
sitting on your arse talking about working out but not doing it IS NOT ATTRACTIVE
forever asking advice on things you should have worked out by now IS NOT ATTRACTIVE
never applying ANY advice is FUCKING ANNOYING, and therefore IS NOT ATTRACTIVE
now ask yourself this: how in Gods name are you supposed to attract someone, when youve got all these baseline unnattractive qualities? how?
the answer: YOU CANT.
get a clue steve. get it fast. or get used to the shitty feeling in your gut youve got right now, because it isnt going to go away, because the girl youre crushing on will ALWAYS be getting fucked by someone else.
and liking it.
heavy_duty
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You must spread some Karma around before giving it to GoldenDelicious again.
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GoldenDelicious said:
Now that post is the best I have ever seen!
CrazyRussian
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Grumpy Old Man said:Now that post is the best I have ever seen!
Can I second that?
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GoldenDelicious said:
Best reply to Stever ever. Everyone should just do a copy and paste of it into every one of his threads.
heavy_duty
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very geigh at that
seaking420
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wow I didnt read all of this but I got the jist. I think we should all chip in 7.99 and buy this guy a hooker or 2.
heavy_duty
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yah a male hooker.
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Gambino
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holy flying fuck this thread is still going
heavy_duty
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time for a little black bomb 
p0ink said:
My active service ended in november bro, I am inactive for 4 more years however. I got out because I wanted to see what it felt like to be a civilian again. & if you were ever a grunt in the marines, you know that bullshit and stress can be unreal. I am haveing a very difficult time transitioning back into civilian life & the only thing im certain of these days is I miss being a marine
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paradox said:
meh, i've had my fair share of active duty time, even though i'm not active duty.
why dont you join the guard/reserves? my roommate was in the marines for 6 years, got out, and joined the guard.
he can't stand being in, but he can't stand the thought of not being in.
double-edged sword.
i dont even know what i want anymore.GoldenDelicious said:
yeah, i definately need to decide on what i want.
i dont try to be brainwashed by them i try to be my own person. any damage they've done to me though will have to be reversed.
agreed
agreed
not necessarily true. some christian women and other abstinent women want pure men. but whatever.
probably true. and then that makes it even harder to date people. its a vicious cycle.
i do workout now, havent you been reading my threads lately??
well then i guess i suck then, if i cant work shit out, ey?
most of the time when i get advice i dont even ask for it. people are like 'healother, do this'.
and most of the time when i ask a question, its not to get advice back, im just curious what others would do in a similar situation.
I will work on my character, because thats important in life, but I'm going to do it for me, and not for some girl. I want to be myself, and not go around and do stuff just for the sake of attracting women.
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