4+ times a week, and I feel sorry for guys who make love to their wives or GF once a week or once a month. I guess I am lucky I have a wife who likes to please me.
Don't let me lie, she isn't always in the mood when I am; but I have found ways to help her relax and focus on pleasing me. Baths, date nights, massages, chocolates, strawberries, and flowers seem to keep her focused on pleasing me.
My Philosophy:
If mama isn't happy, noone is happy
My wife pleases me alot and I show effort to please her, by making sure she feels special. It is a two way street. A quick nut then go to sleep right away is not the ticket to having frequent sex with your spouse. -IMO