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heatherrae
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LOL on the iguana. Be careful. Don't hurt him. Thanks for the kind words. Keep us updated on how you do with this gal.
how to brake the ice with this girl i know?
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bigtasty25
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lol i wont..i had the beast for 10 years..since he was 6 months and only 1 ounce..sucker is a good 15lbs now ;-).
Well i did talk to her today a few times actually...quick talk kinda...she commented on how lean ive gotten, she asked if i eat at all lmao...i told her im bulking now for the last 4-5 weeks she looked stunned lol. talked to her again later on, she came next right next to me to workout (gym was super crowded...there must have been 500 ppl there today ughh)...i asked her what she is doing jobwise this summer...talked to me about that a little..then asked what im doing...so i told her finishing college this summer , maybe some personal training like her as well, actually she asked if im gunna do that like her, (graduating in exercise science told her as well) then doing nursing in the fall. (so if she DIDNT know be4 that i was into helping others/caring..now she knows..lol). Plus the nursing field/health care in general makes a shitload down here in south fla anywhoo since there';s a really big shortage of nurses, well thats kinda the whole united states, but especially here in south fla since alot of the baby boomers retire down here. SO we talked a bit on those things then parted casually..so now we have a basic idea of the directions we're headed in...i came up with more questions to ask her (related ones to what she's told me) when i see her next so we'll continue feeding each other info. then later this week when the gym's less crowded (by thurs/fri its downsized tenfold usually...much more open space to walk around), ill ask her out for some coffee after the gym n we'll see how that goes.
its funny she comments on me being really ripped cuz she's in better shape than 99.8% of the females at that gym, i might try to encourage her to do a figure show (same show im doing this september...probably the NPC Florida State Open in orlando)
heck, you should do that show heather...i saw some of your profile pics..you're in marvolous shape! and you're 36..lol jeez..more girls like you should be at my gym lol..
Well i did talk to her today a few times actually...quick talk kinda...she commented on how lean ive gotten, she asked if i eat at all lmao...i told her im bulking now for the last 4-5 weeks she looked stunned lol. talked to her again later on, she came next right next to me to workout (gym was super crowded...there must have been 500 ppl there today ughh)...i asked her what she is doing jobwise this summer...talked to me about that a little..then asked what im doing...so i told her finishing college this summer , maybe some personal training like her as well, actually she asked if im gunna do that like her, (graduating in exercise science told her as well) then doing nursing in the fall. (so if she DIDNT know be4 that i was into helping others/caring..now she knows..lol). Plus the nursing field/health care in general makes a shitload down here in south fla anywhoo since there';s a really big shortage of nurses, well thats kinda the whole united states, but especially here in south fla since alot of the baby boomers retire down here. SO we talked a bit on those things then parted casually..so now we have a basic idea of the directions we're headed in...i came up with more questions to ask her (related ones to what she's told me) when i see her next so we'll continue feeding each other info. then later this week when the gym's less crowded (by thurs/fri its downsized tenfold usually...much more open space to walk around), ill ask her out for some coffee after the gym n we'll see how that goes.
its funny she comments on me being really ripped cuz she's in better shape than 99.8% of the females at that gym, i might try to encourage her to do a figure show (same show im doing this september...probably the NPC Florida State Open in orlando)
heck, you should do that show heather...i saw some of your profile pics..you're in marvolous shape! and you're 36..lol jeez..more girls like you should be at my gym lol..
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heatherrae
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Congrats on talking to her a bit. She sounds like a nice girl. It does sound like you have lots in common with her.
Thanks for the compliment. I'm no where near the shape that is required for a show. I'm working on my figure presently, but wouldn't ever want to put in the time that would be required to do a show.
Thanks for the compliment. I'm no where near the shape that is required for a show. I'm working on my figure presently, but wouldn't ever want to put in the time that would be required to do a show.
bigtasty25
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thanks heather...it wasnt the first time i talked to her ya know lol...just havent in the last week or 10 days id suppose, felt friction/tension i guess...
good idea...to be a competitor u either gotta be crazy, or rich (or both)...and im not rich, so u do the math..lol..
today i wasnt in the best mood for some reason...just one of "those days", hell, i wasnt in a bad mood persay, just more neutral id suppose (which i consider an off day, which i havent had much of lately thankfully)..i did talk to a few of my buddies though...but right be4 my workout was done i went on a stepmaster maybe 20 feet from (behind) that girl mentioned above (fabiana)...so i could see her clearly...but didnt talk to her today cuz 1) i wasnt in the best mood, maybe due to it being cloudy/rainy outside all day, who knows...2)(and mostly) talked to her yesterday already, was gunna purposely try to seem busy today (towards her)...but its funny, i had my head phones on and looking in a slightly diff direction than where she was on purpose...even though seeing her from the rear on the stairclimber was an amazing sight lmao...and right be4 she left she popped up right next to me, stopped in front of me, with a big smile on her face waving right at me from like 5-7 feet away...i just HAD to give her a warm fuzzy smile even though i wasnt in a great mood...just interacting with her does that to me somehow...lol...puts me in a good mood. It's like ...I am not even trying, when im asking her questions n talking to her..getting to know her, since i genuinly want to know about her. Right after that she left (i noticed a smile kinda on her face as she was leaving). It was kinda suprising because i didnt expect her to do that as she doesnt EVER come up to any guys (that ive seen anyways, and shes there the same time as me...almost always)..just found it suprising...anyways just thought id share.
Heather...Ive heard that when a woman (that you're interested in, but not currently dating) sees you talking to other women, or other woman talking to you and whatknot..they get the impression that youre desirable by other women and thus feel they should be talking to you too, that you posess qualities that other woman desire and like about you. Do u as a woman believe this to be true? Or would they get envious, jealous, intimdated, and stop wanting to talk to you? Im hoping it's the first one..since thats what ive been told...but the thought of them possibly not liking that cuz they might think ure a player, crossed my mind somewhere too... hmm..
good idea...to be a competitor u either gotta be crazy, or rich (or both)...and im not rich, so u do the math..lol..
today i wasnt in the best mood for some reason...just one of "those days", hell, i wasnt in a bad mood persay, just more neutral id suppose (which i consider an off day, which i havent had much of lately thankfully)..i did talk to a few of my buddies though...but right be4 my workout was done i went on a stepmaster maybe 20 feet from (behind) that girl mentioned above (fabiana)...so i could see her clearly...but didnt talk to her today cuz 1) i wasnt in the best mood, maybe due to it being cloudy/rainy outside all day, who knows...2)(and mostly) talked to her yesterday already, was gunna purposely try to seem busy today (towards her)...but its funny, i had my head phones on and looking in a slightly diff direction than where she was on purpose...even though seeing her from the rear on the stairclimber was an amazing sight lmao...and right be4 she left she popped up right next to me, stopped in front of me, with a big smile on her face waving right at me from like 5-7 feet away...i just HAD to give her a warm fuzzy smile even though i wasnt in a great mood...just interacting with her does that to me somehow...lol...puts me in a good mood. It's like ...I am not even trying, when im asking her questions n talking to her..getting to know her, since i genuinly want to know about her. Right after that she left (i noticed a smile kinda on her face as she was leaving). It was kinda suprising because i didnt expect her to do that as she doesnt EVER come up to any guys (that ive seen anyways, and shes there the same time as me...almost always)..just found it suprising...anyways just thought id share.
Heather...Ive heard that when a woman (that you're interested in, but not currently dating) sees you talking to other women, or other woman talking to you and whatknot..they get the impression that youre desirable by other women and thus feel they should be talking to you too, that you posess qualities that other woman desire and like about you. Do u as a woman believe this to be true? Or would they get envious, jealous, intimdated, and stop wanting to talk to you? Im hoping it's the first one..since thats what ive been told...but the thought of them possibly not liking that cuz they might think ure a player, crossed my mind somewhere too... hmm..
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heatherrae
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I think it is true, actually. You can't help but see a guy as a catch if he talks to beautiful women and they come up and talk to him, too. I guess I would get turned off if he was grabby with them or if it looked like he was already taken. I don't make a habit of getting involved with anyone who has a girlfriend or who is a playboy type (too much drama for my taste). Yeah, though, it would make me more desirous and envious. If I were interested in him, I would want to make him all mine. =-)
bigtasty25
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I had another encounter/experience with her (the mexican/italian tanned out girl) the other day at the gym actually, long story so im gunna take a nap in a few so ill get more into it later tonight since im dead tired at the moment lol.
I wont brag, but sure I talk to females at my gym just like I imagine you talk to guys ...which is good because nobody could ever have enough friends. Hell even if I had a gf, or even a serious one, I honestly wouldnt care one bit if she had guy friends she hungout with. Why?...because a relationship is about trust, total trust in one another, and if I trust her I know she wouldnt cheat on me, and vice versa. I wish more of my ex's were like that lol. It always come down to trust & honesty in the thick of things anyways...
I just watched the movie "Just Friends" last night (sunday night)...story of my life right there, so close to it actually, that it's almost scary...LOL...that girl Amy Smart...now her...Id def want to make all mine....that's my definition of the perfect girl..LOL...shes so my type...same with that girl from the Notebook...4got her name...
Although im not the jealous type, if i knew she was seeing another guy or something close to it, and if i were interested in her, Id want to make her all mine =-)
I wont brag, but sure I talk to females at my gym just like I imagine you talk to guys ...which is good because nobody could ever have enough friends. Hell even if I had a gf, or even a serious one, I honestly wouldnt care one bit if she had guy friends she hungout with. Why?...because a relationship is about trust, total trust in one another, and if I trust her I know she wouldnt cheat on me, and vice versa. I wish more of my ex's were like that lol. It always come down to trust & honesty in the thick of things anyways...
I just watched the movie "Just Friends" last night (sunday night)...story of my life right there, so close to it actually, that it's almost scary...LOL...that girl Amy Smart...now her...Id def want to make all mine....that's my definition of the perfect girl..LOL...shes so my type...same with that girl from the Notebook...4got her name...
Although im not the jealous type, if i knew she was seeing another guy or something close to it, and if i were interested in her, Id want to make her all mine =-)
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