I am very clear today on how the rest of my life goes

[pdaddyII]

Oooh so it is so much better for his wife to be lied to and disrespected. Eventually the truth bubbles to the surface so his kids will know (if they don't already). So maybe his son can marry and cheat cause, hell, dad did it. And let's not forget about his sweet little girl. Her happily ever after should include prince charming boning every young thing that comes along.

That sounds way better to me. Yea, SB, stay, pretend, go thru your mood swings cause you're miserable until you finally lose it.

You seriously ruin every fucking thread you post in. Why would anyone take advice from a white trash ghetto car drivin hooker that enables her dead beat baby daddy? You obviously suck at life based on poor decisions.

 

[ceo]

But that's just not him. There comes a time when you gotta look yourself in the mirror and admit to the parts if you that can't be changed. His cheating on his wife can't be changed, he's tried.

If that's the case then he should really avoid marrying another one.

 

[zwhit]

Touché, V.

I don't give a shit about SB but I'll give my opinion anyway.

I think he should man up and come clean to his wife and leave the decision up to her, if he respects her even a little bit. I'd ask her to keep it from the kids so he can try to save face, but if she feels that she should tell them the truth, he brought it on himself. Ask for forgiveness. You'd save yourself some guilt and have a chance to make good on your promise to her and your kids you made when you married her and had kids with her. That's what a decent man would do, anyway.

Or you can keep feeling sorry for yourself and crying to people on the internet about how fucking troubled you are.

 

[blueta2]

I'm confused here, didn't Sweetie V have an on line long distance affair with SB or were they just friends. I mean phone sex with a married man is being a cheater with him!

 

[blueta2]

Touché, V.

I don't give a shit about SB but I'll give my opinion anyway.

I think he should man up and come clean to his wife and leave the decision up to her, if he respects her even a little bit. I'd ask her to keep it from the kids so he can try to save face, but if she feels that she should tell them the truth, he brought it on himself. Ask for forgiveness. You'd save yourself some guilt and have a chance to make good on your promise to her and your kids you made when you married her and had kids with her. That's what a decent man would do, anyway.

Or you can keep feeling sorry for yourself and crying to people on the internet about how fucking troubled you are.

I don't know SB at all, but I'm pretty sure he's in the midst of some sort of sex or attention addiction. If this is a true addiction, then it's not as easy as you say.
He can tell her and "man up" but until he fixes what's broken in him, whether it be this wife or the next, he will always be on the hunt for the next high.
If he's serious about getting help, then yes a msg board in not really the place, but either therapy or a group would be good.
And yes, tell the wife and have her participate if she wants to help him.
Most women would walk away though

 

[ceo]

I'm confused here, didn't Sweetie V have an on line long distance affair with SB or were they just friends. I mean phone sex with a married man is being a cheater with him!

Oh no, you got it right. the affair part that is.

 

[just...v]

If that's the case then he should really avoid marrying another one.

I agree.

SB isn't a bad person. He loves his kids very much. I just think that he needs to realize that he is not the type of guy that should be married.

 

[just...v]

I'm confused here, didn't Sweetie V have an on line long distance affair with SB or were they just friends. I mean phone sex with a married man is being a cheater with him!

Those are some keen observation skills there. Im impressed.

 

[Strongbow]

What does Jesus say about all this SB? I thought JC was supposed to help with your burdens?

He told me to beat that shit till its raw and make baby beezy f babys to save the world in times of judgement. Some of you people seriously need therapy got damn

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[blueta2]

Those are some keen observation skills there. Im impressed.

Well then I suggest you take your own advice! Do you think you're a good example to your kid(s)?
You're dishing out the advice like you're exempt from the same behavior as SB!
What you do is ok?