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If I have sex with a woman on the

fistfullofsteel

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first date. Does that mean she is a ho? I don't think it does but the other guys I talked to are saying yes. :confused: They were saying they would lose respect for her after that.
 
my friend, he's this player-pimp-ladies man-type, always tells the girl, "i can't respect a girl who has sex with me on the first night." if this guy can't respect a girl who does it, i can't imagine why any guy with morals/standards could.
 
Shit, I'd consider her a ho if she gave me more than a kiss on the first date.

Women these days have no morals.

-Warik
 
who's to say she's a ho? you're a ho if you sleep with her on the first date. maybe she just wants to fuck and doesn't want to date you? it's very possible.
 
Also, if you want to stick your little dick in a chicks wet hole on the first date, that makes you a great guy, and women will respect you for it........:fro: :D
 
Warik said:
Shit, I'd consider her a ho if she gave me more than a kiss on the first date.

Women these days have no morals.

-Warik

really........lets talk about this a little more and start another women bashing thread....

every single date I go on, its the guy making the move, not me
 
jennifer said:


every single date I go on, its the guy making the move, not me

exactly. it's a double standard. instead of criticizing women for having sex on the first date we should be applauding them for it :)
 
I am not bashing woman. I don't think it does make them a ho. If I have sex with her the next day. What's the difference, it's only 24 hrs? How long is she supposed to hold out so I am supposed to not think she is a ho?

Jen, how did you know my dick is little? You are stalking me, aren't you? :D
 
I disagree Warik. I dont have the funds to fucking pay for that many dates. Nor do I want to waste my time...if I only want her for that of course.
 
This whole "ho" nonsense is simply immature, highschool mentality. If you are an adult, and I hope you are, you will simply cease labeling people based on their actions. You don't know all the circumstances that lead up to her doing this. Besides, if you two really click and make a good couple, does it really matter?
 
Judging people based on their sexual behaviour is wrong (assuming that behaviour is legal and doesn't hurt anyone). You could make an argument that sex before marriage is wrong, but i don't think you'll find too many who would agree. Again, we are all hypocrites.
 
:devil:
Before I was married, I dated several women who slept we me on the first date. I don't consider them whores, after all how could they resist?:biggrin:
 
Yes, sex on the first date AUTOMATICALLY qualifies a chick for the title HO :rolleyes: .

My question is: What does that make the guy?(MY HERO)

I have had FOUR GUYS blow it (we are talking I lost interest IMMEDIATELY) just because they were A)pushy w/A KISS or B)made to many joking sexualy innuendos.

I am no virgin, but was IMMEDIATELY TURNED OFF.
 
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hey-

I'm actually having a problem with this at school. I've dated three girls recently, and all have expected sex on the first date. When I don't give it to them and tell them they will have to wait - they ditch me. I've talked to some peeps about it. Some think it is the girls I am choosing, and I think it is just this school is geared towards one night stands. I am not looking for that, I want to actually get to know someone and date a little first (God forbid!).
 
Sex is not some gigantic mysterious experience. Sex is something people do all the time. Just because a person (male or female) enjoys sexual pleasure it does not make them a person of low morals.

There are many other things which are much worse than having sex on the first date to be wary of. It's only sex! Geez!

:horny:
 
Gotta love them head case chics with issues who have a “no sex on 1st date rule”....makes NO SENSE..if you are sexually attracted to each other and the moment is there YOU FUCK…grow up kids…huge mistake to make a guy wait whos VERY into sex….especially if the girl makes you wait real long like a month or so (not sure why ANY guy would wait that along unless hes banging other chics on the side then ok) ive convinced MANY a girl with these dumb sex rules to change their ways….basically by just telling them the truth about how I am with relationships..sex is a HUGE deal to me…I like it and I like it often…I’m good at it and the chic has to be just as good…if the sex is NOT good..there is NO relationship…relationships are made up of different components…and if the sex is lacking or sucks..the relationship is doomed one way or another…..

Heres the scenario….girl makes guy wait…4weeks or so….girl gets REAL ATTACHED to the guy (since he treats all girls he dates nice)…REALLY likes him…they finally have sex…the sex sucks or the girl is uptight about sex or isn’t as sexual as the guy..the guy LOSES INTEREST…the girl gets CRUSHED …..the girl hates the guy….all because of her STUPID “rule”

Back in the day I used to think a girl was a slut if she banged you on the 1st date..but I have since changed my mind (because all girls are sluts lol) …the longest relationships I have had..coinicidentally I slept with the girl on the 1st date…

So like I said…I’ve made girls re think their dumb rule..and when they actually think about it…my way makes sense
 
fistfullofsteel said:
first date. Does that mean she is a ho? I don't think it does but the other guys I talked to are saying yes. :confused: They were saying they would lose respect for her after that.


Then why do most men try and talk us into giving it up on the first date?



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Legs1010 said:



Then why do most men try and talk us into giving it up on the first date?



:(


ummm because we are dogs. Legs1010, post a pic. I am not convinced that you aren't may1010.
 
I don't see much dating going on on the Discovery Channel... those animals get down and dirty right from the get-go. We should follow suit.
 
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Legs1010 said:



Then why do most men try and talk us into giving it up on the first date?



:(


1. Because they have already written you off the first 5 min. as just someone they want to fuck and thats all

2. Most guys aren't out their looking for a spouse --- so why go through the chase

3. All guys think that women think the same as they do when it comes to sex

4. Their are so many women that use their sexuality as a tool---they send out mixed messages to guys who don't know the game. Watch Blind Date any night of the week and see what I mean

5. Last but not least --they are probably going to go home and shake one out anyways--if their is any chance that they don't have to do it themselves or call up one of their sure things--then why not?

peace:)
 
How long you should wait before you have sex with someone is relative. It depends on each situation...and the people involved. Sometimes people just can't resist...and others they just choose to wait. It's really up to the two parties involved.
 
Night Fly said:
How long you should wait before you have sex with someone is relative. It depends on each situation...and the people involved. Sometimes people just can't resist...and others they just choose to wait. It's really up to the two parties involved.

Good advice. I like to wait. (hee hee)
 
jennifer said:
Also, if you want to stick your little dick in a chicks wet hole on the first date, that makes you a great guy, and women will respect you for it........:fro: :D

Exactly, guys will look down on a woman for sleeping with a man on the first date and then turn around and pat the guy she slept with on the back.:(

If it's right for one to do it, then it's right for the other person.
 
Jimsbbc said:
hey-

I'm actually having a problem with this at school. I've dated three girls recently, and all have expected sex on the first date. this school is geared towards one night stands.
..............wish i wudda gone to your school!!!:D
 
A guy who has sex with a girl on the first date would be considered by me as a male slut. I think its nasty and my morals are too high to do it.
 
Lifter4Life said:
A guy who has sex with a girl on the first date would be considered by me as a male slut. I think its nasty and my morals are too high to do it.

Wow...not the response I expected. I think more men need to think that way...kudos to you!
 
Personally, I like to wait until I really know the guy....

Sex is only 10% of a relationship in my opinion, so if it did end up not being that great, it wouldn't be the end of the world----plus, as you get to know your partner the sex becomes better....

but mostly, I don't want to get pregnant from someone I don't know, or share myself with every guy I go out with-----

yes, sex is very special to me, and I ALWAYS make the guy wait, but typically, I date guys that like to wait as well------

If a guy can't wait until we get to know each other, then he can get his hairy ass out of my life for all I care
 
jennifer said:

If a guy can't wait until we get to know each other, then he can get his hairy ass out of my life for all I care


Amen, sistah! I am dating a guy who was willing to wait, of course we are now having sex but that is not all we are about. I am glad I made him wait. I finally got it through my head that I don't have to sleep with a guy to make him like me. If that is all he thinks I am worth, fuck him.
 
fistfullofsteel said:
first date. Does that mean she is a ho?

So you think she only fucks you on the first date because your special? :rolleyes:
 
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