I hear you on the girl problems...last night some girl goes "you talk to girls bad". I cant seem to win, when I am nice they dont like me..when I joke around they think I am an asshole. I am to try just using facial expressions or something. I might try that shy line but it only would work on certain girls. I think right now I would have the best shot getting a girl at the gym or down the shore...I am in pretty good shape so those are the places where I have the most confidence.