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bigtasty25
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okay...there's this major italian/latino tanned out hottie that goes to my gym...5'6 120 maybe but very toned/slightly muscular...very, very hot...about my age..mid 20s...so we've talked once when i was a week out from my show (she was near me on a machine)...and i noticed a chemistry "click"...which is rare...so im getting ready for my show the next few weeks and am kinda agitated so dont talk to many ppl (including her)...although we said hi to each other a few times leading up to the show. Well after my show i see her on the stairmaster, we have a really nice chat, and wow...this girl really is something...smart, sweet, gorgeous, caring...she seems pefect (from what i know so far at least).
So it's been a few weeks since then and im now bulking and sometimes i look a bit bloated and she doesnt seem too interested in talking when im lifting heavy ass weight, all aggressive since im on alot of fina/mast/deca/test. (i think she likes the sweeter type girls...which i am, but on these androgens it kinda hides that fact at times when i workout). For some reason when i workout, she always happens to be near me, i find alot of times she comes near me to workout, but doesnt look at me or start a convo...but she is with some girls so i dont wanna stop her convo (i prefer to talk to a girl by herself not with a bunch of teeny boppers she was with). And sometimes i come near her n workout but im so focused on my workout that i have tunnel vision and dont really say anything..and she looks directly at me quite a bit sometimes. So we still just say "hi" to each other a few times a week...she has the same workout schedule timing as me... the last few times i said hi (being very nice, polite, assertive/confident) but she just sais "ugh..yeah...im so tired these days" and walks away..)...and well..today i come into the gym all tanned out, and much less bloated, and looking great...and well, i workout 20 feet away from her and I start talking to this really pretty girl for about 5-10 minutes...right in front of her (i did it on purpose to make her jealous). Well after the talk, this girl i like (the italian/latino) is looking directly at me with a kinda jealous/worried/sad look on her face...i was gunna talk to her but made a clean exit to the side so she'd know what she's missing out on.
These damn games folks...us 20 some yr olds...lol...i knew she was playin a game with me so i had to fight back...so now tell me...i really would like to ask her out for a cup of coffee...i feel deep down inside she likes me alot but is trying to play hard since i act like tom cruise in the gym talking to all my friends (just like i like her with that chemistry i find we have)...
if i ask for out for some coffee...how can i assure she'll go with me so we can get to know each other?
1)say she lies and sais "i have a bf"...what do i tell her then?
I honestly think i can provide more for her than her boyfriend can, we look so compatible its scary, ...not trying to sound cocky but this girl deserves the best...shes so adorable..
2)what if she sais: oh im so busy these days i dunno"
or
3)I dont really know you that well
how would i counteract these situations to benefit me?
Thanks so much guys! and sorry for the long read!
So it's been a few weeks since then and im now bulking and sometimes i look a bit bloated and she doesnt seem too interested in talking when im lifting heavy ass weight, all aggressive since im on alot of fina/mast/deca/test. (i think she likes the sweeter type girls...which i am, but on these androgens it kinda hides that fact at times when i workout). For some reason when i workout, she always happens to be near me, i find alot of times she comes near me to workout, but doesnt look at me or start a convo...but she is with some girls so i dont wanna stop her convo (i prefer to talk to a girl by herself not with a bunch of teeny boppers she was with). And sometimes i come near her n workout but im so focused on my workout that i have tunnel vision and dont really say anything..and she looks directly at me quite a bit sometimes. So we still just say "hi" to each other a few times a week...she has the same workout schedule timing as me... the last few times i said hi (being very nice, polite, assertive/confident) but she just sais "ugh..yeah...im so tired these days" and walks away..)...and well..today i come into the gym all tanned out, and much less bloated, and looking great...and well, i workout 20 feet away from her and I start talking to this really pretty girl for about 5-10 minutes...right in front of her (i did it on purpose to make her jealous). Well after the talk, this girl i like (the italian/latino) is looking directly at me with a kinda jealous/worried/sad look on her face...i was gunna talk to her but made a clean exit to the side so she'd know what she's missing out on.
These damn games folks...us 20 some yr olds...lol...i knew she was playin a game with me so i had to fight back...so now tell me...i really would like to ask her out for a cup of coffee...i feel deep down inside she likes me alot but is trying to play hard since i act like tom cruise in the gym talking to all my friends (just like i like her with that chemistry i find we have)...
if i ask for out for some coffee...how can i assure she'll go with me so we can get to know each other?
1)say she lies and sais "i have a bf"...what do i tell her then?
I honestly think i can provide more for her than her boyfriend can, we look so compatible its scary, ...not trying to sound cocky but this girl deserves the best...shes so adorable..
2)what if she sais: oh im so busy these days i dunno"
or
3)I dont really know you that well
how would i counteract these situations to benefit me?
Thanks so much guys! and sorry for the long read!
