How do I get over my ex girlfriend? ?

[powerlifter198]

Its been about 8 months and I still think about her everyday, check her Facebook and see how shes all in love with her new bf.
I feel bad, deppressed, sad angry at times.

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[bonacris]

Remove her from Facebook and block her completely.

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[powerlifter198]

Do u think she checks up on my facebook?

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[bonacris]

Nope.. why would she? Not to be cruel but women are cunts. Remember all the bad shit about her and realise you finished for a reason

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[Arabian]

You need to cut all ties with her, delete her facebook , put all of her photos up, delete her number and her from your life.... You need to get on match.com, plentyofish, eharmony.com and MOVE on. There is a reason unknown to you now why the relationship failed however I promise you once you find someone else and fall in love again , it will be picture clear all the reasons it failed and you will look back and say , I sure am glad she left. Ask any guy on here this and they will tell you the same thing. Delete her from your life and listen , use this time to get in shape and work on YOU, then when you are not expecting it you will find the love of your life. Best of luck and if you need someone to talk to, you pm me my friend.

 

[Mad Jasper]

All this^^^

But I wouldn't necessarily start dating again if you're still hung up on the ex. You need some you time bro. Workout, hangout with friends, take up a hobby you've been wanting to do, etc. Once the ex is a passing thought, you're ready to invest into another relationship. Otherwise you're just shifting the focus of your obsession from one girl to another.

Sex is ok though. You can have as much sex as you want.

 

[alicepattinson]

Hmmmm. Why did you break up anyway? Di you cheat on her or she cheated on you? Or any other reasons?

 

[broscience]

Bro there is no need to be depressed over a girl unless your married and have kids. If she isnt your wife and dont have kids then being depressed is stupid. There are plenty of girls out there and if you dont think so then you aint putting yourself out there enough.
The best thing is be as busy as possible. Keep your head up brother


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[Fitguy3030]

Dude it's been 8 months man up delete her shit get rid of anything that reminds you of her you probly have some of her stuff in your bedroom toss it all and forget her. We've all been there

 

[wootoom]

Go slay some pussy


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[RobRobbie]

Cut all ties, delete and block her. Its not healthy. Go out and try to meet someone new.

 

[wootoom]

suck it up

 

[joonp]

Its been 8 months and ur checking her fb? Ur borderline stalker status. Cut all ties and move on. Theres like 4 billion people on the earth and if half are female that means u go almost two billion other females to try to hook up with lol so go out there and fuck as many as u can

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[manolo17]

block her!! thats why you're sad all the time brah! the best you can do is going to the gym, get some distraction, go out with other girls o with your friends, clear your mind

you will be fine, i promise

 

[Mctx]

The only way you can do this, is to completely remove her from your life. That means any forms of social networking, number, photos everything. Things happen for a reason whether it seems a good or bad reason.
Go out on the rebound, go to town, pull a few girls, hell even take them back home! It'll work wonders on your confidence and the boost you need to move on.
8 months is a long time to still keep checking up on her, especially if she's in a new relationship. That should scream move on in itself.
We've all been there, it's a tough situation but time does heal everything.


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[muscle2012]

It's like a wound…it needs time to heal but if you constantly tamper with it you delay the healing process. Some wounds heal faster than other and I know it might feel you will never be yourself again - you will be.
Sad to say some wounds heal and leave a scare behind but at least the pain will be away.
Good luck

 

[MrSinister]

Bang her sister.

 

[nickelonenone]

Honestly what I did was find a rebound and then somehow I ended up fallin in the love with the chick and I have a feelin thats gonna end soon so I just plan on rebounding again lol im just gonna miss the sex thats why I always rebound so fast I dont like jerkin off lmao Go find some new tail and tear it up bro

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[thelion2005]

I am 70 and have tons of experience with all these ups and downs. My advice is simple:
Get a rebound girl immediately. Not a replacement or revenge ... good company! And get rid of all the reminders.
And pick out some friends and or family members to be extra good to. Give of yourself to them.

 

[zatawe23]

I recently went through a broke up and she cheated on me 6 times. This is what helped me:
I looked at this kid, and by no means am I talking myself up or anything, but damn she downgraded. The kids face was hideous, his breath smelled, he had disgusting scabs on his face like a meth user. Right then and there I knew it was time to move on. Being I am still in college, I took full advantage of all of the horny drunk girls and just after 1 girl I knew it would be easy to get over my ex and wanted to get more but from other girls. Trust me I was in the same boat. During my break up, all of my friends would say "there are plenty of fish in the sea". But I couldn't see that and its obvious you can't either, but thats expected. You have to take my word for this, and another bro here on EF can vouch for this. There ARE in fact other girls out there who are better in many ways. You will find them.

For this one time you have to think of all the bad things. What made you unhappy? Write them down.. If there was EVER a moment where you started doubting your relationship or felt like you just wanted to be away from her, then thats the only assurance you need that it wasn't meant to be. Don't think of the happy things, I'm sorry to be a blunt ass but you probably won't get her back so the happy things are just memories now.

Start talking to a new girl. Don't alway go for looks brotha, I've learned that lesson a lot. Get a girl with brains, who is loyal, not shady, doesn't have only guy friends. This will help you because regardless if you say you aren't, every guy gets jealous. Talk to this girl for a month or so, get really comfortable around her if you can tell she is doing the same. This always helps me.

Good luck, hope this helps at least the slightest bit.